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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Who else notices people making snide comments on other peoples threads just because they're not getting any attention ?

I started two hearted thread threads recently (not sex related) and someone posted it was lame and another person made a similar comment and I had a pm saying I shouldn't be on fab if I wanted to talk about coffee and salads

Of course they're entitled to post what they want but I find it quite sad to be honest especially when you get others playing nicely and joining in.

I might be odd (no comment) ! But I quite enjoy threads about none sex stuff

Does anyone else or should fab be Sex only ?

I guess haters gonna hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have as much right as anyone else to post what you like on the forums. If they don’t like it they don’t have to read it. Carry on doing what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post whatever you want and if reincarnation exists, let me be the bird that will shit on them

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Cheers guys much appreciated

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

hell no! If it was all about sex I'd be long gone.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Just ignore them and carry on with your threads sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell no! If it was all about sex I'd be long gone.

"

Cocks fix everything

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have always believed that it's best not to worry how others choose to use the site and that works both ways...I use it how I want to and always have done, if people don't like how I use it it's their prerogative but not a problem for me.

There always will be those small minded people who choose to disrupt for the sake of it though, it's the nature of internet forums no matter the topic.

Whilst I enjoy discussing sex and sexuality, if that was the *only* topic of conversation I'd bore of the site fairly quickly to be honest...so just carry on doing "you" OP and don't worry about others and their snide comments

And for the record I usually enjoy your threads whatever the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It needs to be a balance. I post loads of pervy stuff but I like to read and post stuff non sex related too.

Keep doing you, ignore them

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Ignore them, and carry on fabbing as you want

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I think the most interesting and amusing threads on here are often the ones that aren't focused on sex. Just keep posting what you want OP, if others aren't interested in the content then they are free to scroll on by.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see drama on most threads tbh ... don't take it personally

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We like the lighthearted stuff, I thought the lounge was meant for stuff like that.

If the non-sex related threads weren’t here we would be wading through a higher density of ‘cock size’ and ‘I like cock am I bi’ threads.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"hell no! If it was all about sex I'd be long gone.

Cocks fix everything "

Grrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell no! If it was all about sex I'd be long gone.

Cocks fix everything

Grrrrrrrrr "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have as much right as anyone else to post what you like on the forums. If they don’t like it they don’t have to read it. Carry on doing what you want "

couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You post what you like fella and take no notice of them. I don't think some of these folk really appreciate how their words can have an impact and also how they stall or detail a good thread. When we don't like something it's so much easier to just ignore and let folk enjoy their fun, no need for it. I'm a fan of yours, and I've always liked your style and honesty. Keep up the good work!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I like a good mix of threads. I wouldn’t worry about the odd negative comment and just focus on the others OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate you can talk about salads all day long if you want. Screw the people who make you feel like you have no right to post here. It would be boring if it was all just sex talk. I like the threads that are a little bit different.

Keep on being you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

The Lounge is for anything you want to post - to kick back have a laugh, serious discussion, whatever.

Want to talk just sex there's the Swingers forum.

Just because Fab is sex doesn't mean people don't have lives and interests outside of that.

I'm more likely to connect with someone not just talking about sex.

Keep posting the threads you want to post to keep making the Lounge the interesting and varied place it is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hi Sam, it's what the lounge is for. I've never posted a sex related thread unless you count asking how to dispose of a giant dildo. . I think my last one was "what can I do with excess cucumbers? “

Ignore 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee and salad fuck that’s a wrong combo.

If you feel the need just report them as in both the messages and forum posts.

But to be fair a open public forum is pretty much just thatpen and public.

Best of luck op.

T

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ignore them. You be you. Theres always going to be people who make passive aggressive comments. Pity them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my last one was "what can I do with excess cucumbers? “"

That was really a thinly veiled sex thread though, wasn't it??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think my last one was "what can I do with excess cucumbers? “

That was really a thinly veiled sex thread though, wasn't it?? "

Nope. I specifically asked that it wasn't

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Just be you and post what you wish OP, there will always be those that don’t like it, that’s their problem not yours

Personally I liked the salad one, some great combinations that I wouldn’t think of throwing together

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I love talking just about anything! U will allways get peeps saying snide stuff I dont even answer people that do! U keep posting ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time and I think it’s as funny as fuck

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Yes more from women who think there really funny but boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your threads . I also like the forum generally and there are loads of nice, cool, funny people...but there are also a lot of funsuckers who just get digs in for no reason. I don't get it at all, but I wouldn't let it get to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell no! If it was all about sex I'd be long gone.

Chocs fix everything "

Fify

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"hell no! If it was all about sex I'd be long gone.

Chocs fix everything

Fify "

Yes yes!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe start one about Sex Salad .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Forget that. Start one about Salad Sex

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I spat my coffee over my salad reading this!

It improved the taste.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I found the salad one really useful to be honest!

You keep doing you OP. People will read whatever/dislike whatever you post and as long as you're not breaking the rules, it's fine. I like the variety of threads we get, if I wanted to read about sex constantly I'd go in the Swingers chat forum more often.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Playfullsam - do you like coffee and salad?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely talk about sex or create threads talking about it.

Haters gonna hate, taters gonna tate.

Use Fab your way

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Playfullsam - do you like coffee and salad?! "

Having evaluated coffee I'm starting to think I'm going to remain a mug of tea kinda guy but yes please re salads

Tried adding mackerel in a sauce to it today but mackerel ain't no tuna

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Playfullsam - do you like coffee and salad?!

Having evaluated coffee I'm starting to think I'm going to remain a mug of tea kinda guy but yes please re salads

Tried adding mackerel in a sauce to it today but mackerel ain't no tuna "

I like a milky coffee or plain black and I agree, tuna is the superior salad fish

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I like your threads . I also like the forum generally and there are loads of nice, cool, funny people...but there are also a lot of funsuckers who just get digs in for no reason. I don't get it at all, but I wouldn't let it get to you x"

Is it wrong that I found 'funsuckers' a bit pervy ?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I like your threads . I also like the forum generally and there are loads of nice, cool, funny people...but there are also a lot of funsuckers who just get digs in for no reason. I don't get it at all, but I wouldn't let it get to you x

Is it wrong that I found 'funsuckers' a bit pervy ?"

It just shows you for who you are, Granny

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I had a pm saying I shouldn't be on fab if I wanted to talk about coffee"

Give me a name and address.

I will deal with the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bit of salad and coffee.. Win win for me OP

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I liked the salad thread, got some great ideas

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Sam do what I do, just ignore the arrogant feckers

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Sam do what I do, just ignore the arrogant feckers "

Who said that?!

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Sam do what I do, just ignore the arrogant feckers

Who said that?! "

Wasn't me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Sam do what I do, just ignore the arrogant feckers

Who said that?!

Wasn't me "

Someone is whispering in my ear

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Sam do what I do, just ignore the arrogant feckers

Who said that?!

Wasn't me

Someone is whispering in my ear "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to go and find the salad thread now, Summer is all about salad for me. And shove two fingers up to the moaners

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