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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What is the best way to help someone ?

Let's say ......

A homeless person

A jobless person

That type of thing. I don't mean making cakes for your neighbours 40th?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through organised charities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't patronise or look down on them. Help them see their own self worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True altruism doesn’t exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally donate food and clothes to a local charity that distributes them to local people.

I do have 2 charitys I give to on a monthly basis.

As I mentioned the other day I donate my bras to a charity that sends the to women in Africa and India.

I wish i could do more though as it never seems enough. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By doing it and not filming it, telling anyone,gloating about it etc.

Its not necessarily altruism otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" By doing it and not filming it, telling anyone,gloating about it etc.

Its not necessarily altruism otherwise? "

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It never is pure altruism but it's important how it is done nevertheless.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends on the person. In my opinion there's not a one size fits all solution.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I would ask them if they need help, them being homeless or jobless doesn't necessarily mean that they want one...

They maybe perfectly happy as they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" By doing it and not filming it, telling anyone,gloating about it etc.

Its not necessarily altruism otherwise? "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can only be the best version of yourself when being aultristic (is that really a word)

You may not always be right in your actions (and I am not saying do something so blatantly out there that is does not help the person) but that is not what it is about. It is about that selflish act itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What is the best way to help someone ?

Let's say ......

A homeless person

A jobless person

That type of thing. I don't mean making cakes for your neighbours 40th?"

Well you could start by asking them how they want to be helped?

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