FabSwingers.com forum: Local men darent meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's not just men who won't meet locally.....

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

that's true of plenty of women and couples too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them."

Nope it’s the ladies

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No locals want to meet me.

No non locals either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found quite a few locals wanting to meet..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Suits me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually. "

NW is full of horny buggers that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually. "

Ditto

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

NW is full of horny buggers that's why

yes this is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then again it might be me not them

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm from Derby, and most of the Ladies that I used to meet travelled to meet me from the South Coast

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Suits me."

I do not meet men local to me but plenty ask.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Lots of people local to me are on fab, I avoid all of them

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Not strictly true. I'm frequently messaged by a man who lives across the road from me.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We use the site to make friends as well as adding extra to our sex lives. So we don’t have an issue meetIng local people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being rural, 50 miles away would be local to me!!

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I've met locals, even one person who I walked to their house. I have never recognised anyone or been recognised myself.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Not the case here, lots locally want to meet

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually. "

Same.

I used to meet locally as I dont have a car - but I had a couple of dramas with uninvited people turning up at my place

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

You can be a little too local. I don’t want embarrassing moments in the corner shop.

Then again, maybe I do?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s the opposite here... northerner fabbers are round every corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s the opposite here... northerner fabbers are round every corner! "

You’re a mucky bunch of buggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m actually pretty sure I’d be the same. I’m very tentative to meet anyone to close to me and my partner’s vanilla life.

It’s to do with compartmentalising you’re fab life and day to day life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind meeting someone local

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

Same.

I used to meet locally as I dont have a car - but I had a couple of dramas with uninvited people turning up at my place

That’s not good.

keep yourself safe

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I keep getting recognised......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

Same.

I used to meet locally as I dont have a car - but I had a couple of dramas with uninvited people turning up at my place

That’s not good.

keep yourself safe "

Thanks lovely - it was years ago when I first joined sites like Fab and didn't know better!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

Same.

I used to meet locally as I dont have a car - but I had a couple of dramas with uninvited people turning up at my place

That’s not good.

keep yourself safe

Thanks lovely - it was years ago when I first joined sites like Fab and didn't know better!"

It’s amazing what you learn from here over time.

Glad your ok x

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By *oetryinMotionMan
over a year ago

Queens

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By *oetryinMotionMan
over a year ago

Queens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's both men and women personally I wouldnt want to meet someone who lived in same village as me could be very awkward

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You can be a little too local. I don’t want embarrassing moments in the corner shop.

Then again, maybe I do?"

I meet someone off here who goes to the same gym as me

. It's cool though, we can be friends as well as fuck.

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Im not sure if anyone lives near me anyway!

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By *oetryinMotionMan
over a year ago

Queens

"I keep getting recognised......

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Yeah probably because you have some sick artwork.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I would if I have a chance....

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I keep getting recognised......

Yeah probably because you have some sick artwork. "

Thanks...... sick is good yeah?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Im not sure if anyone lives near me anyway! "

Are you that guy who lives between the two sides of the m62?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fussy....

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By *oetryinMotionMan
over a year ago

Queens

"I keep getting recognised......

Yeah probably because you have some sick artwork.

Thanks...... sick is good yeah?

Lol I forgot There’s a little bit of a difference in dialect

Yes my love you have beautiful tattoos

Been waiting to finishing my sleeve

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them."

Not 100% true.

I've met women who are VERY local to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a guy that lives 500m from me (as the crow flies) but he always messges me before, if he wants to come round.

Did have a guy try and 'track me down once' as I was walking home as I mentioned where I was and he was local. Luckily he missed me (but was in his car looking)!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I keep getting recognised......

Yeah probably because you have some sick artwork.

Thanks...... sick is good yeah?

Lol I forgot There’s a little bit of a difference in dialect

Yes my love you have beautiful tattoos

Been waiting to finishing my sleeve

I didn’t realise where you were!

Thank you. I do love them.

That’s exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think I would die of shock if I got a meet offer

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

Same.

I used to meet locally as I dont have a car - but I had a couple of dramas with uninvited people turning up at my place

Thats my worst nightmare

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

From a female point of view I’ve been very reluctant to meet a guy I’ve been chatting to for yrs for obvious close distance reasons. Since being back on here for a few months and chatting again I’ve finally agreed to a social with him tomorrow night so nervous hope he doesn’t stand me up and actually meets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never met local due to my job. But had plenty of locals wanting to meet. Maybe they don’t want to meet full stop at the moment due to Covid OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

Same.

I used to meet locally as I dont have a car - but I had a couple of dramas with uninvited people turning up at my place

Thats my worst nightmare

Mine too - it was awful.

I won't go into details - but it was a harsh lesson learnt!

I'm not traumatised by it and know that most men are decent humans - but we all need to be careful x

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

Lots of couples near me but either they only want couples or females or I'm too old

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them."

I prefer to meet someone local especially if your looking for something regular.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wouldn’t bother us, well unless it was someone we knew professionally.

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"From a female point of view I’ve been very reluctant to meet a guy I’ve been chatting to for yrs for obvious close distance reasons. Since being back on here for a few months and chatting again I’ve finally agreed to a social with him tomorrow night so nervous hope he doesn’t stand me up and actually meets me

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After speaking in the aft all seemed good but when the time came not a word and still to this day no apologies no explanation as to the silent treatment so my priorities have changed I think I have got off lucky that the local meet didn’t happen. Not going to consider a local meet in future!!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Don't mind meeting locals and have met some that are local.

Also Don't mind a bit of travel either

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually.

NW is full of horny buggers that's why

There's a horny bugger in Liverpool I'd like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any problems with meeting up locally

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would like to meet locally but no1 takes my fancy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve never met anyone local as no one has sparked my interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just men who won't meet locally..... "
You are right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few locals!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them."

I only meet local. And by local i mean walking distance because I'm lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" **Update**

Not going to consider a local meet in future!!"

His loss I'd say!

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By *iminey_cricketsMan
over a year ago

barbican

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them."

Nope. I’ve met girls less than a mile away.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them.

I only meet local. And by local i mean walking distance because I'm lazy"

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love the idea of a local meet. L is less keen but we have done them.

Sadly they are fairly rare as within 20 miles of us there aren't actually that many people. So the number who are swingers are vanishingly rare.

We're hoping to corrupt a friend of ours into becoming our local FWB in the next few weeks though, so that would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet locally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't its a bit of small minded thing to generalise its down to personal choice for everyone we all are entitled to make our own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally disagree with yo op,I'm very close to you and I get local guys wanting to meet all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local guys all wanna meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local guys all wanna meet me."

Me too!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I've met both near and far. As long as the chemistry is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local guys all wanna meet me.

Me too!"

Pesky local guys eh!!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We don't have that problem, no one of seems is local to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local guys all wanna meet me.

Me too!

Pesky local guys eh!!"

Yes, I have most of them blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never found that.... the complete opposite actually. "

Same here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local guys all wanna meet me.

Me too!

Pesky local guys eh!!

Yes, I have most of them fucked!

That’s your prerogative

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By *ischiefmanaged90Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Can't say the same for rest of the lads but id meet anyone local in fact thats probs my preferred way. Alot easier to arrange second meets if all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, very few locals interested... I mean, there is such a thing as TOO local and I have a few in my village blocked, but within 30 mins drive would be ideal.

I seem to attract men at the other side of the country

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Nope, can’t say it’s ever been an issue but then again there’s been some real special ones I’ve driven across the country for. Never had to be a

though

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Personally a local, regular meet would suit me just fine! I’ve nothing to hide, so nothing to worry about.

Offers are a little thin on the ground though.... (hint hint

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Benidorm for a week

"that's 100% true.they darent meet if you are local to them."

Well Durham is a long way from me, I'd be local if I was visiting my dad's grave, if you're near Houghton cemetery can you check up on it for me, be very grateful

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Im always looking to see who's local. I prefer meeting someone 5 - 10 miles from my area rather than 20 - 30

There are so many pros from a local meet

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

" **Update**

Not going to consider a local meet in future!!

His loss I'd say!"

Lol thanks maybe I should have worded it better I’m not going to consider living on your door step meets in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they do. I’ve only met local men.

Some won’t meet local women. That’s fine.

And some will meet local women. That’s fine.

If they’re all telling you that? Hmm....

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I prefer to use clubs outside the two that are local to me.

Private meets, I'll meet anywhere. Distance and location don't really matter (within reason)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally disagree with yo op,I'm very close to you and I get local guys wanting to meet all the time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet some of the women on my street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer local but if you go for a trip away, be it for a few days or longer. Always good to meet someone local to the area

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