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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "Usually just a clash between personalities. | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" " That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G  | |||
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"Most of the time it's nothing specific. It's more a feel thing. When you know, you know. "Yes this and also some the convo just flows, others its just as if they can't be arsed because they are talking to several at once. Or when the conversation is going great and they just say well do you fancy a fuck then or what. | |||
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"Most of the time it's nothing specific. It's more a feel thing. When you know, you know. "That's exactly it. I don't have a list of things I don't like - I just feel it. | |||
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"Women that eat berries from their feet." Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G "What size are yours Frida?  | |||
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"Women that eat berries from their feet. Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained "But are the feet clean? | |||
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"Women that eat berries from their feet. Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained
But are the feet clean?"Probably cleaner than some people’s hands. I do get if if they wanted to feed you said berries with their feet though... | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G "I know! | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "How about you Inca? | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
How about you Inca? "When they’re too keen... | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
How about you Inca?
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know! "Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter? | |||
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"Women that eat berries from their feet. Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained
But are the feet clean?
Probably cleaner than some people’s hands. I do get if if they wanted to feed you said berries with their feet though... "I'd be okay if they've had a bath. I'd even eat a strawberry from the bum! | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter? "Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller" | |||
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"When they call me love/baby/sweeheart etc Ask for pics/size my boobs are/what do I like One sentence answers or returning to the conversation with "Hi/How are you/GoodMorning" etc. BORING !! Disappearing for days at a time " People really ask the size of breasts??? | |||
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"When the conversation is stilted, one word or emoji replies When they start complaining about others on the site " That's the difference with me I always try and send a nice long message to begin with | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller" "Mine is bigger than your hands | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller" " | |||
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"Too keen. Too clingy. They mention other women (the lack of discretion and tact), they fawn over me in pm and ignore me on the forums, that kind of thing "Oh yes. I have had that recently. The mentioning other fab ladies that they want to meet! All in messages to ME! Like... if they want to meet these others why not just message THEM. Such a turn off, as every woman wants to be made to feel special! Just because we are on fab doesn't mean you can't use manners guys and try to woo us! | |||
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"I've heard that many people lose interest in me because something better comes along that really puts you in a bit of a pickle "How rude | |||
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"Xenophobia, lies, making judgemental comments about others, trying to compliment me by putting others down, if there's just not a mental spark enough to maintain attraction, if they don't get my sense of humour, if they start feeling entitled to me and my time, if they get pissy if I don't always reply super quickly to their messages, if they start making weird comments about my partner, posting desperate sounding statuses, incompatiblity in sexual tastes... God that's a lot isn't it . "Most of this | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "Never mind that, lets talk some more about your bum! | |||
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(Pre-covid times) Asking to meet for a social and then leaving it to me to find a place to have a drink/meal...
Asking sex related questions as if we were in a job interview: “do you squirt? do you like oral/anal? what times are you available to meet?”
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida? "Too big for you to handle | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
34B I reckon! "Waw how did you guess? | |||
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"When the conversation is stilted, one word or emoji replies When they start complaining about others on the site That's the difference with me I always try and send a nice long message to begin with "I'm not talking about first messages though. I mean when the conversation dries up. | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
Never mind that, lets talk some more about your bum!"Can you ever have a non sexual convo with a woman Bants? | |||
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"Sometimes its what they don't say...as in lack of effort when your having a conversation "Yes. | |||
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"“So what does one have to do to have fun with you?”
(Pre-covid times) Asking to meet for a social and then leaving it to me to find a place to have a drink/meal...
Asking sex related questions as if we were in a job interview: “do you squirt? do you like oral/anal? what times are you available to meet?”
and a long etcetera. "Sounds like more of an interrogation than a conversation! | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
Never mind that, lets talk some more about your bum!
Can you ever have a non sexual convo with a woman Bants? "Of course I can and I have done in the past....but what I chat about with my mother has nothing to do with anyone in here! | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"
There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club... "Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
Too big for you to handle
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"Someone that only wants to chat sex , that’s all good but I like a bit of ‘normal’ chatter too x" Exactly! You've got to have something to talk about! I had a perfectly pleasant but fairly uninteresting chat with a guy who asked some questions about our sex life - what we like, have done and want to do - which I answered. Then he asked if we wanted to meet. He seemed to think that asking us about our sex life counted as a conversation that would make us want to meet him. If somebody doesn't have anything more interesting to say or ask about than that then it's just going to be a no. | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"
There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...
Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story "It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together... | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "It’s usually mundane conversation - I’m not good with mundane | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"
There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...
Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story
It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together... "I'll make sure to bring the scales lol | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
Too big for you to handle
To be fair you had good warning "And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message.... | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
It’s usually mundane conversation - I’m not good with mundane "Oh yeeeeeessssssss | |||
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"Usually when I don't feel like I'm a priority because I'm a right diva like that..... "Come here let me stroke your head... | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
How about you Inca?
When they’re too keen..."I can see that but they might just be acting the fool? | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
Too big for you to handle
To be fair you had good warning
And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message.... "Really? You wouldn't really you're too nice | |||
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"Usually when I don't feel like I'm a priority because I'm a right diva like that.....
Come here let me stroke your head... "Always.... 
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
34B I reckon!
Waw how did you guess? "I had a little help from my 14” cock! And you say men can’t do sizes!! | |||
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"Sometimes its what they don't say...as in lack of effort when your having a conversation "I can see how someone could get that impression... | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
Too big for you to handle
To be fair you had good warning
And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message....
Really? You wouldn't really you're too nice "Depends if you're sending boobs or not..... | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
34B I reckon!
Waw how did you guess?
I had a little help from my 14” cock!
And you say men can’t do sizes!! "What you use your cock as a ruler
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"
There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...
Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story
It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together...
I'll make sure to bring the scales lol "I'll make sure I've got something to measure with..... | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
I know!
Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?
Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"
There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...
Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story
It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together...
I'll make sure to bring the scales lol
I'll make sure I've got something to measure with..... "Sounds like a fun evening to me | |||
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" Yes this and also some the convo just flows, others its just as if they can't be arsed because they are talking to several at once" I do like a bit of back and forth otherwise it can feel like you're talking into thin air. Especially on the web. Unless someone just says I'm busy at the moment how do you know?? | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "I’ve often wondered this.... but from the other perspective!  | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
I’ve often wondered this.... but from the other perspective! "Amen I hear you brother | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
34B I reckon!
Waw how did you guess?
I had a little help from my 14” cock!
And you say men can’t do sizes!!
What you use your cock as a ruler
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G
What size are yours Frida?
Too big for you to handle
To be fair you had good warning
And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message....
Really? You wouldn't really you're too nice
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"I don't think it's ever happened when I have lost interest because of something someone said. Usually the other way around and that's normal with the ratio on here "I hear you brother! (On a side note what's the temperature in Birmingham at the moment? Has it cooled down a bit?) | |||
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"Cooling down here in Brum. Dark clouds. " I had a feeling it might be... Thanks for the info. | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "It's more of a feeling than an actual thing said for me... Sometimes it's the wording of a message or constant misspelling, pathetic I know, but I do like to have a connection on meets and a chat, so if someone struggles to communicate even when they have spell check then they will probably struggle face to face. Is that me being petty..? | |||
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"People that can only manage only single word or really basic one line responses. If they can't engage enough to chat properly how poor is playtime potentially going to be." It's a conundrum  | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
It's more of a feeling than an actual thing said for me... Sometimes it's the wording of a message or constant misspelling, pathetic I know, but I do like to have a connection on meets and a chat, so if someone struggles to communicate even when they have spell check then they will probably struggle face to face. Is that me being petty..?"No I don’t think so. It’s the same with the ones who try too hard, I feel it’s going to just be stressful to meet them... | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
It's more of a feeling than an actual thing said for me... Sometimes it's the wording of a message or constant misspelling, pathetic I know, but I do like to have a connection on meets and a chat, so if someone struggles to communicate even when they have spell check then they will probably struggle face to face. Is that me being petty..?
No I don’t think so. It’s the same with the ones who try too hard, I feel it’s going to just be stressful to meet them..."I'd lean the other way slightly but I wouldn't feel it would be a stressful meet because of that. Might have a bit of nervous energy to start with (especially if someone has been out of the game for a few years) but things would probably settle down after a bit. | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" " What puts me off is people who can’t distinguish between humour and reality | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" What puts me off is people who can’t distinguish between humour and reality "So ‘get a ruler and measure your dick now’ is ok as long as I put a ‘lol’ at the end? | |||
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"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me. Often it's "what size are your boobs" " Well What size are they? Asking for a friend of course  | |||
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"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex. " ...and people who demand a without giving. | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
It's more of a feeling than an actual thing said for me... Sometimes it's the wording of a message or constant misspelling, pathetic I know, but I do like to have a connection on meets and a chat, so if someone struggles to communicate even when they have spell check then they will probably struggle face to face. Is that me being petty..?
No I don’t think so. It’s the same with the ones who try too hard, I feel it’s going to just be stressful to meet them...
I'd lean the other way slightly but I wouldn't feel it would be a stressful meet because of that.
Might have a bit of nervous energy to start with (especially if someone has been out of the game for a few years) but things would probably settle down after a bit."I understand what you are saying, but you just get that feeling that a face to face conversation will be exactly the same... It is nothing against the person at all, I just feel that there is no real connection... | |||
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"When you are asking all the questions and basically carrying the whole conversation "I agree. That’s when the one word responses begin. They want to have a conversation with you but The conversation feels forced. Xx | |||
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" I understand what you are saying, but you just get that feeling that a face to face conversation will be exactly the same... It is nothing against the person at all, I just feel that there is no real connection..." Not neccesarily. On-line conversations are completely different to face to face ones. It's a similar situation when I was younger and I met a girl at a party and afterwards we had a telephone relationship for about a month before meeting face to face. The phone conversations just flowed and were great and engaging but when we finally met in person it all fell flat and we just didn't get on. On-line one of the people may not be as comfotable as the other one chatting on-line but is better face to face or vice versa. And there's no cues like body language or tone of voice or physical interaction - which can give rise to more misunderstandings. The only real decider is face to face. You might or might not get on but unless you give it a go you'll never find out. | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "Fancy chat and getting to know you better xx | |||
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" The only real decider is face to face. You might or might not get on but unless you give it a go you'll never find out." Agree you can't truly *know* until you're actually face to face, but in the instances where a conversation has truly flowed on line I've always found it's transferred pretty well to in person, because you've already established that rapport and sense of knowing each other, so you have points of reference to draw on to talk about etc. I guess it depends on the level you have talked on-line too - but certainly in my experience I've found it's helped. | |||
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"Women that eat berries from their feet. Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained
But are the feet clean?
Probably cleaner than some people’s hands. I do get if if they wanted to feed you said berries with their feet though...
I'd be okay if they've had a bath. I'd even eat a strawberry from the bum!"You like it, apparently. What was your point again? | |||
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"Things that have put me off previously (the abridged version) - Not feeling like they are making a particular effort. You know when the conversation is carried by you? And their messages are closed and give you nothing to work with but they still message you. Yeah that. Or they just talk about themselves constantly. You bring up something, no questions. Back to them. Yawn. - Reading their posts on the fora. Any 'isms, slut shaming or even an inability to disagree with another without making it personal. I like people who can challenge me and make me think but not when it comes with a side helping of arrogant twuntery. - Constantly bringing up the racial differences between us. No thank you. Not my kink. - When I find out they are also planning on meeting one of my close friends. I have no problems with people meeting other people but I avoid drama and don't meet those my close friends are. I've seen it go wrong before too many times. - When I feel like my vagina is starting to belong to the fora women tick sheet. Apart from all that, I'm really easy going. "Laughing so much... kisses | |||
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"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out. Just missing that connection right? Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection. Prefer talking, humour flows so much easier. Hats off to the people that can pull it off by text
These conversations are some of the best and you’re right, they’re not easy to pull iff. "It's when the abbreviation goes in the wrong place. Usually signals the end of conversation. | |||
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You and me both, unless I make the effort which seems to be vaining in the current climate.
I don't have my profile hidden. "Mine is only hidden at the moment as I am will 99% of the time respond to even one line messages, even if to say thanks but no thanks. If I am busy the easiest way not to offend is to hide my profile. | |||
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"Many things will be a conversation killer. Some guys are just too neutral, they don’t have the X-Factor and are missing that something about them that will make me feel attracted and want to chat. I think some guys on here suppress their natural charisma and personality and try to be as neutral as possible to avoid any possibility of being rejected for saying or doing anything that might cut the conversation. But with me, it backfires on them because I get so bored of the usual boring questions. I do like flirty, funny guys but no initial crudeness as that also will make me disappear. " Noted | |||
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"When they message me multiple times asking why I haven’t replied when I’ve been away from fan all day doing real life stuff . Far too needy and clingy. Imagine what they be like if you actually met them! When they interrogate me about What I enjoy or am willing to do sexually and in the absence of any fun conversations. When there isn’t a conversational spark and it doesn’t flow When the thirst and desperation is dripping for every panting message and they are begging for sexy talk and to meet for sex, again often in the absence of any normal fun chatting Gut feeling! " Beautifully put | |||
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" You lose interest. What did they say? "Usually something completely contrary to what we have said in our (admittedly long) profile showing that they have completely failed to read or understand it. | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "Mmmmmmmmmm | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say? "Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply | |||
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"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?
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"When they want instant sex chat. We don't mind some sex chat but we like to have some decent conversation first. Also if anyone calls me 'babe'. Yuk. Hate it with a passion. Mrs" But you are a babe, babe... sorry... hun/ duck/ pet/ luv | |||
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"When they want instant sex chat. We don't mind some sex chat but we like to have some decent conversation first. Also if anyone calls me 'babe'. Yuk. Hate it with a passion. Mrs But you are a babe, babe... sorry... hun/ duck/ pet/ luv "Thanks darl | |||
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Mmmmmmmmmm
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