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By *olly_chromatic OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

...thinking that their love life might never get started again?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Hi Polly, I've been single for about 8 years now (self imposed), but if that special someone walked into my life, then I'd be a fool to ignore the fact. One or two have taken my fancy, but as much as I liked them, living together was never gonna be an option x

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By *olly_chromatic OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Just despairing of finding that someone where it all makes sense. And at the moment it's so long since there was even a bit of a kiss and fumble...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yep.

I'm over my last relationship as in I wouldn't revisit it, however I feel the damage done may have been too deep for me to be able to trust again.

The fact we met here means that my brain has linked sex = badness. I have zero mojo or libido and that does make me sad.

That makes me sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love life what's that . Never been in love and never been loved I've given up hope of every finding it

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By *nticeyouMan
over a year ago

Norwicb


"Yep.

I'm over my last relationship as in I wouldn't revisit it, however I feel the damage done may have been too deep for me to be able to trust again.

The fact we met here means that my brain has linked sex = badness. I have zero mojo or libido and that does make me sad.

That makes me sad."

Hey.. this makes me sad tooo.. especially as the damage that has been caused was inflicted by another person ...

I don’t know you but you look amazing and have so much to give .. don’t let someone else ruin things for you... go be you.. be amazing ! Xx

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

You never know what’s going to happen until it suddenly hits you in the face like a shovel - fingers crossed they feel the same when it arrives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never know what’s going to happen until it suddenly hits you in the face like a shovel - fingers crossed they feel the same when it arrives. "

So true. Usually when least expecting it..

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By *nticeyouMan
over a year ago

Norwicb

I’ve always found when I stopped actually actively looking and gave up then that’s when someone amazing would appear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never know what’s going to happen until it suddenly hits you in the face like a shovel - fingers crossed they feel the same when it arrives.

So true. Usually when least expecting it.."

Amen

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yep. Never been married or even asked. Only had 1 relationship where we lived together. Seems no one wants me

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I do believe it's all out there, floating about, on a sense. Might just take time and movement to bump into it!

The best thing to do is try not to fret, I'm sure the right bump will happen eventually

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I handed over my freedom to roam once to the wrong person and denied my true self, this was a big part of why it fell apart, now I am true to myself and am happy that I potentially will stay contentedly single for a long time to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...thinking that their love life might never get started again?"
unfortunately yes

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I don't think mine ever really started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the right person - maybe? Plenty of wrong un's around lately though......

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Love life, no.

Sex life, who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love life, no.

Sex life, who knows. "

I can relate to that

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

We have never had the amount of conduits available to find love and date than we do now even in a pandemic.

Keep the faith op and others.

If not invest in cats lots of cats.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Big hugs, Polly xx

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL


"I handed over my freedom to roam once to the wrong person and denied my true self, this was a big part of why it fell apart, now I am true to myself and am happy that I potentially will stay contentedly single for a long time to come "

Same, but I have found someone who let's me be me so it can happen Reminds me of a quote "never put the keys to your happiness in someone else's pocket" glad you got your keys back xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"You never know what’s going to happen until it suddenly hits you in the face like a shovel - fingers crossed they feel the same when it arrives. "

This ^ although a hand is better

For those thinking like this, I’ve been there and was adamant never ever again would I let someone close.... just live your lives, enjoy them for you, you really never know what is around the corner.... surprises do happen and when they do you’ll just know it’s right

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We have never had the amount of conduits available to find love and date than we do now even in a pandemic.

Keep the faith op and others.

If not invest in cats lots of cats. "

But with that brings fomo and fear of commitment.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"We have never had the amount of conduits available to find love and date than we do now even in a pandemic.

Keep the faith op and others.

If not invest in cats lots of cats.

But with that brings fomo and fear of commitment. "

In what way? From you or the other party?

When I was on Tinder I have to admit there was so much choice and it became mildly addictive to get matches and chat to people. I deleted it to avoid any conflict of interest when I dated.

Bloody good fun though best summer I’ve had since my twenties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs OP x

I'm in a place now where I'm not sure I care anymore about finding anyone.

I've been single for 10 years and am mostly fine with it.

Friends of mine that have made finding a relationship their full time job have found what they were looking for.

I think you have to actively work towards what you want.

Prospective partners rarely fly through your front room window

I hope you find what you're looking for x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Yep.

I'm over my last relationship as in I wouldn't revisit it, however I feel the damage done may have been too deep for me to be able to trust again.

The fact we met here means that my brain has linked sex = badness. I have zero mojo or libido and that does make me sad.

That makes me sad."

If there’s one thing I know about the future it’s that you don’t know about the future.

Don’t worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.

I'm over my last relationship as in I wouldn't revisit it, however I feel the damage done may have been too deep for me to be able to trust again."

I feel the same, my ex lied about a whole history of domestic abuse charges. Even though its been over a year since I left him, he's still causing trouble and I wouldn't think it fair on a new partner to have to deal with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs OP x

I'm in a place now where I'm not sure I care anymore about finding anyone.

I've been single for 10 years and am mostly fine with it.

Friends of mine that have made finding a relationship their full time job have found what they were looking for.

I think you have to actively work towards what you want.

Prospective partners rarely fly through your front room window

I hope you find what you're looking for x"

This is me too including the 10 year single bit.

Don't get me wrong, being single somedays sucks and yes I can get lonely but it is sure as shit better than the hell I have previously been put through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs OP x

I'm in a place now where I'm not sure I care anymore about finding anyone.

I've been single for 10 years and am mostly fine with it.

Friends of mine that have made finding a relationship their full time job have found what they were looking for.

I think you have to actively work towards what you want.

Prospective partners rarely fly through your front room window

I hope you find what you're looking for x

This is me too including the 10 year single bit.

Don't get me wrong, being single somedays sucks and yes I can get lonely but it is sure as shit better than the hell I have previously been put through. "

I think for most of us that have been single a long time have been in shit relationships and it has put us off!

The loneliness I feel on occasion is a small price to pay for the rest of the time when I feel pretty good about being on my own.

I honestly don't think the kind of relationship I want exists.

I'm much less prepared to put up with things now - I believe the relationshippers call it 'compromise'

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sometimes.

Sometimes I ache to be in a relationship where you feel that love that gives you that warm tingly “I feel loved and I am in love” feeling in your tummy.

And then I remember that realistically I have as much chance of finding that again as I do winning the lottery. And the little flickering light of hope almost goes out.

Almost.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I just figure I’m doing the guys a favour by keeping myself to myself these days

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Sometimes.

Sometimes I ache to be in a relationship where you feel that love that gives you that warm tingly “I feel loved and I am in love” feeling in your tummy.

And then I remember that realistically I have as much chance of finding that again as I do winning the lottery. And the little flickering light of hope almost goes out.

Almost.

"

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