FabSwingers.com forum: what would you say to your younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shamelessy stolen from Scott Mills, Radio 1,If you could tell your ten year old self something, what would you say.

I think i would say love your self more and be prepared for setbacks in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The winning numbers for the £160million Euromillions are ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lottery numbers for one of the biggest draws ever

Here’s a great idea for a story about a wizard called Harry Potter

Avoid 2020

Profit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry kid... your life turns out well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swear you’ll be ok. You’re a tough little cookie, and as long as you never stop being true to yourself you’ll always know happiness. Stop being so hard on yourself. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your Dad to pop £1,000 on Trump becoming US President

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you thought life at ten was rough, its going to get rougher

you will make some great friends and have some great adventures

just try to keep going one day at a time

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Rocky road ahead but you will get through every step, trust your gut and the future is yours to make

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

This life is not normal and you will come to realise that soon

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Wear sunscreen and dance more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now Me ‘hey 10 year old me. Life will be shit at points but great at others. Stick with it’

10 year old me ‘thanks for that Confucius. Do you want to play Top Trumps?’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I swear you’ll be ok. You’re a tough little cookie, and as long as you never stop being true to yourself you’ll always know happiness. Stop being so hard on yourself. X"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Bow out now kid, it just ain't worth it

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Appreciate your parents more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe in myself more, trust my instincts, don't trust others so easily and follow my dreams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bow out now kid, it just ain't worth it "

Glad you didn't because you've helped me a lot.

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By *ashedMan
over a year ago

hemel

Don't every go to Leeds

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Everything will be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a grip life's too short..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Live your life how you want and not how others want. Do not try to fit in when you know you don't.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Trust nobody, suspect everybody

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Absolutely nothing.

I made a lot of mistake in my life which cause me and lot of pain and troubles, but I needed every single bit of that suffering to make me grow up into the man I've become.

Younger me was a little shit bag and deserved everything he got so I'd just leave him to do it and learn from his mistake

Daddy

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"Bow out now kid, it just ain't worth it "

*Hugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it - absolutely no one else has a clue what's going on either.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Don't piss all your money up against the wall. Save when you're young as once you get a house and kids and ex wife no change off saving money then. Or maybe that's just me.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Don't fall in love and don't get married

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Things chill work themselves out. Just takes time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't go into work on, Monday 22nd February 1993,that accident scarred you for life literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say to my younger self, do what makes you happy and don't give a fuck about anyone's criticism. Get out there girl and let them see all your brilliance.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Bitcoin, right ok this may take some time ...stop watching the telly and listen you little shit. In the 90s they’ll be this thing called the internet...yes it will have porn on it....anyway there’s this thing called cryptocurrency..oh fuck it ..buy shares in Amazon..,yes on that internet thingy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Run like hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be kinder to yourself kid, you'll thank yourself for it as you get older x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing!

Life is for learning and growing without crutches.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't marry the him (first husband) live your life and have fun, number 2 is the keeper

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Not sure what I'd say to be honest. But I know I'd give myself a massive massive hug.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Turn your hobby into a business.

Then you will never have to work in something you hate. It no longer becomes work cos it's a hobby and you love it!

Confucius was right grass hopper .....

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I would say "that girl you meet at 25, she might seem perfect but she's not worth your pain later"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To follow your passions and only take criticism from people who you’d only seek advice from

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Anything I said to my younger self would change who I am now and the experiences I've been through.

And while a lot of them have seemed impossible to deal with, and there are things now I'm finding hard, while I'm still breathing and able to put one foot in front of the other there is hope.

A very close friend of mine often says "it is what it is". And he's right. It is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't shave your eyebrows off that summer night 99

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Don't waste time on idiots.

And if someone really wants to be with you they will be.

If they don't, they won't ,so take the hint!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't shave your eyebrows off that summer night 99 "

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By *ntheroad 123Man
over a year ago

Naunton

Carry on it's a rocky road but you have a wicked time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50% of people you are going to meet are a waste of space

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

When you reach teenage years don’t be such a dick to your dad he won’t be around forever..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told around that age, possibly a year or two earlier..

To trust no one from my dad.

I would tell myself not to take that on board as I find it hard to totally trust anyone now.

There are times though I think that's the best thing I've been advised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more confident around women and polite instead of acting like a fucking idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never settle for less than you want because you deserve it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh Sam!

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

Be closer to your family, oh and keep all that star wars stuff too.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Take the fucking blue pill and stay for ever in blissful ignorance

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

Crack on pal you do you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lose that bitcoin key (I'm not bitter)

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

You will be okay and everything will work out just fine

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Learn to have fun and be relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had known about swinging club's when I was a young man . I was insatiable then and had a fair few 3 somes. Now I just go with the flow and enjoy whatever life throws at me. You make your own happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take life so seriously and have more fun.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Don't waste time with people who don't make you feel happy.

Be confident.

Have lots of sex with lots of people while you're young.

Mrs

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Talk to those around you and don’t bottle things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't waste time with people who don't make you feel happy.

Be confident.

Have lots of sex with lots of people while you're young.

Mrs"

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gosh Sam!

I said that to you earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

save every penny.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Buy bitcoin

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

Too cut down on my food portions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t settle for less than you want

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Don't waste time with people who don't make you feel happy.

Be confident.

Have lots of sex with lots of people while you're young.

Mrs

Great advice

Thanks. I just need to be able to transport myself back to being 18 year old again

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