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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Sorry, so I couldn't really think of a snazzy title. Blame the heat.

Anyway, I was wondering - if you saw someone was friends with/had veried another person, would you message them asking for how best to approach the object of your desire? Are you more likely to do it if you're friends with a person? Or have you experienced it?

It's not something I'd really come cross before and I've been here a looong time so maybe it's just me being a bit naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have and went well via mutual friends on here , as they know you better and i have plenty of wing women on here to help me lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I wouldn't, but I can see the logic..... Kind of.

And that's the shortest answer I think I've ever given you.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't, but I can see the logic..... Kind of.

And that's the shortest answer I think I've ever given you. "

It is, are you feeling okay NSP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was looking (which I’m not) I wouldn’t message their friend, I’d go in blind and hope that I wasn’t too annoying. I’ve only had it done to me when I was younger and still had my rugged good looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, cos it's weird

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd approach them myself x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Naaaah. I'll tackle it in my usual manner:

with immense charm and wit.

Smothered them in compliments.

Show them how much i adore them.

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Or ask them if they fancy a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm this is giving me ideas to message the guys in the OP's verifications and ask them what can I do to get her attention

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"i have and went well via mutual friends on here , as they know you better and i have plenty of wing women on here to help me lol"

Yeah, I get the mutual friend aspect I think... kind of. They'll know you and know them and be well placed to wing woman you.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

No I think that would be cringe.

I'd rather approach them myself and see if my personality etc wins them over. Getting tips on how to approach them is kind of acting differently to normal which defeats the object.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I wouldn't, but I can see the logic..... Kind of.

And that's the shortest answer I think I've ever given you.

It is, are you feeling okay NSP? "

Er..... How long you got Meli?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i would miss out the middle man, go straight to one i fancy, Personally doing it the other way seems a bit primary 7,just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm this is giving me ideas to message the guys in the OP's verifications and ask them what can I do to get her attention "

They're all getting back to me now with all the juicy info.. Oof! What a filthy woman

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nope! And especially not if they’d met them!

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"If I was looking (which I’m not) I wouldn’t message their friend, I’d go in blind and hope that I wasn’t too annoying. I’ve only had it done to me when I was younger and still had my rugged good looks."

Your rugged good looks are still clear in the hand, don't be too hard on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I would approach them directly. Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Personally I'd prefer to bite the bullet myself in getting to know someone. As I think people click with others in different ways. Me for example to some I'd be a silly and laugh to others deep and thought provoking, depends on how the conversation goes and how comfortable I feel. If someone presumed to know me it would put my back up instantaneously. I'm rambling now sorry

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Hmm this is giving me ideas to message the guys in the OP's verifications and ask them what can I do to get her attention

They're all getting back to me now with all the juicy info.. Oof! What a filthy woman "

The ones with the juiciest info haven't even veried me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, I'd be far too scurred! I'm actually a really private person (who'd have thought it!) with my own rubbish but unique style of approach.....

Good to see you posting Meli

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I let one of my friends know that another one of my friends fancied them only yesterday. I had permission to do so.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Lordy, no, that's all a bit teenage angst! It would put me about if someone did that to me - I'm not that scary, and I'd like someone to be confident enough to just approach me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh no definitely not. Makes me slightly cringe

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Personally I'd prefer to bite the bullet myself in getting to know someone. As I think people click with others in different ways. Me for example to some I'd be a silly and laugh to others deep and thought provoking, depends on how the conversation goes and how comfortable I feel. If someone presumed to know me it would put my back up instantaneously. I'm rambling now sorry "

I don't mind the rambling, that was a mild case of it so acceptable. Yes, I do think we know people differently and in turn that colours our interactions with them - I might think person x is really daft and so talking to them with jokes would be what I suggest. The reality is that's the side of them I know and it might be a facade so a jokey approach might fall flat on its face.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Personally I'd prefer to bite the bullet myself in getting to know someone. As I think people click with others in different ways. Me for example to some I'd be a silly and laugh to others deep and thought provoking, depends on how the conversation goes and how comfortable I feel. If someone presumed to know me it would put my back up instantaneously. I'm rambling now sorry

I don't mind the rambling, that was a mild case of it so acceptable. Yes, I do think we know people differently and in turn that colours our interactions with them - I might think person x is really daft and so talking to them with jokes would be what I suggest. The reality is that's the side of them I know and it might be a facade so a jokey approach might fall flat on its face."

Exactly, I think it's best to know people yourself rather than by second hand knowledge. Wether it be someone you want to interact romantically with or friendship.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No I wouldn't do it or be involved in it, if it all went wrong I'd be dragged into the drama

Im happy to contact them direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d also approach them directly, what is there to lose?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

No incase my experience of them wasn't the same for the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is knowledge

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