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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is anyone else looking for this?

I want one but struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s dead easy man:

1 - Start a “normal“ relationship

2 - Have a frank discussion

3 - Don’t be butthurt if it doesn’t go your way

Repeat ad nauseum Or until you strike gold and someone takes you up on it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem with setting out to find this kind of relationship is that people want it to happen instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is anyone else looking for this?

I want one but struggling "

I'd like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes been looking for sometime now for this

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

do you mean a normal relationship or a fwb?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'd like one or at least someone happy to go to clubs etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it's not too difficult if you connect with someone on here?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

It happens.

Hang in there.

We met on here and couldn’t be happier. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind one but it's tough to find someone on the same page, or rather someone who'll stay on the same page. Women always see me as a full on bf after a few meets and want serious stuff and don't want to share. I'm doing something wrong....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I wouldn't mind one but it's tough to find someone on the same page, or rather someone who'll stay on the same page. Women always see me as a full on bf after a few meets and want serious stuff and don't want to share. I'm doing something wrong.... "

So what you want is a fwb? Not a proper relationship with the added zing of swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind one but it's tough to find someone on the same page, or rather someone who'll stay on the same page. Women always see me as a full on bf after a few meets and want serious stuff and don't want to share. I'm doing something wrong....

So what you want is a fwb? Not a proper relationship with the added zing of swinging? "

Yeah, well tbh just being able to find a fwb would be great! Women I meet always seem to want more. I'm well aware that I apparently emit some secret love waves or summat, but why can't ppl just want a shag and a giggle without getting feels? If I could find a fwb I'd then be really interested in exploring swinging as a couple for sure....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Oeo, I'll give you first dibs at any applicants....

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I have a great one, finding the meets is the hard part.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As long as you stay aware of your goal, you can let it guide how you live your life. Most relationships do require some luck in finding someone with mutual attraction and needs. You can tip the odds in your favour though, such as via a swinging centred focus.

The numbers of single men here are so overwhelming, whatever they are looking for, that it's made really tough. You can probably only improve chances by increasing your social circle of people who are involved in swinging. It's tougher atm due to restrictions in some respects but the current emphasis on social-only contact could be a benefit too.

My take on relationships is that the greater the pressure, the tougher it can be

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By *eet The FlintstonesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

We have been lucky and have gone from fbs to lovers. We still went to clubs and parties but now everything has changed. Lucky we are in our own bubble so we are still going strong xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep but facing reality that it won’t happen

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"It’s dead easy man:

1 - Start a “normal“ relationship

2 - Have a frank discussion

3 - Don’t be butthurt if it doesn’t go your way

Repeat ad nauseum Or until you strike gold and someone takes you up on it... "

This. I was lucky though. I’d been at it years and he didn’t need much persuading. I wouldn’t have carried on the relationship had he not been interested though. I’m not giving up my swinging friends. I like it too much

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Yes here too, all explained on my profile, but it's not the be all and end all if it doesn't happen.

I just take things as they come (pardon the pun!) and no expectations. Having some lovely conversations with people at the moment too

Rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on fab 2yrs looking for this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there and it was great fun.

I'd like to experience it again but I'm not in any rush.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I dream of a long term relationship with a lady who also loves swinging. Sharing a loving relationship with a Hot Wife, listening to her and seeing her with other men sounds heavenly. Just have keep dreaming I suppose x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We struggle to find play meets so god knows how hard it must be to find someone for a swinging relationship.

Hope those of you who want it are lucky enough to find someone.

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By *idewillyMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

Easier and more likely to meet someone in a club like chams...theres a lady ive known for years we never know when we will meet...but as soon as we see each other its magical....tin every way possible ....more chance of meeting some like minded person in a club

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d love to meet someone for fun inside and outside the bedroom.

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