FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

A picture of a deliciously looking peachy bum or sexy legs initially gets my attention the reading the bio if she/they sound cool and like we might have mutual interests kinks and then the all important am I in their age preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well like most first its the pictures that draw you in. Then I do like a well written profile .

Ypur profile is like an advert for yourself . I like people who have taken time to talk about themselves and what they desire

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Pictures. Similar interests. Profile text makes them seem nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good photos. When men tease a little with their pics jts such a turn on. Then humour in their bio, if I giggle I will most likely say hello.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

The obvious starting point is the pic... visually it’s the first thing we get to see and so will pique the interest to go and explore further.

Personally, I’m not interested in status update or strapline after that; it’sa quick scan of the detail “Age range they want, smoker or not, body type” then on to the profile text to check out the persons personality.

Little text = turnoff. No text = turnoff. Bland nonsense = turnoff. Cliché text = turnoff.

Funny, quirky, intelligent, “out there” alternative or proper description of what they are looking for are all acceptable - the more tastefully graphic the better.

And then on to the gallery of pics for a perv...

Hmmm. All this may explain why I don’t get many meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

The obvious starting point is the pic... visually it’s the first thing we get to see and so will pique the interest to go and explore further.

Little text = turnoff. No text = turnoff. Bland nonsense = turnoff. Cliché text = turnoff.

Funny, quirky, intelligent, “out there” alternative or proper description of what they are looking for are all acceptable - the more tastefully graphic the better.

And then on to the gallery of pics for a perv...

Hmmm. All this may explain why I don’t get many meets...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Boobies and pretty lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn ons:

- Good photos.

- Well written profiles.

- A bit of humour.

Turn offs:

- Extreme genital close ups or pictures where I can't actually work out what they look like.

- Text speak.

- "Disclaimers" which are longer than the profile text.

- People who are full of themselves.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Turn on's are imaginative pics and profile text that has had thought gone into it

Turn off for me is mainly bdsm profiles, which are easy to go through as they tend to display it on their pics

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not really in to hunting profile will take a look if they say something for interesting on the forum but as a guy it's all about classy pictures ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fantastic arse will always catch my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A women of substance will always get my attention, turn offs are size queens, I’m so much more than just my massive beautiful Penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

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profile photo and then if the lady loves kissing ! Am in lolol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well like most first its the pictures that draw you in. Then I do like a well written profile .

Ypur profile is like an advert for yourself . I like people who have taken time to talk about themselves and what they desire

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely teasing pics, a neat looking profile ,and a bio with at least a little content.

Turned off by bios that say ...will fill in later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually the main image attracts me or a status update but I'll also check someone out based solely on a well crafted name.

If the bio says little or is crude or crass then I'd generally be put off. Sometimes nothing else matters, you just want someone for all the wrong reasons.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

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to be fair its going to be the written word above all else... I know mine is currently crap but also a good profile photo. If I spot a suit.. nice eyes or just a funny well taken photo... then I'm going to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well like most first its the pictures that draw you in. Then I do like a well written profile .

Ypur profile is like an advert for yourself . I like people who have taken time to talk about themselves and what they desire

Spelling mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of dirty houses in the background or anyone doing bare back turn me off.

Turn on definitely nice painted toes and nice legs. Also nice eyes

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Good photos and their interest

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Main pics are the first thing that attracts me - I click in with the hope that they have more intriguing pics.

Instant turn off is a profile that has only cock pics from all different direction, or in different Toilets/car/surrounds.

(I do sometimes think that my pictures can get a little repetitive, it’s either boobs or lips lol)

Bio is important just to get a quick feel of the person, I like witty/humour chucked in there.

Don’t like those that say “ask me” it’s not that hard writing a little about yourself and what you want.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

It’s usually a picture that draws me in, the profile text makes me stay or not.

The exception is the forum; if someone says something interesting or funny I’ll look at their profile.

Probably the main thing that puts me off is if they’ve got no interest in their pictures or text - I don’t want to talk to someone who doesn’t care enough to do that.

How about you, OP?

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

Things I look for in a profile:

Tasteful pictures, peachy bums, a good username, more than one line bio's.

Things that put me off include all the pictures being sex related, pictures with multiple people in them (which one are you), little or no effort in the bio, no interests.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Things I look for in a profile:

Tasteful pictures, peachy bums, a good username, more than one line bio's.

Things that put me off include all the pictures being sex related, pictures with multiple people in them (which one are you), little or no effort in the bio, no interests.

Oh yes....I hate pictures with guys performing a sexual act on someone or them getting a bj

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I like to see that people have put thought and effort into it

Mrs TMN x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A strong, confident bio with some alluring good pics and a couple of veris is a good start.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Pictures of both people in a couple not just the lady are good, we like to read a bit about someone in their profile, not too many repetitive photos too, 20 cock shots are pretty dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really attracts you to a profile?

Is there anything that would turn you off if you like most of what you see and read about someone's profile?

Choice of lolly is key, I feel

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