FabSwingers.com forum: No Casual clothes

By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

Do you think all who attend any swing clubs should be made strip to their underwear, as a lot make a effort to dress up for the evening and some seem to think it’s just a quick chance to try and shag or what ever they can get. Where if compulsory to strip, they might be more lucky. Mainly men I am referring to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or people could just do what they like doing their way....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think everyone should be made to wear a Hazmat suit at all times whether they're at a club or not. But there is a chance that people might agree with me less than the OP

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why don't you just go to dress down clubs of that's what you enjoy?

I personally prefer dress down clubs as oddly I feel less self Conscious

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP some clubs have naked nights if that is what you prefer

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I never go anywhere that has a dress code and never anywhere that has bouncers. That's not related to clubs just life in general lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I never go anywhere that has a dress code and never anywhere that has bouncers. That's not related to clubs just life in general lol"

So you never go to a gig or a concert or the theatre as they have bouncers ?

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Agree. I prefer clubs where a towel or a smile is the dress code for guys. Empowered women are lots more fun haha !

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

"I think everyone should be made to wear a Hazmat suit at all times whether they're at a club or not. But there is a chance that people might agree with me less than the OP"

A hazmat suit in this heat would kill everyone!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike dress down clubs

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"I never go anywhere that has a dress code and never anywhere that has bouncers. That's not related to clubs just life in general lol

So you never go to a gig or a concert or the theatre as they have bouncers ?"

That's a good point, I do go to gigs so it's pubs that have bouncers I have problems with

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Clown outfits is the way forward I think, and everyone arrives in a clown car

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Do you think all who attend any swing clubs should be made strip to their underwear, as a lot make a effort to dress up for the evening and some seem to think it’s just a quick chance to try and shag or what ever they can get. Where if compulsory to strip, they might be more lucky. Mainly men I am referring to"

I made an effort to dress smartly when I spent two nights at Chams with a lady off here, I spent most of the weekend walking round in a towel.....

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We much prefer clubs that DON'T have a dress down policy, as we always dress to impress, and avoid people who make zero effort.

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

I’m talking about swing clubs, to me everyone dresses down or given a towel, simple as.

Respect is a must for everyone, when we go that’s were we feel let down on in clubs,

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"We much prefer clubs that DON'T have a dress down policy, as we always dress to impress, and avoid people who make zero effort."

Same

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I prefer to strip down clubs.

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

I’m talking about swing clubs, to me everyone dresses down or given a towel, simple as.

Respect is a must for everyone, when we go that’s were we feel let down on in clubs,

I remember going to my first club many years ago, quite young and it was a fetish club, nervous as hell, I was dressed in Black and the crew knew I wasn’t a Dom, I got away with it on the night, next time I brought a leather Studded thong, crew told me with 10 mins of been there, if I don’t strip down get out. I stripped down, felt great, but nervous I might meet someone I knew . But felt great and encouraged me to more clubs and great new friends, that was the difference of casual and stripping off, got me to chat to A lot more people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg i don't think I'd have the courage to be walking around with my bits hanging out of my undies chatting with people I'm just meeting... I'd feel very exposed

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

What’s op?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think there's advantages to both types, and as long as you know what you're in for it's fine.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What’s op?"

The original poster. Here, you

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

It’s a bit nervous at first but once you dressed down it feels great, yes you get the perv’s but you can deal with them very easily,

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club"

I have never been to a club where this isn't the rule, unless it is a dress down on arrival club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club"

We get it, you like being dressed down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club"

Or you could go to clubs that are dress down only and others can go to ones that aren’t

And not dress down clubs are not casual, they are somewhere to get dressed up.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

3 of the 4 clubs i've been to operate a dress down policy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It’s a bit nervous at first but once you dressed down it feels great, yes you get the perv’s but you can deal with them very easily, "

If you prefer dress down then choose dress down clubs

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Nope. I prefer dressed clubs, I think a bunch of guys walking around in their pants or a towel looks a bit scrappy. Also, after a long week in dirty work gear it's nice to put on some nice clothes and decent aftershave.

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I recently took a newcomer lady friend to a club. I'd explained before the options. She caught me unawares by instantly getting down to her underwear(despite the option of a towel) and spent the rest of the evening with her boobs on show to all!

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

Don’t get me wrong, its nice seen people making a effort to get dressed up, but some guys take the biscuit in a nutshell. Falling in from the pub thinking he has every right. That’s really my point. As clubs are not on every corner. Just enforce single men behaviour and attire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by dress down?

I'm not a suit and tie guy but I would wear jeans/linen trousers, linen shirt and boots/shoes, be clean shaven and had a shower/washed my hair.

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

Some guys that don’t make an effort, you make an effort

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Don’t get me wrong, its nice seen people making a effort to get dressed up, but some guys take the biscuit in a nutshell. Falling in from the pub thinking he has every right. That’s really my point. As clubs are not on every corner. Just enforce single men behaviour and attire. "

It's a useful filter in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people go to clubs just to socialise, personally I wouldn't be comfortable standing at a bar in my underwear.

But I go to play and always dress appropriately.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club"

I’ve never been to a club but this kind of attitude really puts me off. Why can’t I go at my own pace?

Why do I have to perform to your agenda.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club

I’ve never been to a club but this kind of attitude really puts me off. Why can’t I go at my own pace?

Why do I have to perform to your agenda. "

It's actually a pretty standard way of running a club that isn't entirely dress down. And you do go at your own pace. If you don't want to dress down, you keep your clothes on and stay out of the play rooms

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

that's me ruled out then if I'm on my period coz I ain't walking round showing my always wings off.

Not everyone wants to get down n dirty when they go to a club, sometimes I go simply as a safe place to go on my own to socialise and have a dance.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club

I’ve never been to a club but this kind of attitude really puts me off. Why can’t I go at my own pace?

Why do I have to perform to your agenda.

I understand if it’s a rule, I guess my choice of post to quote was poor - I more meant I find the get naked or piss off attitude off putting.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No dress down for us unless playing. We'll just go to clubs with no compulsory dress down.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Only been to 3 clubs and they was all none dress down type clubs, I go to socialise and if I want to play I will remove my clothes when required in the play areas, I wouldn’t go to a club that you have to dress down straight away

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

People should never be made to do anything they are uncomfortable with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Keep anyone in casual to one room only, like a lounge. Then anyone that is dressed down has full access to the rest of the club

I’ve never been to a club but this kind of attitude really puts me off. Why can’t I go at my own pace?

Why do I have to perform to your agenda.

I understand if it’s a rule, I guess my choice of post to quote was poor - I more meant I find the get naked or piss off attitude off putting. "

Yes. You choose your club type before you go. You don't demand once you're there

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Isn't the issue really about what constitutes casual. I'd never wear a suit or anything achingly formal, it all smacks of golf clubs and the 70s. Unless casual these days means clean? And if so it's sad that people need to be told that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never go anywhere that has a dress code and never anywhere that has bouncers. That's not related to clubs just life in general lol

So you never go to a gig or a concert or the theatre as they have bouncers ?"
my local coop has a bouncer/door staff at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually end up in my pants

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By *ouple V OP Couple
over a year ago

South East

I’m glad I got great replies, I seen a lot of valid points.

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