FabSwingers.com forum: Are you or aren’t you...

By *verage Joe Black OP Man
over a year ago

Border Area

...a swinger?

Do you class yourself as such? It is a swingers site after all. Or has the original definition of the site - and the community - now evolved into a more plural community of people whose interest is “non vanilla” sex?

I don’t view myself as a swinger, more someone whose sexual inquisitiveness is fulfilled by sites like this.

So: swinger or not swinger..?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Absolutely, 100% yes.

I think fab has diversified though...

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Nippy....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes but also polyamorous kinkster. It all kinda overlaps a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...a swinger?

I don’t view myself as a swinger, more someone whose sexual inquisitiveness is fulfilled by sites like this.

So: swinger or not swinger..?"

I did when my ex and I were on here for years. Now I’m single I don’t feel like a swinger - I feel I’m non vanilla looking for a match. A different phase I guess. For me to swing is to swap and I’ve only got football stickers.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's complicated. Which is weird because I'm a pretty simple person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Dunno. It's easier to say "swinger" as shorthand for everything we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but not as much as I'd like as clubs are miles away and I have stopped meeting couples alone.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

A lapsed swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

As yet I have failed to get a meet never mind multiple so I'm just a sad wanker at the moment

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’d say no, because other than pairing up with friend(s) to find a threesome, all I’ve really done is had a fairly normal single male’s sex life.

You don’t need to be a swinger to be into kinks and fetishes etc, so I don’t think that qualifies me.

Could I be a swinger? I think yes. It’s something I’d be very interested in exploring in a future relationship, if I feel like having one.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm just Ace, make of that what you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’m not the classic swinger at all. I’m single and looking for lovers to have great sex with. I believe the definition of ‘swinger’ means different things to different folk today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say we was hardened swingers.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I guess it all depends upon what one thinks a swinger is ...

The traditional definition is:

a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.

So .. a couple swapping partners with another couple ... swingers?

Singletons and couples in clubs engaging in group fun ... swingers?

Singletons meeting other singletons for "no strings" fun and free to meet with others for the same .. swingers?

In the traditional sense, the first 2 yes, the latter .. no, this is perhaps more open minded non-vanilla individuals

But then, maybe the traditional view has changed and a swinger is a person who engages in non-vanilla activities

In the long run, does it matter? Or is it just a matter of people using the scene, and this site, for whatever they want to use it for?

Whatever works for you, do it, and enjoy it

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is:

NOUN

informal

a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.

informal

a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.

So yes, by definitions, I'm most definitely a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, I don't think so. I'm an ethical slut enjoying herself.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m not.

Nonetheless, I am rather awesome

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I label myself as a Single Straight Kinky Slut

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

No I don't think I am. I'm looking for lovers

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope but I am special

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Nope but I am special

Ooft ... yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a swinger. I would be content with the right person. Being on fab opens up the possibility of having some fun finding her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t class myself as a swinger , polyamorous yes and a kinkster.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes 125%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't class myself as a swinger.

Just a guy seeking sexual possibilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 11/08/20 00:31:49]"

No I'm just a bloke who heard that this site was good for meeting women

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I don't really need to classify when looking at myself.

I don't discuss this side of things with my friends much.

Any meets haven't asked me to specify my position.

Answer is, dunno I guess as it's never been necessary to say whether I am a swinger or not.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"[Removed by poster at 11/08/20 00:31:49]

No I'm just a bloke who heard that this site was good for meeting women "

We've been misinformed sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 11/08/20 00:31:49]

No I'm just a bloke who heard that this site was good for meeting women "

And they lied but now we're trapped...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 11/08/20 00:31:49]

No I'm just a bloke who heard that this site was good for meeting women

We've been misinformed sir. "

Damn you sir for getting that answer in first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be given the chance. I'm more part of the crowd than actually playing on the pitch.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nope.

I liked group sex (and hoping I'll like it again) but I don't consider myself a swinger, not anymore.

If I eventually did open my life up to having a significant other again, I'd leave the scene for a good while before returning, if I returned at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea anymore. I would have said no before as most of the time I've been on here as a single person and I didn't feel like that qualified as swinging. However, I've found a lot of men here say they're all about no-strings, casual encounters and then get very territorial/clingy, which I don't at all. I now think I may actually be, just because I am only interested in swinging between casual encounters of whatever variety without any emotional involvement at all.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes we are swingers. We are married couple who meet others and swop partners.

And it's damn good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single so not a swinger. But I do like the attention I'm getting

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By *verage Joe Black OP Man
over a year ago

Border Area

"I'm single so not a swinger. But I do like the attention I'm getting

That makes me wonder... could we adopt the word “singler” as the non plural version of swinger..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm single so not a swinger. But I do like the attention I'm getting

That makes me wonder... could we adopt the word “singler” as the non plural version of swinger..??

I just love sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not swinger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it all depends upon what one thinks a swinger is ...

The traditional definition is:

a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.

So .. a couple swapping partners with another couple ... swingers?

Singletons and couples in clubs engaging in group fun ... swingers?

Singletons meeting other singletons for "no strings" fun and free to meet with others for the same .. swingers?

In the traditional sense, the first 2 yes, the latter .. no, this is perhaps more open minded non-vanilla individuals

But then, maybe the traditional view has changed and a swinger is a person who engages in non-vanilla activities

In the long run, does it matter? Or is it just a matter of people using the scene, and this site, for whatever they want to use it for?

Whatever works for you, do it, and enjoy it "

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