FabSwingers.com forum: Unrequited admiration

By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

How many of you find wonderful people on here but you don’t meet their requirements? Do you find yourself drawn to people who are out of reach? I don’t obviously but interested if it’s a common phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why obviously don't you. Everyone should have a crush or ten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why obviously don't you. Everyone should have a crush or ten.

This really^

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By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

"Why obviously don't you. Everyone should have a crush or ten.

Because I’m so irresistible.... or something

but hopefully you’re right and we all have crushes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have no crushes at the moment

That's not a reflection on anyone here, it's my internal shizzle creating that situation

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By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

"I have no crushes at the moment

That's not a reflection on anyone here, it's my internal shizzle creating that situation "

Poor Mario, I hope you both feel better soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been fairly fortunate to find a few women I enjoy chatting to and one who really ticks most of my boxes and I hers. So quite lucky really

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By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

Congratulations! That’s fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I've been on both sides of the equation, but I think I manage to hold it together when women aren't interested....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have no crushes at the moment

That's not a reflection on anyone here, it's my internal shizzle creating that situation "

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By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

"I reckon I've been on both sides of the equation, but I think I manage to hold it together when women aren't interested....

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the one's in Ireland and Canada are out of reach. And I only talk to people (outside of the Forums) who are interested in meeting me thus avoiding disappointment as I have enough of that shit in my life already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no crushes at the moment

That's not a reflection on anyone here, it's my internal shizzle creating that situation "

You sure

Lol

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By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

"I have no crushes at the moment

That's not a reflection on anyone here, it's my internal shizzle creating that situation

You sure

Lol"

I’ve added you to the list Jennie :-

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

It’s the story of my life, both on Fab and in the real world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you find wonderful people on here but you don’t meet their requirements? Do you find yourself drawn to people who are out of reach? I don’t obviously but interested if it’s a common phenomenon.

Everyone I've been interested in has been in that category for years.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I have no crushes at the moment

That's not a reflection on anyone here, it's my internal shizzle creating that situation

You sure

Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot to be said for right time right place..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm the opposite, I run a mile if anyone hot talks or flirts with me!!!!

I have turned down many hot guys because I don't want to be the minger in their black book. I like punching at my own weight.

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By *ark-lover OP Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

Nope I'm the opposite, I run a mile if anyone hot talks or flirts with me!!!!

I have turned down many hot guys because I don't want to be the minger in their black book. I like punching at my own weight. "

Hopefully looks up how far Prestatyn is from London

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nope I'm the opposite, I run a mile if anyone hot talks or flirts with me!!!!

I have turned down many hot guys because I don't want to be the minger in their black book. I like punching at my own weight. "

Butterflies can't see their wings. They can't see how beautiful they truly are but everyone else can. People can be like that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm the opposite, I run a mile if anyone hot talks or flirts with me!!!!

I have turned down many hot guys because I don't want to be the minger in their black book. I like punching at my own weight.

Butterflies can't see their wings. They can't see how beautiful they truly are but everyone else can. People can be like that too."

What a lovely reply Peach , you’re a sweetheart xxx

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I wouldn't go as far as saying they are a crush but there are definitely a few women here I'm quire drawn to who I'm pretty sure wouldn't be interested or are too far away (or both!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't call it crushing per se. But there are some profiles I like the look of who probably wouldn't be bothered with me. But who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm the opposite, I run a mile if anyone hot talks or flirts with me!!!!

I have turned down many hot guys because I don't want to be the minger in their black book. I like punching at my own weight.

Butterflies can't see their wings. They can't see how beautiful they truly are but everyone else can. People can be like that too."

Thank you

that touched me xxx

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Sure I've got crush. And not a chance in hell. I'm ok with that. Wont let it spoil the friendship but it sure is fun to perve and great fuel for my overactive imagination. He doesn't know quite how much help he gave me during lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh behave! You're every man's fantasy....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We can't be everyone's cup of tea, but it shouldn't stop us admiring them and showing them some platonic love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reach out even if they seem out of reach.. Ya never know what might happen it's worth a message.. And if anyone has been ninja visiting my profile regularly come say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh behave! You're every man's fantasy....

as if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't be everyone's cup of tea, but it shouldn't stop us admiring them and showing them some platonic love. "

Well .... platonically speaking. I love you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We can't be everyone's cup of tea, but it shouldn't stop us admiring them and showing them some platonic love.

Well .... platonically speaking. I love you

How about a bug Chunky hug?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh behave! You're every man's fantasy....

as if "

Maybe I'm weird in that you're mine then.....

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

its pointless and futile to waste your emotional time with such things. Not great for your mental health either. Just focus all that energy on someone who shows mutual interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the only 2 crushes I have are on this thread and L darling you know your one and also know who the other is lol...

I guess irony can pretty ironic sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people I find most physically attractive, and think i might like the sound of would never really be interested in someone like me.

The majority of people who show interest in me, particularly those who persistently message just aren't my type at all and don't seem to take a hint or accept a no thanks.

Sod's law.

That said there are a very small number where we click and there's mutual physical attraction. That number is very small though!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

There are loads on here who are not compatible with me so I friend zone them and stick to the ones who are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Butterflies can't see their wings. They can't see how beautiful they truly are but everyone else can. People can be like that too."

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm sure it's happened to us all. I've clicked on a couple of hot profiles to find I'm outside their age range.

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