FabSwingers.com forum: Settle a debate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets?

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "

One off lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

One off....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And when I say 2 days I mean 2 nights as well. Not just waking up and spending time together the next day too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a one off

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "

How many people was it with?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

One off or a weekend fling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets?

How many people was it with?"

Just the one. I’m not too greedy

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Why does it matter?

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

A one off...but hopefully a very memorable one.

K x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would class that as one meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does it matter?"

Inherently it doesn’t but if we get into the whole ‘why does it matter’ concept won’t we just wind up deleting 90% of the threads on the forum?

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

A one off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would class it as a one off two days off fun

Meets start when arrive and meet dosent end till you go away xxx

Now say you arrived and then went home the next morning and then when home message and came back that night would class that as two meets

But if you never left would still concider it one meet

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Why does it matter?

Inherently it doesn’t but if we get into the whole ‘why does it matter’ concept won’t we just wind up deleting 90% of the threads on the forum? "

That’s true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know about a one off.or not but your a lucky fucker anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t know about a one off.or not but your a lucky fucker anyway

Of that I am very well aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good but two straight days.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm good but two straight days....."

Maybe some people actually enjoy the company of others and not just Vag...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm good but two straight days.....

Maybe some people actually enjoy the company of others and not just Vag... "

Why never again then or is that personal?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would say 2 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm good but two straight days.....

Maybe some people actually enjoy the company of others and not just Vag... "

As a one off that'd setting yourself up for a torturous future if you got along.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm good but two straight days.....

Maybe some people actually enjoy the company of others and not just Vag...

Why never again then or is that personal?"

Hypothetical... let’s just say I don’t think someone I’d want to spend 2 days with would be someone I’d want to not see again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm good but two straight days.....

Maybe some people actually enjoy the company of others and not just Vag...

As a one off that'd setting yourself up for a torturous future if you got along....."

Oh I agree, the concept is purely hypothetical based on terminology alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm good but two straight days.....

Maybe some people actually enjoy the company of others and not just Vag...

Why never again then or is that personal?

Hypothetical... let’s just say I don’t think someone I’d want to spend 2 days with would be someone I’d want to not see again. "

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

One off..

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

One off to me as well.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Definitely one off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1 off

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

1 meet, 2 nights....definitely not a one night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 meet, 2 nights....definitely not a one night stand

An extended version of a one night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a pretty good one off to me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Most ladies that come to mine stay over for 2 nights, one even stopped for 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Most ladies that come to mine stay over for 2 nights, one even stopped for 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in!

Good job Dave stepped in to kaibosh that shizzle eh

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Unless you are Bill Murray in Groundhog day, it's a one-off.

If you are Bill Murray in Groundhog Day, pm me I have questions

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Did the other person leave the building independently of you during that time?

If yes, it was two meets. If not it was one long one.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Did the other person leave the building independently of you during that time?

If yes, it was two meets. If not it was one long one. "

Even if you send them to the shop for more milk & teabags?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Most ladies that come to mine stay over for 2 nights, one even stopped for 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in!

Good job Dave stepped in to kaibosh that shizzle eh "

Yeah, Brother Dave is good to me like that

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Did the other person leave the building independently of you during that time?

If yes, it was two meets. If not it was one long one.

Even if you send them to the shop for more milk & teabags?

Yep, if they left and came back, it’s a new meet. Thems the rules!

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "

Id count it as you being the luckiest b*****d on fab and at the same time the unluckiest that you didn’t get a chance for Part II.

And it’s one meet. You jammy git..!

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

One off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fortunately for me I reckon when this does happen there will be a second meet on the cards anyway. Just defining the terminology

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

my first fab meet was two dates... i called him a one off

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Every single person on this thread has classed it as a one off so it isn't much of a debate !

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Okay to throw a spanner in, it could be 2 dates as it occurs on two different dates.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

One off

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Did the other person leave the building independently of you during that time?

If yes, it was two meets. If not it was one long one.

Even if you send them to the shop for more milk & teabags?

Yep, if they left and came back, it’s a new meet. Thems the rules! "

What about if they pop outside for fresh air....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "

If one or other party goes out for ciggies/milk/more lube at any point then that counts as two meets

I think that's in the FAB guidelines

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "
one off

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

That would be 1 meet lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I was going to say it's a one off ... but I thought about it.

You meet, stay the night, do the dirty and say .........

Hey that was fab , let's meet again sometime.

She opens her diary and says ....... mmmmmmmmmm i'm busy. I can only do tomorrow.

Okay says you ......

Tomorrow comes and it's meet two!

It's all in the reasoning

Makes no difference.

If you take me to reality court I'll say it's a one off....... K ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2+2=5

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Did the other person leave the building independently of you during that time?

If yes, it was two meets. If not it was one long one.

Even if you send them to the shop for more milk & teabags?

Yep, if they left and came back, it’s a new meet. Thems the rules!

What about if they pop outside for fresh air....

Also needs two veries

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was going to say it's a one off ... but I thought about it.

You meet, stay the night, do the dirty and say .........

Hey that was fab , let's meet again sometime.

She opens her diary and says ....... mmmmmmmmmm i'm busy. I can only do tomorrow.

Okay says you ......

Tomorrow comes and it's meet two!

It's all in the reasoning

Makes no difference.

If you take me to reality court I'll say it's a one off....... K ?"

But what if she’s the one who prearranged it to be 2 nights off the bat? Then there was no diary opening after the first night and we just stayed in bed doing... well the mind can wander about that part

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "

Which days of the week were the two days and what was the weather at the time ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets?

Which days of the week were the two days and what was the weather at the time ?

Hasn’t happened yet and hopefully not as damn hot as it has been haha

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I was going to say it's a one off ... but I thought about it.

You meet, stay the night, do the dirty and say .........

Hey that was fab , let's meet again sometime.

She opens her diary and says ....... mmmmmmmmmm i'm busy. I can only do tomorrow.

Okay says you ......

Tomorrow comes and it's meet two!

It's all in the reasoning

Makes no difference.

If you take me to reality court I'll say it's a one off....... K ?

As long as you play scrabble it's 2 meets

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

Wouldn't analyse it but just be grateful that ( in my case) lightning stuck twice!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was going to say it's a one off ... but I thought about it.

You meet, stay the night, do the dirty and say .........

Hey that was fab , let's meet again sometime.

She opens her diary and says ....... mmmmmmmmmm i'm busy. I can only do tomorrow.

Okay says you ......

Tomorrow comes and it's meet two!

It's all in the reasoning

Makes no difference.

If you take me to reality court I'll say it's a one off....... K ?

As long as you play scrabble it's 2 meets"

Would that be the same if we literally met for just scrabble? Would that be 2 meets?

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

It’s a trick question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be going back for more just like Oliver twist

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id be going back for more just like Oliver twist

Once I get a ‘please sir can I have some more’ I’ll consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have a meet lasting 2 days but never meet again would that still be a one off or would you count it as 2 meets? "

One off...it was a once off two day meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking incase you might have been tricked into accidentally going steady with someone?

It really makes no difference

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Are you asking incase you might have been tricked into accidentally going steady with someone?

It really makes no difference"

I dont think that's what he meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you asking incase you might have been tricked into accidentally going steady with someone?

It really makes no difference"

No trickery here. Just good wholehearted fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A one off I think. One of a weekend weekend off to an adventure.

But no willingness or possibility to return.

So one epic one off.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I was going to say it's a one off ... but I thought about it.

You meet, stay the night, do the dirty and say .........

Hey that was fab , let's meet again sometime.

She opens her diary and says ....... mmmmmmmmmm i'm busy. I can only do tomorrow.

Okay says you ......

Tomorrow comes and it's meet two!

It's all in the reasoning

Makes no difference.

If you take me to reality court I'll say it's a one off....... K ?

Then it's a one off.

If it's a one off OR a two off and you say it's NOT a two off it's a ONE OFF

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A one off I think. One of a weekend weekend off to an adventure.

But no willingness or possibility to return.

So one epic one off.

Oh it’ll be epic... very unlikely to be a one off in the end

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Since we are talking "technicalities"

Its not a one night stand as you will be spending 2 nights together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A one off I think. One of a weekend weekend off to an adventure.

But no willingness or possibility to return.

So one epic one off.

Oh it’ll be epic... very unlikely to be a one off in the end "

That's fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A one off I think. One of a weekend weekend off to an adventure.

But no willingness or possibility to return.

So one epic one off.

Oh it’ll be epic... very unlikely to be a one off in the end

That's fantastic.

Indeed it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is now looking like an extending one night stand with further extensions.

Fun

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I was going to say it's a one off ... but I thought about it.

You meet, stay the night, do the dirty and say .........

Hey that was fab , let's meet again sometime.

She opens her diary and says ....... mmmmmmmmmm i'm busy. I can only do tomorrow.

Okay says you ......

Tomorrow comes and it's meet two!

It's all in the reasoning

Makes no difference.

If you take me to reality court I'll say it's a one off....... K ?

As long as you play scrabble it's 2 meets

Would that be the same if we literally met for just scrabble? Would that be 2 meets? "

Possibly 3. It can be a long game

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