FabSwingers.com forum: In 3 years time

By *icearms OP Man
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

It's Saturday night.. some will have had a tipple others won't. Typical Saturday night question down the pub..

Where do you see yourself in 3 years? Will you still be on fab.. either alone and happy or have found the swinging parter that want a to continue the lifestyle with you?

Engaged waiting to be married or even expecting a little one?

Where do you think you'll be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here. Still not meeting anyone. Still single. Still in the same dead end job, unless the company goes under.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here, single and hopefully having fun.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Hopefully moved out of where I am currently.

Still in the same job but CIPD qualified and looking to progress.

I'd like to think I'd be with someone but probably won't be. I'd love to find someone I can share

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I'll be 40 and nobody will want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s for future me to worry about. Present me can just crack on and what will he will be

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't think much will have changed other than the number of dogs I have - I'm a crazy old spinster dog lady in training

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take everyday as it comes..rarely think further ahead than a 24 hr period..hopefully though I ll be where I need to be in 3 years time whatever that need maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off here forever I’ll probably still be here

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Swinging away

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Probably the same as now, still on fab hoping to find a compatible fwb

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not a fucking clue

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By *utchyjackMan
over a year ago

Newquay

Hopefully still waking up in the morning thinking this is the first day of the rest of my life, how much fun can I have today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea...i concentrate on now...tomorrow is too far off to predict.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

The best-laid plans of mice and men...

Three years ago I had a plan. It didn't work out.

This year is not what anyone planned for.

Moral of the story, you can't plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows? Probably single. Will I still be on Fab? No idea - don't yet know it I'll still be here by the end of next week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best-laid plans of mice and men...

Three years ago I had a plan. It didn't work out.

This year is not what anyone planned for.

Moral of the story, you can't plan. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea

If you asked me that question two yrs ago I would have not expected to be still be around

so no idea what the two or three years hold

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Never been down a pub anywhere in the world ,ever and someone asks where you going to be in 3 years time .. It’s a job interview question . .. .. your on a swingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preston hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be in a different country, that is 100% happening.

I'll hopefully be married to my partner by that stage as I'm currently engaged.

I'll probably start thinking of a second child at that point too.

I hope I'm happier in myself and I hope I will have met a few people from Fab by that point.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Can not see my life changing much. Sadly i will never be rich and i need to work until i am 67 so guess will just be where i am now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoping turkey twizzlers make a return and I can finally be happy again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in three years I will be in a relationship with a fine lady I met on Fab, who is way above me and each day makes me espire to be a better me.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Probably in lockdown following the 19th wave

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Bluebell. That’s sad.. I’ve worked since I was 14. You sound like a honest old sole . Who just pays her way ., cannon fodder for the tax nan bless you kitten xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Probably still here, 13th year. But many things are possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best I can hope for is that I'm allowed in football stadiums again (from the quarentene... I'm not a hooligan with a banning order or anything) apart from that... meh

In bed would be a close second... then I'm out of both options and aspirations

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Bluebell. That’s sad.. I’ve worked since I was 14. You sound like a honest old sole . Who just pays her way ., cannon fodder for the tax nan bless you kitten xx"

Not sad really. My life is simple and i am happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still single, maybe still here but will have left and come back a few times, but might have just left for good.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Do you know what. . I took early retirement . I I owe nobody anything. .. sister I’m so content too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In three years... hmm.

Well hopefully I’ll my partner and I might actually get married (we’ve been together 12 years and just been too lazy to plan a wedding!), and hopefully have a regular swinging partner in my life too.

I can see my partner and I becoming slowly more poly as time goes on as well.

But we’ll see. Life isn’t set in stone and things change. X

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

The way things are going at the moment ....

Six Feet Under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully still here with a ring and having a lot of fun

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I answered this 3 years ago and, y'know

*waves at everything*

I was as wrong as fuck.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"It's Saturday night.. some will have had a tipple others won't. Typical Saturday night question down the pub..

Where do you see yourself in 3 years? Will you still be on fab.. either alone and happy or have found the swinging parter that want a to continue the lifestyle with you?

Engaged waiting to be married or even expecting a little one?

Where do you think you'll be?"

Blimey I won’t be here much longer than a few months yet alone 3 yrs

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Married and with (another) little one.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Still happily single with the freedom to roam all over the country having fun weekends away with fab special friends

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I try not to think too far ahead as circumstances can change in a second. We learnt the hard way

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try not to think too far ahead as circumstances can change in a second. We learnt the hard way

J x"

As Mr Lennon once said "life is what happens, whilst you are making plans". Take care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to have given up my job, sold all my assets and be touring the world in a campervan of some sort, visiting fetish clubs + dungeons.

I'd also like a dog

I would love a swinging friend... M or f to do that with

... And maybe start my own club / dungeon eventually

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm pretty sure I still will be on fab.

I'm not sure workwise where I will be, as there is a chance that a total change of career might be necessary even though it is a little bit late in life for me.

I would like to have met somebody who I can connect with and spend the occasional event with, but regardless of that I would like to be still attending events and parties where and when possible.

I hope that I still will be maintaining my enthusiasm and spontaneity for life.

I love the lifestyle so it likely I still will be kicking around in a corner of fab.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I try not to think too far ahead as circumstances can change in a second. We learnt the hard way

J x

As Mr Lennon once said "life is what happens, whilst you are making plans". Take care x"

Thank you xx We planned our wedding from a hospital bed not knowing if T would be alive. 6 months at a time is enough for now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try not to think too far ahead as circumstances can change in a second. We learnt the hard way

J x

As Mr Lennon once said "life is what happens, whilst you are making plans". Take care x

Thank you xx We planned our wedding from a hospital bed not knowing if T would be alive. 6 months at a time is enough for now x"

Sending my heart felt love to you both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll probably be living in the same house, hopefully in the same job or at least working for the same company, and I'll almost certainly still be on here and attending clubs

And hopefully hubby won't have got dick of me by then

if he does I might be living in Scotland with my parents, not on here and with a totally different job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont know as i think back 3 years and id never have said id be where i am now tbh.

As long as im happy, thats all that really matters

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Not much has changed in the last 3yrs, although my career is on projection for a significant turning point in 3 years.

So who knows, i may still be single, still be fabbing, still be traveling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 3 years time I will probably still be living alone. Yet with many more Fab friends that I will have met through the club scene.

( please God, don't let the clubs remain closed because of covid-19 for the next 3 years!!)

I hope to have aquired a male hareem!

hehe.

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