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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's frowned upon but there have been women I have spoken to on here who have said they get so many messages they didn't even see my 1st message but were interested when they got my 2nd one. For example if the woman is offline then then she won't look at her back log of messages

I'd never send loads of messages but maybe a few weeks or months later I may send a second message after that I'll definitely leave it.

I'm sure men don't have this problem lol.

So women what are your thoughts on this?

I'm sure making your message stand out us key here. How important is the subject? Do you go through every message if you literally have 100s?

Whats the most messages you've had at once?

Appreciate any feedback on this as I'd hate to annoy anyone but like I said I've never hounded thats not my style, to be honest I hardly message anyways. Just curious as I have in the past met someone regular who I messaged the second time after seeing she didn't see my 1st message from a few weeks back.

Ps im not trying to encourage regular repeat messaging if your message has been read and no reply take a hint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's frowned upon but there have been women I have spoken to on here who have said they get so many messages they didn't even see my 1st message but were interested when they got my 2nd one. For example if the woman is offline then then she won't look at her back log of messages

I'd never send loads of messages but maybe a few weeks or months later I may send a second message after that I'll definitely leave it.

I'm sure men don't have this problem lol.

So women what are your thoughts on this?

I'm sure making your message stand out us key here. How important is the subject? Do you go through every message if you literally have 100s?

Whats the most messages you've had at once?

Appreciate any feedback on this as I'd hate to annoy anyone but like I said I've never hounded thats not my style, to be honest I hardly message anyways. Just curious as I have in the past met someone regular who I messaged the second time after seeing she didn't see my 1st message from a few weeks back.

Ps im not trying to encourage regular repeat messaging if your message has been read and no reply take a hint!

"

You just answered your own question at the end there, by telling other people what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this one guy who just messages most weeks asking "you horny fella?" but I don't let it stop me from wanking.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first profile on here involving my wife was a single profile for her and she received over 2,500 messages in six weeks.

It was crazy and she ended up hating it and only 20 or so of those messages were any good to her which is why we approach fab the way we do now and for us it works.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bulk delete messages now and again without reading them so don’t mind getting repeat messages. If it gets too much, the block button is my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I may have answered one of my questions not all of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats crazy!! 2500 did not expect it to be that high!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh I thought this might have been the case! Do you bulk delete because you just cba?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh I thought this might have been the case! Do you bulk delete because you just cba?"

Click the quote and reply button so we know who you’re talking to. What’s cba? If this question was for me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh I thought this might have been the case! Do you bulk delete because you just cba?

Click the quote and reply button so we know who you’re talking to. What’s cba? If this question was for me? "
sorry!!! Absolute amateur here... Do you bulk delete because you can't be bothered to read all the messages?

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I am lucky in that I do not get many messages, today I have had 4 new ones. If I am not interested at all, I will use the block button to avoid repeat messages being received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh I thought this might have been the case! Do you bulk delete because you just cba?

Click the quote and reply button so we know who you’re talking to. What’s cba? If this question was for me? sorry!!! Absolute amateur here... Do you bulk delete because you can't be bothered to read all the messages?"

Yep.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Single women inboxes are constantly flooded on here due to the ratio between men and women on here let alone couple profiles too. So imagine a lot of bulk deleting and very hard to keep track of whose messaging who. But I guess if they are genuinely interested they will message you. Is annoying when you get a vibe from each other and then suddenly the ghost effect happens but guess you gotta be patient x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flick through...if a subject catches my eye interesting or cheeky or first line I’ll read..... Depends how many messages there are.

A decent message will always get a reply.

That said if it’s a dick pic I rarely open the message

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve heard ladies say this before. It may be worth sending another message but not for a couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can definately catch me at a good or bad time. Or where I've saved people and never got back because. Well, because yeah if it's more and more persistent I simply block.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"Ahh I thought this might have been the case! Do you bulk delete because you just cba?

Click the quote and reply button so we know who you’re talking to. What’s cba? If this question was for me? "

As far as I’m aware, cba means ‘can’t be arsed’

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