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"Why do people put it like that here .. shouldn't they refer them in person? It comes across as derogatory, treating them as a Tool. Would love to hear black guys views on it " Thing is, we get so many guys contacting us saying that they are BBC. Strange. | |||
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"Why do people put it like that here .. shouldn't they refer them in person? It comes across as derogatory, treating them as a Tool. Would love to hear black guys views on it " Personally I find it extremely cringey but others may see it as a turn on depends on person I guess | |||
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"Them? " Yes as in Bbc being referred to the black guys. | |||
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"Them? Yes as in Bbc being referred to the black guys. " Fucking brilliant lol | |||
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"Them? Yes as in Bbc being referred to the black guys. Fucking brilliant lol" Op think before you text | |||
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"Them? Yes as in Bbc being referred to the black guys. Fucking brilliant lol Op think before you text " You probably don't understand the context of this post .. lol | |||
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"Them? Yes as in Bbc being referred to the black guys. Fucking brilliant lol Op think before you text You probably don't understand the context of this post .. lol " Care to explain? | |||
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"prefere ch4 tbh" Gosh .. this channel bullshit joke is getting too old. Already here on the thread lol Be original | |||
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"Lost count of the amount of times black men have called it that themselfs. On profiles, on threads and inboxing " Indeed such a message would seem to be awaiting our attention | |||
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"Lost count of the amount of times black men have called it that themselfs. On profiles, on threads and inboxing " We agree. | |||
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"Why do people put it like that here .. shouldn't they refer them in person? It comes across as derogatory, treating them as a Tool. Would love to hear black guys views on it " It’s a great filter tool, so look at it as a positive | |||
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"Why do people put it like that here .. shouldn't they refer them in person? It comes across as derogatory, treating them as a Tool. Would love to hear black guys views on it It’s a great filter tool, so look at it as a positive " Filter tool ? More like referring a person as a Penis only. Also sort of racist .. but who isn't here, right ?? | |||
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"Why do people put it like that here .. shouldn't they refer them in person? It comes across as derogatory, treating them as a Tool. Would love to hear black guys views on it It’s a great filter tool, so look at it as a positive Filter tool ? More like referring a person as a Penis only. Also sort of racist .. but who isn't here, right ?? " Exactly mate; it’s a two-fold way of filtering out people I don’t want to meet | |||
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"Them? Yes as in Bbc being referred to the black guys. Fucking brilliant lol" lol | |||
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"here we go again,white people lecturing everyone on racism and electing themselves to speak up on behalf of black people.lol" oh the white saviour you mean ? | |||
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"Why do people put it like that here .. shouldn't they refer them in person? It comes across as derogatory, treating them as a Tool. Would love to hear black guys views on it " I’m personally not a fan of the term as a black MAN, there’s a lot to me than just my tool. However, it’s difficult to be seen as anything more than that on here as other black guys use the term themselves. Guess it’s because they want to appeal to those who are looking for it I suppose... | |||
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" Thing is, we get so many guys contacting us saying that they are BBC. Strange." Really! Must be true then. I don't know anyone with black heritage that refers to themselves as bbc. Are you sure they don't say "I have a bbc" not "I am a bbc"? | |||
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"I mentioned something on another thread a few days back saying it's dehumanising to refer someone as a bbc. Certain individuals asked what I meant but if they have to ask that then they're not worthy of my time." if they genuinely are struggling to understand then why not help them to understand instead of feeling you are superior to them?it is a forum after all.it all starts with education | |||
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" Thing is, we get so many guys contacting us saying that they are BBC. Strange. Really! Must be true then. I don't know anyone with black heritage that refers to themselves as bbc. Are you sure they don't say "I have a bbc" not "I am a bbc"?" We had one from a chap the other day. His username had BBC within it and the message was basically "does the missus want BBC" This is not unusual. | |||
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"Is it any different to you describing a camel toe vagina ?" Camel toe is a shape not colour I am not referring to Arabian pûssy, believe me hahaha | |||
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"Is it any different to you describing a camel toe vagina ? Camel toe is a shape not colour I am not referring to Arabian pûssy, believe me hahaha" it's a description of the genitals as is big black cock | |||
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"I mentioned something on another thread a few days back saying it's dehumanising to refer someone as a bbc. Certain individuals asked what I meant but if they have to ask that then they're not worthy of my time. if they genuinely are struggling to understand then why not help them to understand instead of feeling you are superior to them?it is a forum after all.it all starts with education" Being a bit presumptive aren't you. No one mentioned feeling superior but if that's how you feel then nothing I can do about that. In this day and age we shouldn't have to explain to anyone why it's wrong to dehumanise anyone let alone people of black heritage. | |||
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"I mentioned something on another thread a few days back saying it's dehumanising to refer someone as a bbc. Certain individuals asked what I meant but if they have to ask that then they're not worthy of my time. if they genuinely are struggling to understand then why not help them to understand instead of feeling you are superior to them?it is a forum after all.it all starts with education Being a bit presumptive aren't you. No one mentioned feeling superior but if that's how you feel then nothing I can do about that. In this day and age we shouldn't have to explain to anyone why it's wrong to dehumanise anyone let alone people of black heritage. " thank you for your reply.i feel privileged that you have considered me worthy of your time.we shouldnt but not everyone can understand things straight away or perhaps have not been educated in the subject so surely can only be a good thing to explain and help others | |||
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"Any search for single guy's will turn that phrase up in minutes. The guy's themselves obviously don't have a problem as they put said term in there usernames?" the problem is not all black guys like being referred to as BBC it objectifies them ,same with tvts being called a tranny which I don't like tho some do ,the terms have become part of ppls vocabulary and don't stop to consider that it maybe insulting to some then think we are being touchy if we protest | |||
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