FabSwingers.com forum: How to say no?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same only with a few choice words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be really nice n listen n chat

now.... i just say "no thanks" n shut the door in their faces

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Well for me its rarely a problem cos i answer the door in a towel . So easy to say I have a bath running ..or im sunbathing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

Had a young male & female god-botherer round once. Kept telling the girl she looked very nice, and asked if she would sit next to me. They soon made their excuses & left!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the same thing hunny, I wouldn't be to worried about it have seen more then a few people just slam the door with out a word spoken, at least you tried being polite to them xxx

Chloe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last time i said

"sorry i have 3 women in my bed and 6 men so sorry im a bit busy unless u would like to join it"

they havent been back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you could shut the door, I got collered by a Mormon on the bus the other day, the only way I could get rid of him was to get off the bus

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Our outer door is glass - i just don't open it when i realise what they are and go back inside! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are Jehovah's witnesses I just tell them I've got an appointment to go donate blood. They soon turn and run away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had Jehovah's knock on the door one day, I was telly not in the mood so I told them I was a devil worshiper, I think they done the 100 metres in record time. Lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I usually say 'I have my own beliefs which I don't wish to discuss with strangers on my doorstep. Bye.' then the door is closed.

Nobody has invited these people to invade our space with their wacky ideas and in this age of concerns over personal security, canvassing at doors for any reason should be banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell them that I am in the middle of breakfast/lunch/dinner or on my way out as I've work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say sorry i am now going out ,And no time .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

Thats spooky, we have just had the same thing....are we neighbours?

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

I would say to them "If you do not shut up and go away It is possible that I might tell you to fuck off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many areas now have no cold calling. Point it out to them.

If they come again, you will call the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had an elderly couple keep me at the door for almost an hour...stood there in my breastfeeding nightie that had seen better days, totally starkers underneath, a naked child running around behind me, on a freezing cold day and they just wouldnt get the bloody hint, so i bought the damn Watchtower just to get rid...big mistake...the week after they turned up again but with son and daughter-in-law and their three kids in tow...I didnt answer the door for three sundays on the trot until they didnt come back lol

Now i just quietly question them about how a God can let such atrocoties like tsunamis and eartquakes and war happen, and tell them i do not believe there is a god and they tend to leave rather sharpish thinking im some sort of sinister devils whore...which i am lol

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By *he one in the middleMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

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By *he one in the middleMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

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By *he one in the middleMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I would do just the same close that door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

i say. ' do you have an appointment?'

obvously the answer is no.

when asked if they can make one i tell them i am fully booked until 2021 and i am now off to make my tea... then quetly shut the door...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have a persistant person at the door, selling god, Water Aid, or spiritual healing, I will be polite and once I have thier actual sales pitch (having asked them to cut to the chase, leaving thier scripted, dreadful 'banter' behind) I inform that I have no interest, no spare cash, no soul or whichever 'no' seems most appropriate.

When, which inevitably it does, the banter continues, I politley (again) inform them that thier time might be better spent elsewhere, wish them a good day and good luck, closing the dorr in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just shout piss off that works a treat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i just say my mum and dad ar not here at the mo and the go tell them i time when u not going to be in and done..

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I tell them i'm Catholic (thats if I even open the door) Soon gets rid of them.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I think that most of them would see that as a challenge and encourage them to get stuck in with their loony rhetoric.

I don't let them get that far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they ask you if you are religious ask them if they've heard of Charles Darwin and his ideas of evolution. A mate of mine once invited them in and talked about it for ages, he said that one of them was very interested and that the other took him away before he got converted lol

I find a firm 'no thanks' followed by the door shutting does it for me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I tell them i'm Catholic (thats if I even open the door) Soon gets rid of them. "

Thats what i say as well lol

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

Tell them your Catholic and watch them run!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ask them if they would mind coming in and waiting till I had finished beheading and draining my chicken as a sacrifice to my pagan gods... usually gets them to leave pretty quickly..

alternatively answer the door wearing something skimpy and invite them in for a play.... both usually get the same scared look and scuttling of feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same and I'd feel as miffed as you x

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Unless expecting company from friends, family or parcels delivered I won't even bat an eyelid if there's a knock at the door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a young bloke at the door last week asking me to donate to charity. I said sorry no thanks, I already donate regularly. He said ok thanks and left. He was polite, why weren't they today?!

Pisses me off when religious people think they have the right to preach at you. I respect everyone's beliefs and would never witter on about what I believe or try to convert them ggrrrr!

There seems to be a lot of people on here naked at home. Where the heck do you live, it's freeeeezing here !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?

Thats spooky, we have just had the same thing....are we neighbours?

Hello neighbour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some bloke knock asking for money for battersea dogs home, I live in Portsmouth! I said I don't like animals. He said the couple next door had a nice dog. I said wonder if it tastes good? He said you wouldn't hurt it would you? I said yes if I were that hungry I'd cook it and eat it. He soon said thanks an bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

answer the door wearing a strap-on and say ur busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"answer the door wearing a strap-on and say ur busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"answer the door wearing a strap-on and say ur busy

if she did that she'd have all the neighbours knocking LOL

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

ask for their address. When they ask why you want to know, say it is so you can visit them to push your beliefs. So far, none of them have given their address. It also marks the end of the inter_iew. SLAM!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

Ask them if they would like to join in the gang-bang that was just about to start.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"ask for their address. When they ask why you want to know, say it is so you can visit them to push your beliefs. So far, none of them have given their address. It also marks the end of the inter_iew. SLAM!

Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

invite them in for a 'party'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

step 1. hide behind the settee

step 2. stay there til they have gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or if they were jehovahs, ask 'em for a kidney or a pint of blood

that usually works

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No thank you

I have said no thank you and I am closing the door now. Take care of yourselves

close the door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"answer the door wearing a strap-on and say ur busy

if she did that she'd have all the neighbours knocking LOL"

Ewwww have you seen my neighbours??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like nothing better than a chat with the Jehovas or the Mormons.

They'll never convert me and I always tell them that from the onset, but I still like to here their take on things.

Mrs Red just shakes her head and walks away, but I enjoy the banter and would never be rude to them.

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By *ocksmithMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Next time invite them in and start undressing,if that doesn't give them the hint then at least you will have the pleasure of being spitroasted by two Jehovah's witness and you wi have something to talk about at swinger parties or on here lol

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By *ypnoprincessCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I'm always polite say no thank you I'm not interested and if they become rude and try to carry on, I normally say something I know will shock them into silence, I once told a cold caller who wouldn't take no for an answer that I was about to insert a large dildo into my anal he soon went quiet but strangely he didn't put the phone down lmao

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By *ypnoprincessCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I'm always polite say no thank you I'm not interested and if they become rude and try to carry on, I normally say something I know will shock them into silence, I once told a cold caller who wouldn't take no for an answer that I was about to insert a large dildo into my anal he soon went quiet but strangely he didn't put the phone down lmao

Sj "

Anus even lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my favourite ways of getting rid of these folk are asking to borrow money from them, they normally leave sharpish or asking them if they are the hit men i hired, cause if they are, there outfits are super and i think the cover story will work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really fail to understand why people feel the need to be rude or offensive.

If you're not interested, just say so but to talk about inserting large dildos etc ..... yawwwwwwwn

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By *ypnoprincessCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It is rude when you politely say no thank you and they carry in harassing you in your own home, and I simply told them what I was doing as I was about to do that as I was in the middle of a play session, if you are in the middle of eating don't you tell them????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is rude when you politely say no thank you and they carry in harassing you in your own home, and I simply told them what I was doing as I was about to do that as I was in the middle of a play session, if you are in the middle of eating don't you tell them????"

So you'd answer a knock at the door in the middle of a play session ?

Yeah right ....

Learn to be assertive, regardless of what you are doing, and to be honest I doubt your story, but if you did answer the door why didn't you just politely say, 'No' and close the door ? - no need to offend people, after all you might not agree with their _iews on life but as a swinger I wonder what they think about you ? Live and let live eh ?

I am really sceptical of 99% of the 'I told the Jehovas' stories because the majority of people are not so rude and offensive except when they are keyboard warriors ....

No I'm not a Jehovahs Witness but I respect their (and all other religions) beliefs and their right not to be abused

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By *ypnoprincessCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Try reading it was a phone call not a knock at the door, and I was answering the ops question

Maybe you couldn't see all of my post from that high moral ground your on

Some people take things way to serious

But will say I'm sorry you find my own personal way of handling rude people offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

Tell em I am a born-again moslim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had 2 blokes at the door wanting to talk about 'spiritual things'. I'm assuming they were Jehova's but didn't ask.

I didn't want to chat, I didn't ask them to call round, I politely said "no thank you I'm not interested" about 3 times.

In the end I had to shut the door on them. I hate doing that as I'm not a rude person. But they were being rude by not taking 'no' for an answer and not leaving.

What would you do?"

i always say to them, they day i come and knock on your door and tell you not to believe in god is the day your welcome to knock on mine and trey and convince me there is one

I dont believe on god and i dont welcome people trying to change my _iews, i respect peoples beliefs and i expoect then to show me the same respect

I also dont think its rude to shut your own front door on anyone, its your home and you have the rights to close anyone out of it

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By *admanmoonxMan
over a year ago

Stanford Le Hope

I politely tell them I belong to the church of St Agnostics and then shut the door before they have a proper chance to respond. The look on their face as they realise whats happening just before the door closes is quite something else

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