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Spontaneous vs Planned meets

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Is it just me or are spontaneous meets 1000 times hotter?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Is it just me or are spontaneous meets 1000 times hotter?"

No

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Not as a blanket rule, no. It depends on so many factors...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I prefer planned. The anticipation is delicious.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’ve had one or two spontaneous meets that have been great. But they are out weighed by the disastrous spontaneous ones which is why we like a social first and the planned ones have been much more successful (although we never actually plan what happens on the planned meets, we very much go with the flow!)

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"We’ve had one or two spontaneous meets that have been great. But they are out weighed by the disastrous spontaneous ones which is why we like a social first and the planned ones have been much more successful (although we never actually plan what happens on the planned meets, we very much go with the flow!) "

I guess I just like the fact of not knowing whats going to happen, instead of a long build up where you talk about almost every detail of whats going to happen... maybe its just me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up "
yes this is what I do.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is it just me or are spontaneous meets 1000 times hotter?"

So spontaneous that you don't have time to shower and put on clean underwear ?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We’ve had one or two spontaneous meets that have been great. But they are out weighed by the disastrous spontaneous ones which is why we like a social first and the planned ones have been much more successful (although we never actually plan what happens on the planned meets, we very much go with the flow!)

I guess I just like the fact of not knowing whats going to happen, instead of a long build up where you talk about almost every detail of whats going to happen... maybe its just me haha"

Doesn't matter how much you talk you never know what it will be like until it happens. How they kiss, how they feel, how they react, the sounds they make. I'm always so excited to experience those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up yes this is what I do. "

It's a sad sad night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up "

Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up

Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again "

How do you stop it, he wasn't even from Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I like to plan and be freshly showered etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up

Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again

How do you stop it, he wasn't even from Fab! "

She was. This is why I prefer to go into phone contact. It shows how serious they are.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Spontaneous can be good but planned it so much better anticipation cheeky chats. I think you know what I mean

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Prefer planned, anticipation and pre meet up messages to let the mind wander

Plus it give you a chance to shower etc and get ready for the night ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like some build up tbh.....

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We have always done planned meets but I would like to have a completely spontaneous meet as it would be a different experience for us and add to the excitement I imagine.

Mrs x

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"We have always done planned meets but I would like to have a completely spontaneous meet as it would be a different experience for us and add to the excitement I imagine.

Mrs x"

I think it does add to the excitement but im massively outweighed on this debate haha

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I guess even the planned ones are spontaneous as even if you planned it you don’t really know exactly what is gonna happen till you get there x

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts "

Totally agree. The build up. Talking about what you are going to do. Thinking about what to wear for that person. Imagining them undressing you. It is part of the whole experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts "

too right

I have had both types of meets but only ever been letdown by a planned meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up

Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again

How do you stop it, he wasn't even from Fab! "

Not good but sadly cant stop them. Timewasters are always going to be there, had it happen a couple of times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to chat first, even if for a few days.

I used to be spontaneous, then I got older and couldnt be arsed anymore

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts

Totally agree. The build up. Talking about what you are going to do. Thinking about what to wear for that person. Imagining them undressing you. It is part of the whole experience x"

Exactly, telling them how you are going to pleasure and them telling you ... so no surprise and fully aware of what’s on the table .... or floor/counter /stairs/ kitchen/bathroom/bedroom

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