FabSwingers.com forum: Is being 45 too old ???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi people of fab.

I have just been thinking..I turn the grand ol age of 45 next month and I see on a lot of profiles that seems to be the maximum age that people like..

Has anyone else noticed this and do you think it will be game over ??? Not that it’s ever been game on at the min...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people of fab.

I have just been thinking..I turn the grand ol age of 45 next month and I see on a lot of profiles that seems to be the maximum age that people like..

Has anyone else noticed this and do you think it will be game over ??? Not that it’s ever been game on at the min..."

I hope not!!!im just starting to enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 - interest hasn't stopped because of my age anyhoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only as old as the person you feel

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

It better not be or am well passed it lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 49 so I hope 45 isn't too old!

I don't think age matters. If there's attraction then age doesn't figure.

Personally I rarely look at the age on the profile and I don't block messages by age either.

Even if they have a top age of 45 they can still allow any age to message. And there's always flirting on the forum - if they message you first the filters don't count.

Hang in there OP you never know what will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its different for women.

As I've gotten older my age preference goes up too, would be silly not too

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It arguably depends on how good you look for your age - if we'll preserved then you might do better than someone like me who looks older thanks to the grey hair.

You might struggle slightly online, because some folks set their age limits rigidly and anyone older can't message them, which can be frustrating, but forget it and move on. Maybe when times allow try more social events.

So it's not the end, by any means, but it might narrow your prospective field a bit that's all

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

Hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it’s too old for absolutely everyone. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was still 45!

Try being 62! Even though I don't look 62 it's proving difficult to get anyone interested in me,so many profiles have 50 or 55 as their maximum age & have blocked messages from anyone older.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I wish I was still 45!

Try being 62! Even though I don't look 62 it's proving difficult to get anyone interested in me,so many profiles have 50 or 55 as their maximum age & have blocked messages from anyone older."

By some dint of good fortune I have made it to the age of 80 by which time ones aspirations have diminished, luckily there are still people on here who have not bothered to change the default age range of 19 to 99, you just have to seek them out, not easy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nearly 46...Does this mean I have to accept my fossilisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Darn past it then, best hang up my stockings!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I'm nearly 46...Does this mean I have to accept my fossilisation

Not in slightest - you're a fantastic looking woman

And you must have another good 3 or 4 years left in you yet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too old if their cut off filters is 44.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your mind say its too old, do the responses say you re too old...age is how YOU feel it. If you feel old then old you shall be, if you feel young and tbh you re not old, you re in your forties. Enjoy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 52 and meet men my age and older ...so no 45 is not too old

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I hope not.

I put my age filters up as I get older so the ones who have 45 as a maximum age will probably do the same

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

...it's about the average age here, isn't it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I did smile O.P. I love your last line.

I can imagine men going. Why won't anyone shag me? Why can't I get a shag? Who likes young men? Ladies I am a great guy shag me? This place is fake? The women here are men ?..........

Oh no ...... im 45 tomorrow. I hope they'll still all shag me.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

"Darn past it then, best hang up my stockings!"

I’ve got something you could hang the on! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to go bi

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm 47 and I prefer guys around my own age.

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By *tarsky000Man
over a year ago

Harrow

"Yep it’s too old for absolutely everyone. Sorry "

I'm 94, are you up for it? I'll even remove the colostomy bag.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No it won't be game over but you will notice a significant drop in messages. I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I met J when he was 45.

Age is only ever a barrier to anything if you allow it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

47 and nothing happening from here except jolly good banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey. Best get my Zimmer frame serviced and break out the incontinence pads as I'll be needing them now.....

I'm 48 soon!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I’m the same age OP and only now getting the hang of this swinging lark so I hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a big deal crossing 40 in here, suddenly you can't message ppl because you're outside their age range, but then why would I even want to message someone who's decided they're not interested because of my age. PMFITS....

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm 57 and still active

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I know quite alot of guys over 50 on fab who would agree arent gym fit adonis types who very rarely struggle on here

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I turned 63 yesterday, my life on here finished 3 years ago, soooo many with 60 as their cut off.

But that's their personal preference, and it needs respecting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's how many are in your area too , not many in mine

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I hope not.

I put my age filters up as I get older so the ones who have 45 as a maximum age will probably do the same "

Yep. Mine is currently 45 but it was 40 when I first joined and 35 on other sites I used when I was 20.

Being under 30 I'm regularly outside of people's age ranges. Even with people a similar age as some only want older.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The optimum age range on fab is possibly between about 35 and 55. 60 is a big watershed after which interest declines rapidly.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Hi people of fab.

I have just been thinking..I turn the grand ol age of 45 next month and I see on a lot of profiles that seems to be the maximum age that people like..

Has anyone else noticed this and do you think it will be game over ??? Not that it’s ever been game on at the min..."
Age can be important to some ....for Sue she likes guys older than 40 as they are not as excitable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young if you ask me... wait till your 50. You'll be busy then with all the mid 20's wanting to try a very mature experianced man...

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"No it won't be game over but you will notice a significant drop in messages. I did

Find that hard to believe

Any more stories in the pipeline ?

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

There are a large range of age groups on here, and I think most people try to stay within a certain range of the own age, normally plus or minus 10 years. So no you're not too old or too young.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m 44 but have a body of a 43 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m 44 but have a body of a 43 year old

Phwaarrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP 45 is not too old at all.

Since hitting my 40's my sex life has exploded into life and it keeps getting better.

Seek out new experiences and have fun on the way, its awesome

Her x

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Age is only a barrier in the swinging community while “online”, people use age filters on here to eliminate unwanted attention from age groups they feel are too old or too young for them.

Our experience is that in physical swinging scenarios, I.e meeting in a club, a party or on a swingers holiday, nobody asks your age. It’s all down to physical attraction when face to face.

An example of this is a lady we played with at a party, she was early 30’s, we all had a great time, and the next day when we found her profile on fab, we couldn’t message her of friend her, because we were outside her age filters. So in fab world our hot session would never have happened, but in the real world it did.

Relying on fab to get some fun, is massively reducing the chances for a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people of fab.

I have just been thinking..I turn the grand ol age of 45 next month and I see on a lot of profiles that seems to be the maximum age that people like..

Has anyone else noticed this and do you think it will be game over ??? Not that it’s ever been game on at the min..."

Not even close! 45 is young.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

no I'm similar age and get tons of messages. age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...it's about the average age here, isn't it?

There is a difference between stated one and actual often

But no 45 is the prime sex age I think

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No deffo not my preferred age is 50 ish! I didnt start this lifestyle till I was 60 lol ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my 50s and I'm only just getting started

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Id kill to be 45 and as open and naughty as i am now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people of fab.

I have just been thinking..I turn the grand ol age of 45 next month and I see on a lot of profiles that seems to be the maximum age that people like..

Has anyone else noticed this and do you think it will be game over ??? Not that it’s ever been game on at the min..."

Im 50 and as much interest if not more now..

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

Hope not, we are both in our 40’s and we are only just starting our swinging journey after being married over 20 years. I feel we are in our prime...

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Age is just a number. It's the mind that help you keep young or old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

44 this year so time is running out for me

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

depends, too old for what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh wow thanks for all the replies..looks like being 45 is ok...I am still in the game...I do have a mental age of about 30 lol

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Hi people of fab.

I have just been thinking..I turn the grand ol age of 45 next month and I see on a lot of profiles that seems to be the maximum age that people like..

Has anyone else noticed this and do you think it will be game over ??? Not that it’s ever been game on at the min..."

Yes I noticed a lot of ladies cut off at 40 , they must think we’re past it after that .. I’ve never been fitter personally

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

God I’m fucked then

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

“Is being 45 too old ???“

No. Being 40 is too old. Every birthday after that is life’s cruel reminder that you’re heading downhill at an ever faster rate. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not, I'm only 4 years away from being put out to pasture if that's the case lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There definitely a ageist element too fab most guy filter is 18 / 99

With the ladies at 25 / 45 but 45 is not that old now we are much healthier and then a lot of 20-somethings it's unfair.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"God I’m fucked then

You lucky get! I've not been fucked since I turned 52, admittedly my birthday is in June.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

No way

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Not a chance OP

Own it and show those youngsters up

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

If someone has a 45 age limit check their verifications, you might find they play with older people

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