FabSwingers.com forum: What makes you, YOU!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is that certain thing that makes you!!

When your friends family try to explain the type of person you are eg funny careing loyal bonkers.

Would you change it if so what for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Determination.

That's probably it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straightforward

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most describe me as nuts i agree tbh i wouldn’t change it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Straightforward "

Best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyal, bubbly, crazy redhead.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I say it as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Ambitious, dreamer, adventurer, empathic, sensible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say it as it is "

How is it?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I say it as it is

How is it?"

Sweet

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honest

100% all the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impulsive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you get a whole lot of me if you accept me into your life

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Dizzy but kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DNA

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strong "

I wish i was!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopeless romantic

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Partly it’s genetic and partly is the result of all of the experiences in my life to date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Batshit

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"That you get a whole lot of me if you accept me into your life

Nice answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diplomatic (Sarcastic) ditzy, loving, generous x

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

The way I make people feel comfortable and good about themselves, My smile, my cuddles, my filthy humour, my arse. Lord I could go on all night. I'm kind of a big deal

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Strong "

Wish i was lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Batshit"

Please explain

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"The way I make people feel comfortable and good about themselves, My smile, my cuddles, my filthy humour, my arse. Lord I could go on all night. I'm kind of a big deal

Wish i was lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a little bit of everything all rolled into one.

They even made a song about me

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I’m a little bit of everything all rolled into one.

They even made a song about me

Think that’s Dora lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some crackers coming in here the gang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depressed, acerbic, antisocial, cynical...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often described in real life as friendly, awkward, gentle, silly and happy. I'd agree with all of it and I'm really happy with my fantastic personality. I wouldn't change much.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I have, by choice, few friends (can count on one hand). They describe me as

Fierce,

Passionate

Loyal

Stubborn as fuck

Mad as a box of frogs

Very easy to "take the wrong way"

Would I change?

Not even if I could, straight John Bull all the way and if anyone has a problem with it or me then that's their problem not mine.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I'm often described in real life as friendly, awkward, gentle, silly and happy. I'd agree with all of it and I'm really happy with my fantastic personality. I wouldn't change much.

Same here, really don’t give a fuck... it is what it is x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Unflappable

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unstoppable

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Always up for the craic , mad fucker after a few pints

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Unstoppable"

Ditto

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me. "

Best be yourself and not many things to many people I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me. "

It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open, honest and genuine I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have, by choice, few friends (can count on one hand). They describe me as

Fierce,

Passionate

Loyal

Stubborn as fuck

Mad as a box of frogs

Very easy to "take the wrong way"

Is fucking rite!!!!!!!!! Belta!!!!

Would I change?

Not even if I could, straight John Bull all the way and if anyone has a problem with it or me then that's their problem not mine. "

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.

It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..

Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Funny, kind, generous, intense.

I think all my qualities probably cancel each other out, so I'm just left with an amorphous blob!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.

It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..

I like that do we all act different infront of different people?

If i was the relaxed say do what i want person i work i would have been sacked a longgggg time ago.

Do we not change but maybe turn it in a bit or put a guard up infront of different people??

Id say so 100%

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.

It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..

Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x"

Can understand why you do, good luck as you deserve it like us all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind, talkative, bonkers and pink

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Sense of humour, caring, loving and empathetic. I’ve been told I’m stubborn, but I’m just determined.

Would I change? No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently i attract 'stray cats'.. People in-need seem to seek me out.

It can drain you pretty quickly, so you have to keep topping yourself up and working on your resilience.. I wouldn't change it tho

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Sense of humour, caring, loving and empathetic. I’ve been told I’m stubborn, but I’m just determined.

Would I change? No

Why change? You are who you are? :- :-

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Sense of humour, caring, loving and empathetic. I’ve been told I’m stubborn, but I’m just determined.

Would I change? No

Best way

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.

It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..

Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x"

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We are both really grumpy first thing in the morning, but happy, friendly and caring people at all other times, ours is a happy world

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"It would depend who you asked.

My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.

My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.

My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.

I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.

It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..

Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me. "

Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all who got involved!!!!

Just remember dont change nothing your all winners!!!!

Well in gang much love x x x x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Thanks to all who got involved!!!!

Just remember dont change nothing your all winners!!!!

Well in gang much love x x x x"

Totally agrew

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Thanks to all who got involved!!!!

Just remember dont change nothing your all winners!!!!

Well in gang much love x x x x

Totally agrew

Agree even

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

So you behave in an identical manner towards every single person that you ever come into contact with? I'm sorry, but I don't believe that. We all tailor our behaviour for different circumstances, it's part of social etiquette - I really hope that nobody would behave the same way at a funeral as they would at a funfair for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that everyday I become a better me and I’m lucky because I’m me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you behave in an identical manner towards every single person that you ever come into contact with? I'm sorry, but I don't believe that. We all tailor our behaviour for different circumstances, it's part of social etiquette - I really hope that nobody would behave the same way at a funeral as they would at a funfair for example. "

With you Lily white thats what inwas tryin t say b4

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Each to their own i guess xx

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Resilient and humble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, overthinker, funny

Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, antisocial, overthinker, funny

Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me.

And I forgot stubborn. Possibly add forgetful in as well. And imaginative and excitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, overthinker, funny

Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me.

You should plagiarised my post

only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fearless... with a side order of hysterical x

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

Socially inept, a good listener and the quiet one you need to watch out for!

Wouldn't change a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.

Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx"

I agree with Lily White here.

In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.

People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?

Being honest is acknowledging you are a multitude and a personality is not a static thing but an ebbing and flowing of different characteristics. We are the sum of our parts even if they sometimes seem to be contradictory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate, talkative and caring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to be you without them.... Without them you is it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soppy

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.

Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx

I agree with Lily White here.

In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.

People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?

You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.

Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx

I agree with Lily White here.

In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.

People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?

You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx

Either way i could not give a flying fuck these days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.

Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx

I agree with Lily White here.

In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.

People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?

You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx

But what does 'honest and true' actually mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.

Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx

I agree with Lily White here.

In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.

People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?

You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx

Either way i could not give a flying fuck these days lol

Xx"

At different point we think we have sussed it all out, then something happens you get through it and think then you have it sussed, we never will have is sussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy s wank anyone caming

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What is that certain thing that makes you!!

When your friends family try to explain the type of person you are eg funny careing loyal bonkers.

Would you change it if so what for?

I'm far to modest to say.

Cal

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

MY base trait is supportive, I'm a giver so I feel compelled to help people.

The rest depends on the situation, I am a social chameleon and need to be able to show many differing parts of me in various scenarios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way my shoes are used due to my walking skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creative mad as a box of frogs dancer that has honour and understanding...if you d asked that 3 year ago..whoaaaaa the answer would have been so very different

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

My nephew once said if I was a dog I'd be a golden retriever because I like helping people.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

The fact I'm laid back and get on with most people. I can be shy at first but once comfortable I'm ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, antisocial, overthinker, funny

Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me.

And I forgot stubborn. Possibly add forgetful in as well. And imaginative and excitable."

And can be shy/nervous in RL first of all but not too bad once warmed up

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Impatient, impulsive, strong, crackers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit like an onion the better you know me and the deeper and broader the level of mutual trust in our relationship, the more parts of me I reveal. However my core motivational value system guides the way I act generally. I’m aware of my strengths, when I overdo those strengths and my dark side. I aim no matter who I am dealing with to act with integrity but in some situations and with some people I haves failed, do fail and may continue to do that. I play many different roles and behave accordingly to that role and enjoy the switching between them. My public persona is similar but not as complete as my private self and I only get glimpses of my True self that witnesses me being human.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Weird probably.

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By *aige675Woman
over a year ago

North of London

perfectly complicated.

I don't think I am but I've heard them say it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I am the sum of my experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends and family call me the immature princess.I thought it was quite cute until about 4 years ago, when I realised what they meant

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