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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Or do you just go by if your clothes are a bit tight or looser to tell if you've gained or lost weight?

Mrs weighs herself

Mr never weighs himself

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Nope, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go by my clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even own scales so no

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Havent weighed myself in years. I go by if my clothes fit me or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be obsessed with my weight when I was boxing but not so much now. The mirror is bad enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one who goes by clothes fitting or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not since the scales started lying to me, can't stand liars so we fell out & haven't met since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never, trousers are, 34/34.Tops are large, boxers are large, jobs a good un

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently I started exercising

And I want enter in 40s being fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when attempting to lose weight. So not in a while

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week at the same time in the same place ! But am aiming for something.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Sunday morning. Pound and Ozs

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Yes I do regularly as I train and compete in a weight based sport. If I didn’t I think I’d just go off clothes and weigh myself out of curiosity every 6 months or so at the gym

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

When i was younger i weighed myself 3x daily but now i hardly ever do. I luckily do not put weight on these days and only weigh myself if i think i have lost weight.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep, a few times a week. I suffer with bloating from endometriosis so how my clothes feel isn't a great indicator. Sometimes I feel huge but it's reassuring that my weight is the same.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I do every Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I go by how my 6pack looks, if I cant see the abs and the definition of it, it is time to eat at a calorie deficit, otherwise I eat at maintenance. I usually stay in shape year round

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I do, + or - 3kg mostly, lost a bit a year ago and now hover between 70 and 73, don't seem to matter what I do or eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go by how my clothes feel

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By *ookworm258Man
over a year ago

Wythenshawe

If i want to see a telephone number I stand on the pallet scales at work to weigh myself

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I do weigh myself regularly to stay on track. I've lost a lot of weight and don't want to put it back on so find it helpful but don't obsess about what I weigh. Mrs B

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I rarely weigh myself and just go by the fit of my clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day at the same time and take the average over the week to manage calorie intake and stay in weight class

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I didn't used to but since having to cut back on carbs and getting the correct dose of levothyroxine I have to be careful not to go under a certain weight. So I weigh myself about once every two weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I don’t weigh myself just go by the mirror

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I weigh myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

not regularly. I go if my trousers fit well or loose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I think I've lost weight since the last time I weighed myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Everyday"

How curious so do I xxxx

It's amazing what one can understand about the body when one does

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz"

How curious so do I x

My record is not 2.5 kg it's closer to 700 g

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

How curious so do I x

My record is not 2.5 kg it's closer to 700 g "

I was kidding, I’m a girl. We don’t poo!

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz"

Bravo. About the same weight as an adult mongoose.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

How curious so do I x

My record is not 2.5 kg it's closer to 700 g "

I'd be concerned about colonic perforation if my faeces were too big

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

How curious so do I x

My record is not 2.5 kg it's closer to 700 g

I was kidding, I’m a girl. We don’t poo!"

Oh there was me thinking you were being faecesious

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

How curious so do I x

My record is not 2.5 kg it's closer to 700 g

I'd be concerned about colonic perforation if my faeces were too big "

Is that a line from a poem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

Bravo. About the same weight as an adult mongoose. "

Funnily enough, I once shat out an adult squirrel. Quite similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a fortnight now. Use to weigh every day. Got obsessive.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

How curious so do I x

My record is not 2.5 kg it's closer to 700 g

I'd be concerned about colonic perforation if my faeces were too big

Is that a line from a poem? "

If it were it would be poetry about a motion

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes. Every Monday. Its going the wrong way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Just sizes/fit. I know I would obsess about numbers. So that's kinder way to treat myself

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I weight myself before and after I shit. My record is 4lbs 8oz

Bravo. About the same weight as an adult mongoose.

Funnily enough, I once shat out an adult squirrel. Quite similar "

That's nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP I went way off subject

I don’t own scales anymore, as the batteries died and I never replaced them. I occasionally weigh myself when I go up to in laws, but that’s maybe twice a year at most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only at my health check... It was exactly the same for 3 years??!! I think their scales were broken?!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Quite regularly weigh myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no my scales weigh me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on where you are and your goals I suppose. One of a number of metrics I track. Pretty, one dimensional on its own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I were training I got on the scales now and then, not so much now in trying to loose weight.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Unfortunately yes

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made the mistake recently.....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do weigh myself and seem to break records quite often.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna weigh myself now stand by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16st 9. those cheesecakes catching up with me

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off) "

At the pool....?

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?"

That’s frowned apon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16st 9. those cheesecakes catching up with me"

Your okay until you loose the muscle :p

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes I do, I'm sort of addicted but I really only weigh myself, when I expect a difference, since working from home I have lost weight that I can't afford! But it was expected as my routine has changed, And no matter how much I tried to put it back on, I just can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16st 9. those cheesecakes catching up with me"

Lightweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I weigh myself just have 1 stone to lose now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16st 9. those cheesecakes catching up with me

Lightweight "

Will you do the dirty dancing dance and hold me above your head so I can feel as light as a feather

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Rarely - because I know it won't be happy reading. Certainly during lockdown. Mind you, don't need the scales to tell there has been a change. Pulling on trousers or a shirt is usually enough of a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"16st 9. those cheesecakes catching up with me

Lightweight

Will you do the dirty dancing dance and hold me above your head so I can feel as light as a feather "

Easy, just don't expect anything else

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Once a month. I can't gauge it by the fit of my clothes because nothing ever fits me properly. Hah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I weigh once a week to keep an eye on my weight. I'm going to start going for every three weeks because I think I'm too obsessed with it.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Not a chance, I'd just depress myself!!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

That’s frowned apon "

I don’t know there was something suspicious floating in the aqua dome last time I was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

That’s frowned apon

I don’t know there was something suspicious floating in the aqua dome last time I was there "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I weigh myself pretty often. I lose a couple of pounds - then put it back on again!

I exercise a lot with the pup and eat relatively healthily - so I’m probably just going to have to live with being bigger as I get older!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve let the battery in my scales to run flat

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

That’s frowned apon

I don’t know there was something suspicious floating in the aqua dome last time I was there "

Always the dirty mind .... now give me that pop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I’m stood on some scales

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I weigh myself every Sunday morning.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

That’s frowned apon

I don’t know there was something suspicious floating in the aqua dome last time I was there

Always the dirty mind .... now give me that pop "

Il share if you be really naughty

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?"

My favourite saying

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

That’s frowned apon

I don’t know there was something suspicious floating in the aqua dome last time I was there

Always the dirty mind .... now give me that pop

Il share if you be really naughty "

I don’t think you realise how filthy I am

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

My favourite saying "

It’s very good, I must admit

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Yep, every Monday morning without fail. I’m trying to loose weight and thankfully finding my clothes are getting bigger now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could remove my tits and head to see how much of my weight they make up.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Every Sunday morning after my morning (dropping the kids off)

At the pool....?

That’s frowned apon

I don’t know there was something suspicious floating in the aqua dome last time I was there

Always the dirty mind .... now give me that pop

Il share if you be really naughty

I don’t think you realise how filthy I am "

I don’t think you realise how filthy I am

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

No. My mum was constantly weighing herself and obsessing about her weight and looks. That was what was modelled to me and so I grew up with the feeling that women had go be slim to be happy. I made a choice never to have scales in my house and always go off how I feel in myself rather than how much weight I gain or lose. I've been bigger and have been smaller but always what mattered was how I felt.

No scales. There is little mention of weight or looks around my daughter. I want her to grow up aware of how she feels in herself.. and for that to be less influenced by how she judges her size.

X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. My mum was constantly weighing herself and obsessing about her weight and looks. That was what was modelled to me and so I grew up with the feeling that women had go be slim to be happy. I made a choice never to have scales in my house and always go off how I feel in myself rather than how much weight I gain or lose. I've been bigger and have been smaller but always what mattered was how I felt.

No scales. There is little mention of weight or looks around my daughter. I want her to grow up aware of how she feels in herself.. and for that to be less influenced by how she judges her size.

X "

I absolutely love this.

I always worry about my daughter as I'm so harsh on myself and I don't want her to grow up thinking she isn't good enough because of how she looks. I always try to hide it from her but as she grows she will start to notice it.

I think I'm going to ditch the scales completely.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I didn't until 4 months into Lockwood and then wanted to cry..just lost a stone on slimming world

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Had to sit in a chair and get weighed when I was taken into hospital last week. Assumedly so they could get meds correct. I didnt ask what I weigh and could care less. I'm me, take me or leave me, I'm a chunk and that's that.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Also, my daughter is round her dads gf a bit who is beauty regime mad and how you "should look". She spends a fortune on makeup, hair, clothes etc etc etc. Now, all well and good - but (in the words of Sarah Millican) it boils my piss that we (women) are still being accosted with "ideals" of how we "should" look. I'm fairly active and can keep up with my 7 year old tyvm. I want her to have a realistic image in her head as to what's "acceptable" or not- and what's acceptable is whatever she or anyone else chooses to do with their body. Whether that be the ultra fit ultra slim, the ideal, or something you choose for yourself.

Steps off soapbox.

Xxxxxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Had to sit in a chair and get weighed when I was taken into hospital last week. Assumedly so they could get meds correct. I didnt ask what I weigh and could care less. I'm me, take me or leave me, I'm a chunk and that's that."

Hospital are you ok xx

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not really, when it comes to my body fat I don't care what numbers some device read l, I only really care about what the mirror says.

Everyone's different though,if your getting the results you want and find it useful, then power to you,stick at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three time’s today!

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Also, my daughter is round her dads gf a bit who is beauty regime mad and how you "should look". She spends a fortune on makeup, hair, clothes etc etc etc. Now, all well and good - but (in the words of Sarah Millican) it boils my piss that we (women) are still being accosted with "ideals" of how we "should" look. I'm fairly active and can keep up with my 7 year old tyvm. I want her to have a realistic image in her head as to what's "acceptable" or not- and what's acceptable is whatever she or anyone else chooses to do with their body. Whether that be the ultra fit ultra slim, the ideal, or something you choose for yourself.

Steps off soapbox.

Xxxxxx"

I agree with most of your post, but I do feel saying women are accosted with ideals of how they should look, is a bit strong.Im sure there are some with, let's days... pushy parents in this regard. But often girls want to look a certain way without any push. I think most people growing up want to be desirable to perceived potential mates,so try to achieve this.

Whilst I do think it's healthy for them to know thats the real world isn't really like insta, I also think it's healthy to teach them they can achieve alot with hard work. I was the funny chubby guy until I was 30, I got to 20st and decided enough was enough,i got into really good shape.

It totally changed my life. The whole is a different place,people (society) treat you differently. Male or female,if your considered gym bod hot, you get noticed. People remember you, people go out their way to be nice to you.

I wish I did it 10 years sooner.

My point is,sometimes teaching people to just accept their body and love it as it is,can stifle their ambition to want to change their body into the one they imagine it could be.

I think teaching them it's OK not to be perfect, but that they have the power to make positive changes if they want to, is a much better mindset to instill.

Just my opinion, and there's obviously a balance, I just think some people would have benefitted greatly if they had been encouraged to make a change, rather than coming to terms with your flaws and accepting them,which in a case like mine, would mean settling for less, not just body wise, it completely enriched my life accross the board.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I weigh myself every Monday morning. Hardly ever changes. 9 and 1/2 stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not too, me and scales are not friend's but sometimes the temptation is too strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now and agen

I like to stay between 12 -12.6

Not bothered if i go over i love food!!!!

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Every morning, usually very stable but nice to see if it’s drifting up so I can action it before I’m too heavy

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

No, I'm around 13 - 14 stone but I just pay attention to the mirror, I can see muscle definition and abs are visible so know I'm around where I want to maintain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two or three times a week

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"No. My mum was constantly weighing herself and obsessing about her weight and looks. That was what was modelled to me and so I grew up with the feeling that women had go be slim to be happy. I made a choice never to have scales in my house and always go off how I feel in myself rather than how much weight I gain or lose. I've been bigger and have been smaller but always what mattered was how I felt.

No scales. There is little mention of weight or looks around my daughter. I want her to grow up aware of how she feels in herself.. and for that to be less influenced by how she judges her size.

X

I absolutely love this.

I always worry about my daughter as I'm so harsh on myself and I don't want her to grow up thinking she isn't good enough because of how she looks. I always try to hide it from her but as she grows she will start to notice it.

I think I'm going to ditch the scales completely."

I fully encourage you! You will not miss them x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Or do you just go by if your clothes are a bit tight or looser to tell if you've gained or lost weight?

Mrs weighs herself

Mr never weighs himself"

We weigh in at least three times a week and tracking on a food app..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week at the moment - I've started a new health kick and want to lose a couple of pounds a week.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I used to but frankly it scared me at the minute

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't have any scales so I do on occasion hop on my friends if I use their loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any scales so I do on occasion hop on my friends if I use their loo "

Would you like to hop on me on occasion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, don't bother with any of that - been the same weight for years. Hardly buy new clothes apart from the odd band t-shirt

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I don't have any scales so I do on occasion hop on my friends if I use their loo

Would you like to hop on me on occasion?"

Possibly when my vagina decides it wants to reintegrate with society. For now it's comfortable being a hermit

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By *man_4Man
over a year ago

London

Can't remember the last time I did

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

I do - I even seek to exercise in a manner that will develop a more feminine shape x

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Regularly...

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Had to sit in a chair and get weighed when I was taken into hospital last week. Assumedly so they could get meds correct. I didnt ask what I weigh and could care less. I'm me, take me or leave me, I'm a chunk and that's that.

Hospital are you ok xx"

Bless you for asking sweetie. I'm getting there, I hope. Still dont know what my "problem" is but it's not hurting as it was.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Also, my daughter is round her dads gf a bit who is beauty regime mad and how you "should look". She spends a fortune on makeup, hair, clothes etc etc etc. Now, all well and good - but (in the words of Sarah Millican) it boils my piss that we (women) are still being accosted with "ideals" of how we "should" look. I'm fairly active and can keep up with my 7 year old tyvm. I want her to have a realistic image in her head as to what's "acceptable" or not- and what's acceptable is whatever she or anyone else chooses to do with their body. Whether that be the ultra fit ultra slim, the ideal, or something you choose for yourself.

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Xxxxxx

I agree with most of your post, but I do feel saying women are accosted with ideals of how they should look, is a bit strong.Im sure there are some with, let's days... pushy parents in this regard. But often girls want to look a certain way without any push. I think most people growing up want to be desirable to perceived potential mates,so try to achieve this.

Whilst I do think it's healthy for them to know thats the real world isn't really like insta, I also think it's healthy to teach them they can achieve alot with hard work. I was the funny chubby guy until I was 30, I got to 20st and decided enough was enough,i got into really good shape.

It totally changed my life. The whole is a different place,people (society) treat you differently. Male or female,if your considered gym bod hot, you get noticed. People remember you, people go out their way to be nice to you.

I wish I did it 10 years sooner.

My point is,sometimes teaching people to just accept their body and love it as it is,can stifle their ambition to want to change their body into the one they imagine it could be.

I think teaching them it's OK not to be perfect, but that they have the power to make positive changes if they want to, is a much better mindset to instill.

Just my opinion, and there's obviously a balance, I just think some people would have benefitted greatly if they had been encouraged to make a change, rather than coming to terms with your flaws and accepting them,which in a case like mine, would mean settling for less, not just body wise, it completely enriched my life accross the board.

"

I did say my daughter can and should make that decision for herself. Shes heard my mum telling me constantly to lose weight (including another rant at me yesterday). I again told her that it's her body and her life and she should do what is right for her as she grows. And I'll always do that. She wont be "shamed". She will be glorified and worshipped for whatever form her happy takes.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I (Char) weigh myself every Sunday morning and keep track of it, but I am bad and probably weigh myself once or twice a day too!

Clothes aren't a good indicator for me as after suffering from bowel cancer, I do have a lot of stomach issues including bloating.

Bry never weighs himself.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

no never weigh myself, size 8(with a little room) and 5ft 7in tall I eat like a man haha, dont need to, last I checked 8st on the dot. With clothes Iv had for soo many years

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Also, my daughter is round her dads gf a bit who is beauty regime mad and how you "should look". She spends a fortune on makeup, hair, clothes etc etc etc. Now, all well and good - but (in the words of Sarah Millican) it boils my piss that we (women) are still being accosted with "ideals" of how we "should" look. I'm fairly active and can keep up with my 7 year old tyvm. I want her to have a realistic image in her head as to what's "acceptable" or not- and what's acceptable is whatever she or anyone else chooses to do with their body. Whether that be the ultra fit ultra slim, the ideal, or something you choose for yourself.

Steps off soapbox.

Xxxxxx

I agree with most of your post, but I do feel saying women are accosted with ideals of how they should look, is a bit strong.Im sure there are some with, let's days... pushy parents in this regard. But often girls want to look a certain way without any push. I think most people growing up want to be desirable to perceived potential mates,so try to achieve this.

Whilst I do think it's healthy for them to know thats the real world isn't really like insta, I also think it's healthy to teach them they can achieve alot with hard work. I was the funny chubby guy until I was 30, I got to 20st and decided enough was enough,i got into really good shape.

It totally changed my life. The whole is a different place,people (society) treat you differently. Male or female,if your considered gym bod hot, you get noticed. People remember you, people go out their way to be nice to you.

I wish I did it 10 years sooner.

My point is,sometimes teaching people to just accept their body and love it as it is,can stifle their ambition to want to change their body into the one they imagine it could be.

I think teaching them it's OK not to be perfect, but that they have the power to make positive changes if they want to, is a much better mindset to instill.

Just my opinion, and there's obviously a balance, I just think some people would have benefitted greatly if they had been encouraged to make a change, rather than coming to terms with your flaws and accepting them,which in a case like mine, would mean settling for less, not just body wise, it completely enriched my life accross the board.

"

Totally! If you are fit you will get better treatment... Experiments have shown better chances at interviews, better grades in school, more opportunities... Everything!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

My husband never weighs himself, his weight never ever alters and hasn't done in all the years we've been together.

Me, on the other hand am constantly trying to loose weight. I was weighing myself too often and getting fed up when I hadn't lost anything so my husband his the scales. I now go more on how my clothes fit. I do want to have a weigh about once every 3 weeks though.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"My husband never weighs himself, his weight never ever alters and hasn't done in all the years we've been together.

Me, on the other hand am constantly trying to loose weight. I was weighing myself too often and getting fed up when I hadn't lost anything so my husband his the scales. I now go more on how my clothes fit. I do want to have a weigh about once every 3 weeks though."

**Husband hid the scales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do you just go by if your clothes are a bit tight or looser to tell if you've gained or lost weight?

Mrs weighs herself

Mr never weighs himself"

Clothes are usually the sign for me ...might weight myself every so often but not obsessed with it .

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

Yes but only if I want to have a good laugh, then I get sad so eat a packet of Jaffa cakes to make everything all good again

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I weigh myself regularly, I like to monitor how I’m doing? I’m currently 74kg, which is a little more than my ‘racing weight’, and the result of lockdown lethargy/too much beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved house last year. I'm not sure where my scales are, I haven't weighed myself since I moved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes every morning. Trying to get down to 70kg, 3kg to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week

Been 10st 3lb for months trying to get to 10st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to weigh myself once a week when I was trying to gain weight, turns out that I can never break past about 80kg though So no, not anymore really.

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