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Having no luck where am I going wrong

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Having no luck on here I don’t have pics on profile because I no people on here but have them on request but can’t get to meet a couple and it something I wanna do any tips

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I appreciate what you say about pics but you need something! A blank profile pic will only serve to get you ignored because why would someone click on it.

What would draw anyone in?

A profile pic doesn't have to give your identity away, just a tease to the reader. A pic gives annimpress, so far you leave none!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put some info on your profile? It's very boring! Put something about yourself and say that you have pics available.... Right now, there's nothing at all on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having no luck on here I don’t have pics on profile because I no people on here but have them on request but can’t get to meet a couple and it something I wanna do any tips "

Youre in the North West

You arent allowed out anyway

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Been here before ask! They should someone there is nothing if interest at all in your bio.

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

What do I put tho haha

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

What do I put what I like to do and stuff x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having no luck on here I don’t have pics on profile because I no people on here but have them on request but can’t get to meet a couple and it something I wanna do any tips "

The " no luck " boat you're in is the biggest boat on fab waters ...and it's full to capacity..and certainly in these strange times will be for the foreseeable future ..l think anyway.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Jazz your profile up a bit. Have loom at other good profiles, not to copy but just for ideas, for starting point.

Finally, goodluck to you.

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

But a cock pic puts people off

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Thanks x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"What do I put what I like to do and stuff x"

Some interests, a bit about yourself, that kind of thing.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"But a cock pic puts people off"

You haven't got to put a cock pic and certainly not as a profile pic. I like a coxk pic but a tasteful thought out pic.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"What do I put tho haha"

Have a look around for ideas

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Be nice to meet a girl like you haha thanks for the advice x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Be nice to meet a girl like you haha thanks for the advice x"

You can..not me but others. Just sort yourself out

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Haha fair enough x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

And, your nee here..find your feet. You are not alone, many of us struggle to find what we are looking for, especially guys.

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Is that better or do I need more x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Is that better or do I need more x"

I can't see anything different!

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Haha I’ll give it another go x

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"And, your nee here..find your feet. You are not alone, many of us struggle to find what we are looking for, especially guys. "

^ it’s a real slog here. Single males are ten a penny.

Very few will talk to you without some public pics at the very least. Make sure you read people’s profiles, if they ask for something in a message (e.g face pics) then don’t message unless you include them as they’ll at best delete, at worst block.

Might sound weird but have a look around at some single male profiles and see if there are any you think that are well done and use them for inspiration.

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By *yan250989 OP   Man
over a year ago

all over

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Ryan250989, Ryan260989 didn't have much luck until he changed his nickname with Ryan301090

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Ryan250989, Ryan260989 didn't have much luck until he changed his nickname with Ryan301090"

So true. I think

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"What do I put what I like to do and stuff x"

People want to know what you are like (not just what you like). People want to know that they can have a conversation with you. You haven't put anything that might make people think they would enjoy chatting with you.

Your lack of photos, whatever your reasoning, is going to be a big handicap for you.

What do you write in your messages? It would have to be pretty spectacular to get past the difficulties above. Most messages we get are terrible. Give us an example of what you write and we'll give you some feedback.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hi OP.

Look at it this way. Your profile is your "shop window". If there's nothing eye catching in your shop window people will just walk on by.

I get a lot of messages and some women get hundreds or more every week. A profile with no pix and nothing to make it stand out will just end up ignored or deleted.

For me a profile with two or three pix (don't have to be identifying, could be torso or rear shot or even your shoes!) and a bit of personality coming across in the text, about what you like and also a bit of humour...that's what catches my eye.

Good luck!

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