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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I went to a new site and scared everyone off... can anyone give me some pointers?

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Benidorm for a week


"I went to a new site and scared everyone off... can anyone give me some pointers? "

Don't go in the squad car next time

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I went to a new site and scared everyone off... can anyone give me some pointers?

Don't go in the squad car next time"

Haha yes that may help

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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What did you do to scare everyone off?

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What did you do to scare everyone off? "

I just drove up and got out of the car.... there was 2 guys wanking over a couple fucking... then the guys walked off as soon as I walked over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not flash your lights first to show your intentions?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Did you turn your lights onto sidelights as you drove in? I used to hate it when people lit me up with their full headlights on.

Did you just pull in right next to them and jump out of your car like it was on fire?

I'm going to hazard a guess that the couple stopped playing and asked the guys to leave when you arrived...it might have been down to your behaviour, it might have been that they didn't know you, or it might just have been that they were comfortable with two guys there but not any more.

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Did you turn your lights onto sidelights as you drove in? I used to hate it when people lit me up with their full headlights on.

Did you just pull in right next to them and jump out of your car like it was on fire?

I'm going to hazard a guess that the couple stopped playing and asked the guys to leave when you arrived...it might have been down to your behaviour, it might have been that they didn't know you, or it might just have been that they were comfortable with two guys there but not any more. "

No I didn't put my lights onto sidelights but I did wait then I got out and then the guys walked off... maybe I was just a bit late

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You'll never know what happens away from you. Any change may be a prompt for other things to get changed mmbpif you don't obnoxiously intrude, you are probably fine.

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By *yan250989Man
over a year ago

all over

Where’s a good place in Manchester to go

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Sometimes people just don't like to be disturbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people just don't like to be disturbed "

You're right, it really annoys when someone comes over to me when I'm wanking in public. Let me masturbate in peace for fucks sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you have prearranged a meet or are attending an advertised meet then people will be unsure of your intentions. I find this often happens at crusing sites if a some guys are getting it together and someone turn up unexpectantly. The group breaks up ...not wanting to be caught. You should have unzipped and started wanking by your car and then they would have seen youre not out to cause problems and you may have been beckoned over to join in

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Unless you have prearranged a meet or are attending an advertised meet then people will be unsure of your intentions. I find this often happens at crusing sites if a some guys are getting it together and someone turn up unexpectantly. The group breaks up ...not wanting to be caught. You should have unzipped and started wanking by your car and then they would have seen youre not out to cause problems and you may have been beckoned over to join in"

Ah OK thanks ill try that next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people just don't like to be disturbed

You're right, it really annoys when someone comes over to me when I'm wanking in public. Let me masturbate in peace for fucks sake."

Taking notes Jim

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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"Unless you have prearranged a meet or are attending an advertised meet then people will be unsure of your intentions. I find this often happens at crusing sites if a some guys are getting it together and someone turn up unexpectantly. The group breaks up ...not wanting to be caught. You should have unzipped and started wanking by your car and then they would have seen youre not out to cause problems and you may have been beckoned over to join in"
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I thought this too. If a couple have asked for only two specific men to come and find them, organised via private messages, a third is suspicious. Has someone given away what's going on and a minibus full about to turn up too? If someone else knows, then when will the Blues turn up too?

You never know, the doggers you found may be on here and will private message you direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all. Fist time on a forum I'm in Edinburgh.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Benidorm for a week


"Hi all. Fist time on a forum I'm in Edinburgh. "

Well that's an interesting contribution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Fist time on a forum I'm in Edinburgh.

Well that's an interesting contribution"

That's a warm welcome.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

south east


"Did you turn your lights onto sidelights as you drove in? I used to hate it when people lit me up with their full headlights on.

Did you just pull in right next to them and jump out of your car like it was on fire?

I'm going to hazard a guess that the couple stopped playing and asked the guys to leave when you arrived...it might have been down to your behaviour, it might have been that they didn't know you, or it might just have been that they were comfortable with two guys there but not any more.

No I didn't put my lights onto sidelights but I did wait then I got out and then the guys walked off... maybe I was just a bit late"

People get nervous sometimes of new comers it may have been an arranged meet you stumbled upon

Or your car and manner looked like unmarked police or simply theyed just all finished

You just have to accept and respect how people react and there wishes we all have our reasons for our action s

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Benidorm for a week


"Hi all. Fist time on a forum I'm in Edinburgh.

Well that's an interesting contribution

That's a warm welcome."

I'm nice like that

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Benidorm for a week


"Unless you have prearranged a meet or are attending an advertised meet then people will be unsure of your intentions. I find this often happens at crusing sites if a some guys are getting it together and someone turn up unexpectantly. The group breaks up ...not wanting to be caught. You should have unzipped and started wanking by your car and then they would have seen youre not out to cause problems and you may have been beckoned over to join in.

I thought this too. If a couple have asked for only two specific men to come and find them, organised via private messages, a third is suspicious. Has someone given away what's going on and a minibus full about to turn up too? If someone else knows, then when will the Blues turn up too?

You never know, the doggers you found may be on here and will private message you direct. "

And if you do find them on here you could ask them for a verification

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By *onyDunnMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Be cool

Keep a distance

Wait for signals

Shuffle over - no striding

Expect failure/rejection

Understand that if something has started, then someone has done the hard work and you are then interloping. The other doggers have sat there and waited and waited. The couple have arrived, They have charmed the couple. The couple have become at ease with the set up. Foreplay starts. You roar in and possibly your presence may stop the couple being comfortable.

Perhaps the other doggers may now be a fraction resentful towards you at this point since an obvious play has now gone down the drain - all because of you.

It happens

Did you say anything? Any greeting? Ask to join in?

Learn from this and next time experiment with more discretion and you may get your goal

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