FabSwingers.com forum: Recognising

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I quite often see a lady from here in my local Tesco, the latest being the weekend just gone.

I would never go up to her and talk to her, although she's alone. I also have never contacted her on here to say as that seems creepy. Would be cool to be able to acknowledge, say hi some how.

If you were alone, would you mind an acknowledgement if someone saw you?

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

"I quite often see a lady from here in my local Tesco, the latest being the weekend just gone.

I would never go up to her and talk to her, although she's alone. I also have never contacted her on here to say as that seems creepy. Would be cool to be able to acknowledge, say hi some how.

If you were alone, would you mind an acknowledgement if someone saw you?"

What’s the approach you would take, would you just make general every day conversation or get your cock out and wait for her to hit “LIKE”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well obviously not.

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

"Well obviously not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being approached, as I've had it happen on our last profile however I do get a kick out of a dab status saying someone saw me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab status bloody autocorrect

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I quite often see a lady from here in my local Tesco, the latest being the weekend just gone.

I would never go up to her and talk to her, although she's alone. I also have never contacted her on here to say as that seems creepy. Would be cool to be able to acknowledge, say hi some how.

If you were alone, would you mind an acknowledgement if someone saw you?"

It's a tough one - approaching her in person could be difficult, even if she's alone, just to avoid any potential awkwardness. I dunno, is it really that creepy to just message her and be as honest as you've been here?

There's no harm in saying hello, and just iterating that you *think* you've seen her in your Tesco, surely?

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I know quite a few people from here who stay locally.. some I’ve met, some I’ve chatted to often and some I’ve chatted to on occasions.. I know a few by site.

unless you are very friendly then the answer is no. .. personal lives are private and separate to fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone approached me saying they had seen me here I would be totally freaked out and probably leave my shopping and walk straight out never to return

I’ve had people message me if I was the place they were at as it looked like me and that was ok as I could choose to ignore

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

I would recommend messaging on here, rather than approaching face-to-face; but also include a picture to identify yourself as it would creep me out hugely if a totally anonymous person said hi, I’ve seen you in Tescos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't appreciate someone letting me know. I would feel like you are putting me on the spot and I would be very uncomfortable.

I wouldn't mind a message to let me know. And then we will take it from there.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely message rather than speak to her in person

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

if people know/recognise me on here then say so on here 1st as i have zero problem with that, but approaching me in normal land 1st is a no no for me to be honest for many reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not would l ever approach a lady in public that was on here ,to me it is a complete invasion of her private life ..it would be a total no no for me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't see how you can be 100% sure it is her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if you do message, don't be creepy about it. I had a message the other day that really creeped me out. Some guy with no photo and a hidden profile talking about how he's local and how he knows who I am, laughing about it, talking about how he wants to ruin me etc and I wanted to die. I rarely go out without family too so I freaked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t like to be approached in public even if I was alone, but a message on here would be ok

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I quite often see a lady from here in my local Tesco, the latest being the weekend just gone.

I would never go up to her and talk to her, although she's alone. I also have never contacted her on here to say as that seems creepy. Would be cool to be able to acknowledge, say hi some how.

If you were alone, would you mind an acknowledgement if someone saw you?"

Go for it Rod ..

Wait until she's in the fruit veg and say look at these melons..

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

A friendly message on fab is fine. Approaching in person is not on.

Put yourself in their position and you will realise how terrifying it would be if approached in person

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"A friendly message on fab is fine. Approaching in person is not on.

Put yourself in their position and you will realise how terrifying it would be if approached in person"

terrifying maybe a bit strong but definitely unacceptable. on here please feel free to say you know me 100% not a issue for me personally anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A friendly message on fab is fine. Approaching in person is not on.

Put yourself in their position and you will realise how terrifying it would be if approached in person

terrifying maybe a bit strong but definitely unacceptable. on here please feel free to say you know me 100% not a issue for me personally anyway "

For a single woman, terrifying definitely isn't a bit strong. With the types of messages I get if be terrified of anyone who approached me in public saying they'd seen me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite often see a lady from here in my local Tesco, the latest being the weekend just gone.

I would never go up to her and talk to her, although she's alone. I also have never contacted her on here to say as that seems creepy. Would be cool to be able to acknowledge, say hi some how.

If you were alone, would you mind an acknowledgement if someone saw you?

Go for it Rod ..

Wait until she's in the fruit veg and say look at these melons..

Amateur. The correct approach is to pelt her with aubergines until she submits to your advances.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I quite often see a lady from here in my local Tesco, the latest being the weekend just gone.

I would never go up to her and talk to her, although she's alone. I also have never contacted her on here to say as that seems creepy. Would be cool to be able to acknowledge, say hi some how.

If you were alone, would you mind an acknowledgement if someone saw you?

Go for it Rod ..

Wait until she's in the fruit veg and say look at these melons..

Amateur. The correct approach is to pelt her with aubergines until she submits to your advances."

I prefer button mushrooms

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Here is the perfect song to entertain her with as you are playing with your kumquat's on the fruit & veg isle!

However, pay attention to the last three lines .....

"Penis Song" -Monty Python:-

Isn't it awfully nice to have a penis,

Isn't it frightfully good to have a dong,

It's swell to have a stiffy,

It's divine to own a dick,

From the tiniest little tadger,

To the world's biggest prick,

So, three cheers for your Willy or John Thomas,

Hooray for your one-eyed trouser snake,

Your piece of pork, your wife's best friend,

Your Percy, or your cock,

You can wrap it up in ribbons,

You can slip it in your sock,

But don't take it out in public,

Or they will stick you in the dock,

And you won't come about.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I get recognized least once a week usually on my bicycle ! But only 2 have spoke they message when I'm home then spend ages trying to place them lol I would say something like hi u having a fab day? Little hint lol x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

A friendly non-assumptive message on here first....if they ignore, then bury your fantasy and move on. Some prefer keeping fab life separate to real life.

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