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Who is pickier?

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By *averockrock OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Women or men? This is gonna be fun! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women, definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any holes is the goal

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

On here women! And in real life, oh that’s women too. So women then, that’s my answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be women. Unless they disagree. Then it's men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i agree its women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman. We overthink and it makes us pickier

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Usually women.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

On the whole l would say women, but there are also some very picky men too. Not all gents will shag just anyone.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m not picky I just know what I want sorry who I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not picky I just know what I want sorry who I want "

I'll agree with that. I know what and who I want. I don't mind being a bit 'picky' nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TVs more so than either.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"I’m not picky I just know what I want sorry who I want "

Same

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’m not picky I just know what I want sorry who I want "

Hahaha busty...I love it

Totally agree with this, when you know what you’re looking for, you settle for nothing but what fits for you.

Not all sticks... Does the tricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not picky I just know what I want sorry who I want "

This.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m starting to think I’m not picky at all I’m such a flirt I flirt with everyone and their granny lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think everyone is "picky" in their own way, regardless of gender - we all have preferences and things that attract us.

That said it's true that *some* men, especially on sites like this are less picky and become driven by various factors, but I don't think it's all men either - while I can be physically attracted by quite a wide range of types, it still comes back to personality, connection and chemistry for me, and while that may not be "consciously" picky without those factors being there I won't be interested and therefore could be considered picky

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Im not that picky.

I don't mind what shade of blue their undies is so long as she makes me laugh.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I think everyone is choosy to a certain extent - but I certainly wouldn't entertain anyone that I didn't think was discerning in their choice of partners, and have turned down someone I found very attractive for that reason alone.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women or men? This is gonna be fun! Lol"

Women...no doubt

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Women can't be that fussy.

After all - many of them talk to me.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Definitely MRS DRST!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told "

Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Those who have the greater option to choose tend to be the pickiest. We all start pretty much clean slate then become selective through experience (bad and good)

Of course it's hard to be picky if no-one is interested. So on Fab alone - we would say women.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!

I prefer to think of it as exercising choice.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told

Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even "

But on sheer amount of choices , women won’t know what a guy is like just by looking , good or bad we don’t have that luxury , send text -deleted

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I'm definitely way more pickier than Ray, both on here and in the outside world

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told "

We all have the same choices. They are not dictated by numbers but by our values and our interactions with those who we msy interact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep definitely women are pickier, I always have been too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told

Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even

But on sheer amount of choices , women won’t know what a guy is like just by looking , good or bad we don’t have that luxury , send text -deleted "

No, but they may get a feel for what he's like by the content of the message, or his profile text or forum/chat room interactions, two of those three are just as available (regarding the ladies of the forum or chat rooms) to all men as they are women.

And is partly what the very wise Hine was referring to in his post - it's truly not the number of choices that matters but the wisdom and rationale behind the various interactions that lead to them.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!

I prefer to think of it as exercising choice. "

Exactly this. It's not picky it's making a choice either way.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told

Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even "

I have to agree.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Id say me Wife ,but saying that hubby can be a picky fecker too

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!

I prefer to think of it as exercising choice.

Exactly this. It's not picky it's making a choice either way. "

Oh the irony

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Are we talking :- noses, bruised fruits, sexual partners or film critique ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely woman lol

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!

I prefer to think of it as exercising choice.

Exactly this. It's not picky it's making a choice either way. "

It’s just a word, they pretty much mean the same thing. Picky or choosy. It’s a persons prerogative to be as picky or choosy as they like. There will always be people who don't take rejection too well and blame others, but the thread is about who is the most choosy or picky.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Are we talking :- noses, bruised fruits, sexual partners or film critique ? "

All of the above and more! Especially the comfy sofa!

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