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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So after feeling really sorry for myself after getting told how I ugly I was, someone messaged me offering me a little support telling me not to worry about it and to put it behind me because of the nasty people on here. Then all of a sudden I get blocked from them too (out of the blue) after we spend a few days chatting about some common interests.

Starting to think it’s me now

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You need thick skin on here unfortunately, but stick at it, there are lots of nice people on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after feeling really sorry for myself after getting told how I ugly I was, someone messaged me offering me a little support telling me not to worry about it and to put it behind me because of the nasty people on here. Then all of a sudden I get blocked from them too (out of the blue) after we spend a few days chatting about some common interests.

Starting to think it’s me now "
maybe it's time to have a break before your self confidence is truly shattered xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after feeling really sorry for myself after getting told how I ugly I was, someone messaged me offering me a little support telling me not to worry about it and to put it behind me because of the nasty people on here. Then all of a sudden I get blocked from them too (out of the blue) after we spend a few days chatting about some common interests.

Starting to think it’s me now "

How did they know you had been told that?

Was it off the back of a thread you had posted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IV been told I'm short ugly and overweight

I keep bouncing back

Screw them(or not as the case might be)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So after feeling really sorry for myself after getting told how I ugly I was, someone messaged me offering me a little support telling me not to worry about it and to put it behind me because of the nasty people on here. Then all of a sudden I get blocked from them too (out of the blue) after we spend a few days chatting about some common interests.

Starting to think it’s me now maybe it's time to have a break before your self confidence is truly shattered xx "

It already has been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned previous, keep at it mate. All the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So after feeling really sorry for myself after getting told how I ugly I was, someone messaged me offering me a little support telling me not to worry about it and to put it behind me because of the nasty people on here. Then all of a sudden I get blocked from them too (out of the blue) after we spend a few days chatting about some common interests.

Starting to think it’s me now

How did they know you had been told that?

Was it off the back of a thread you had posted?"

Was off the back of a status message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks ... don’t beat yourself up pal .. fix up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after feeling really sorry for myself after getting told how I ugly I was, someone messaged me offering me a little support telling me not to worry about it and to put it behind me because of the nasty people on here. Then all of a sudden I get blocked from them too (out of the blue) after we spend a few days chatting about some common interests.

Starting to think it’s me now maybe it's time to have a break before your self confidence is truly shattered xx

It already has been. "
Dont let anyone get to you. Most of us have had insults. Rise above it and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay no attention, key board warriors only feel good when putting others down.

It is certainly not you

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When it starts to get too much. If it affects you badly. Hide your profile and take a break. When it stops being fun, it's time to evaluate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay no attention, key board warriors only feel good when putting others down.

It is certainly not you "
well said xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When it starts to get too much. If it affects you badly. Hide your profile and take a break. When it stops being fun, it's time to evaluate x"

I’m torn between hiding my profile and just downright deleting it. The last couple of weeks have been a bit tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay no attention, key board warriors only feel good when putting others down.

It is certainly not you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay no attention, key board warriors only feel good when putting others down.

It is certainly not you well said xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it starts to get too much. If it affects you badly. Hide your profile and take a break. When it stops being fun, it's time to evaluate x

I’m torn between hiding my profile and just downright deleting it. The last couple of weeks have been a bit tough. "
hide it. I guarantee if you leave you will be back again soon. Xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When it starts to get too much. If it affects you badly. Hide your profile and take a break. When it stops being fun, it's time to evaluate x

I’m torn between hiding my profile and just downright deleting it. The last couple of weeks have been a bit tough. hide it. I guarantee if you leave you will be back again soon. Xx"

Agreed. Definitely hide it. Most gravitate back x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah. I’ll probably do this for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fun stops, stop.

It says this all over adverts for bookies, but is definitely applicable to so many more situations than just gambling.

Hope you manage to get yourself to a good place soon o/p, whether by hiding your profile for a while or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always someone on here that seems to get kicks out of offending people. Shoulders back, head held high and move on. Its them with the issue hun not you...People are too quick to judge....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See OP . All nice positive comments. Not everyone is nasty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See OP . All nice positive comments. Not everyone is nasty "

Yeah. Thanks everyone.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Way more nice people than nasty. It's just unfortunate that the nasty comments are usually the ones we remember more x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Aw, that's rubbish behaviour!! Don't take it personally OP. How very dare they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See OP . All nice positive comments. Not everyone is nasty

Yeah. Thanks everyone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hide your profile and don't let the bastards grind you down

I know it's easier said than done

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