FabSwingers.com forum: Tinder vs fabswingers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fab. Nobody spoke on Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder was pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

Never been on Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder has loads of weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got one less now iv left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on tinder ..

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

Tinder, by a country mile.

I would stress though that fab is a swinging site, not a singletons dating site. But as a single male, it’s much, muuuch easier to meet single girls via tinder for me. It’s designed specifically for the purpose of matching two single people together after all!

There’s also plenty of non-vanilla people there.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Tinder has loads of weirdos "

Thank god there's none of them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder has loads of weirdos "

To be fair.... FAB does too! Hahahahaha.

I've been alot more sucessful on here than Tinder or Bumble. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had a couple of meets from here but alot of interest, tinder on the other hand is crazy with guys just wanting sex, my pics keep getting removed though, can't see why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's got one less now iv left "

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I get more meets from Tinder, but in 90% of cases as soon as you mention kink/ swinging the woman runs for the exit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

Neither! Zero success on either platform for me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Tinder has loads of weirdos "

And this place hasn't?

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I have had more success on Tinder and bumble, particularly bumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab was enough that I never even considered Tinder

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

On it now

It’s 50:50 success but Tinder ladies are not as liberal

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Wow, are you guys seriously using tinder for hook ups? I've been using it all wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More success here.

Getting conversation on tinder is like trying to platt piss in the wind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more meets from here. When I was last on any dating sites, a few guys messaged to say they were disgusted that they'd seen me on here!

I tend not to bother with online dating these days. I usually find what I want here

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Wow, are you guys seriously using tinder for hook ups? I've been using it all wrong!

That made my day , very good

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"Wow, are you guys seriously using tinder for hook ups? I've been using it all wrong!

That made my day , very good

I'm serious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder has loads of weirdos "

So you don't think that here have more weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab.

I don't get many messages on tinder. Maybe my face puts them off

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By *ercedes60Man
over a year ago

waterford

"Fab.

I don't get many messages on tinder. Maybe my face puts them off

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well fool them anyway tinder shite more action on this site for sure lol

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

Tinder is ok but can be annoying that you have to pay to see who likes you it could be ages before you workout who they are from the blurred images if you don't pay and by that time they could have gone off it or presume your not interested then move on mind you the swipe left or right thing would be a cool feature here but to reveal who likes you it comes in with the site supporter membership altho that kinda contradicts what I just said

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Im an old bird. Ive never ever been on tinder or pof or any of those dating sites!

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

There are ‘strategies’ to get round this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab...

Not on tinder..

Funny place dating sites.. they all chat about sex.yet on fab you can actually have a grown up fun conversation

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I've never used tinder.

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

Fab 100%

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

There are ‘strategies’ to get round this

So a game of guess who isn't necessary

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Im an old bird. Ive never ever been on tinder or pof or any of those dating sites! "

Oh I beg to differ I'd easily have you down to someone in their early 30's I'm still picking my jaw up off the ground

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

When I was a single guy I had a fab and a tindr profile. Had success on both but far far more on tindr.

Maning a girl laugh and feel relaxed on tinder without talking about sex once and it's easy to get dates. If your a good looking guy and can keep her interested worh conversation and make her smile and laugh over a few drinks, 9 times out of 10 you will get laid.

As a single guy try approaching single females on fab fab in the same way.

If your not getting laid on tindr your probably not getting laid on here

(Daddy)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve not used Tinder, but I have used other ‘adult’ sites successfully

Fab has been head and shoulders above the rest though, and definitely my ‘go to’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't swipe anyone on tinder so it has to be fab for me

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

When I was a single guy I had a fab and a tindr profile. Had success on both but far far more on tindr.

As a single guy try approaching single females on fab fab in the same way.

If your not getting laid on tindr your probably not getting laid on here

(Daddy)"

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I've done very well on each in my time. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder Is so vanilla easy to get boring vanilla sex from

Fabs for ur dirty rough sex that you don’t dare tell anyone about

Like put a leash on me bend me over fuck me hard and drag me to the bathroom afterwards and piss all over my face and in my mouth then ram ur cock back In my mouth till ur hard and stick it back in my ass and reapet over and over then once finished zip up and go and leve me in a pool off ur cum and piss like a dirty slag

Don’t think I would get far on tinder asking for that kind off sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

Tinder, by a country mile.

There’s also plenty of non-vanilla people there.

I don't wanna seem naive but is 'vanilla' some swinging terminology? Or something completely different?....sorry I'm confused lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I'm gonna give tinder a go, wish me luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

Tinder, by a country mile.

There’s also plenty of non-vanilla people there.

I don't wanna seem naive but is 'vanilla' some swinging terminology? Or something completely different?....sorry I'm confused lol"

Yes vanilla sex is ur normal run off the mill sex ie slow bj none rough quick to medium length sex that’s pritty tame and and a one and done cum

Whare fab is more kink ie rough sex spit roastes cupples pegging watersports and more than a one and done pump you know little brake inbween and go agein and agein till one can’t movie type stuff

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I don't wanna seem naive but is 'vanilla' some swinging terminology? Or something completely different?....sorry I'm confused lol"

Vanilla just means "normal, unkinky"

And I'd say your just as likely to find kinky sex on Tindr. I certainly did but maybe I just put out that vibe and attract that kind of girl?

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

Tinder, by a country mile.

There’s also plenty of non-vanilla people there.

I don't wanna seem naive but is 'vanilla' some swinging terminology? Or something completely different?....sorry I'm confused lol"

It’s just a slang term to say not very adventurous/standard non-kinky sex.

Though to be honest I think it’s a bit of a misnomer, as ‘normal’ is entirely subjective, and what public perception of ‘normal’ is doesn’t necessarily correlate with what actually happens most of the time.

I’ve met girls on tinder that would quite happily fit in here, or other sites.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Never on Tinder forever Fabs

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

"Im an old bird. Ive never ever been on tinder or pof or any of those dating sites! "

Behave young lady, your definitely not a old bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab. I was on Tinder for a year and a bit and didn't have a single date from it. A couple of decent chats but largely nothing or I would inevitably get ghosted. Deleted it because it was starting to make me feel like shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder, POF, Bumble are all very different platforms used for either dating or ons....

Fab is like a community or family of like minded swingers, so much more different....

Give me Fab any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder has loads of fake profiles

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Well, so far, I haven’t been kicked off Fab whereas I’ve been kicked off Tinder twice.

Apparently they take a dim view of nearly naked profile pics and text stating that you are only interested in NSA meets.

Who knew..?!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two sites have different purposes. Never used Tinder but I am looking for couples, assume they don't advertise on that platform?

I looked at ok Cupid but didn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both but find Fab profiles more informative and fabbers are waaaaay more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a single meet from tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say."

Yeah what is that about?

Its literally " How are you " and the usual generic bore fest and then nothing.

I can't be arsed with it.

Maybe the genuinely single men on Tinder are single for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say.

Yeah what is that about?

Its literally " How are you " and the usual generic bore fest and then nothing.

I can't be arsed with it.

Maybe the genuinely single men on Tinder are single for a reason

I get the impression that a lot of people are either on Tinder for the attention, or genuinely interested in meeting until the next shiny new person comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say.

Yeah what is that about?

Its literally " How are you " and the usual generic bore fest and then nothing.

I can't be arsed with it.

Maybe the genuinely single men on Tinder are single for a reason

I get the impression that a lot of people are either on Tinder for the attention, or genuinely interested in meeting until the next shiny new person comes along

I think you're right.

Tinder makes me feel ancient

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say.

Yeah what is that about?

Its literally " How are you " and the usual generic bore fest and then nothing.

I can't be arsed with it.

Maybe the genuinely single men on Tinder are single for a reason

I get the impression that a lot of people are either on Tinder for the attention, or genuinely interested in meeting until the next shiny new person comes along

I think you're right.

Tinder makes me feel ancient

Me too - definitely makes me feel my age.

Also totally agree about the “shiny new” aspect... I have a gorgeous vanilla friend who just can’t understand why tinder dates never lead to anything serious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it depends what you are looking for. I prefer Fab for the forums and, as someone else said, it's a community rather than purely a dating/hookup site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had more success on Tinder and bumble, particularly bumble.

I'm thinking of heading out into the dating world, may try bumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

200% on Tinder if you just want hook ups. If you’re a single guy you’ll get so much more joy on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say."

Most men feel the same about Fab

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Never used Tinder, but I have had very good luck with Fab over the years. Pretty much 95% of people I meet are normal. Some have fallen through the cracks.. But, all in all I don't need tinder. The search (to include socials) for playmates is as much of a thrill as the actual meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, are you guys seriously using tinder for hook ups? I've been using it all wrong!

That made my day , very good

I'm serious!

You've never used Tinder just to get laid?

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Also totally agree about the “shiny new” aspect... I have a gorgeous vanilla friend who just can’t understand why tinder dates never lead to anything serious..."

If I were looking for a relationship I’d be on Hinge/Bumble personally. Tinder’s not really the right place for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also totally agree about the “shiny new” aspect... I have a gorgeous vanilla friend who just can’t understand why tinder dates never lead to anything serious...

If I were looking for a relationship I’d be on Hinge/Bumble personally. Tinder’s not really the right place for it. "

Admittedly Bumble did result in more meaningful chats but still the same end result

For me anyway

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Also totally agree about the “shiny new” aspect... I have a gorgeous vanilla friend who just can’t understand why tinder dates never lead to anything serious...

If I were looking for a relationship I’d be on Hinge/Bumble personally. Tinder’s not really the right place for it. "

Yup I’ve tried gently suggesting that to her - she uses hinge and bumble too but I think they’re ultimately pretty similar.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Also totally agree about the “shiny new” aspect... I have a gorgeous vanilla friend who just can’t understand why tinder dates never lead to anything serious...

If I were looking for a relationship I’d be on Hinge/Bumble personally. Tinder’s not really the right place for it.

Admittedly Bumble did result in more meaningful chats but still the same end result

For me anyway

I found Hinge especially good at leading to real world dates and quality interactions. I think it’s because you’re forced to interact to match in the first place. Much higher quality of chats from Bumble in general too.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Fab for me 100%

It matches my requirements

Tinder was too superficial for me and as soon as you mentioned meeting at a club or going to a dungeon you could guarantee your prospective date would run a mile x

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I don’t even compare Tinder to Fab as I find tinder quite shallow and childish. So, definitely fab or other swinging sites if I have to try elsewhere

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Fabswingers over Tinder, hate the whole swipe left and right thing.

Tried the whole “vanilla” dating apps and they just didn’t do anything for me. So many more like minded and sociable people here

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh I think a woman who wants anything short of a monogamous relationship doesn’t have to stray from fab as there are a multitude of single males willing to pander to her every whim (vagina rules on fab).

I’ve had zero issues finding exactly what I want on fab. On dating sites I get a huge number of ‘likes’ but most men even close to my age on there are well past their sell by date in terms of looks and outlook.

However, I think many man wanting a regular sex life and numerous partners would be advised to use more than one ‘dating’ platform - particularly now that clubs are off the agenda.

As I have a vagina I’m very popular on here - if I was a bloke I’d probably get shagged twice a year at most at my age/fitness - that’s the reality and I accept it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab. Nobody spoke on Tinder. "

This is true, tinder is just an odd place.

About 3 and a bit years ago, when i was last on here, I actually had more success sending nice complimentary DM's in instagram!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely had more luck on here than on tinder. You match on tinder and no one speaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder full of ego's, people much nicer on fab!

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By *he Dark Knight09Man
over a year ago

London

I've never signed up for dating apps/websites so I'm more bias towards Fab

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been on Tinder five years. I had a paid subscription for two of those years. Not a single meet.

I've also been on OkCupid five years. I had a paid subscription for that at one point, too. Two meets, though! Sadly, one of them eventually ghosted me, and the other one died.

I joined Bumble earlier this year. Tumble so far.

The big problem I have with all of these sites is that they're all absolutely flooded with vanilla monogamous people looking to settle down with life partners. Fundamentally incompatible aims.

As a single man, the thing that works best for me is physically going to events. I have far more success in person, which is pretty shocking if you've met me in person. Hah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried tinder a couple years back when in Oz, had couple meets from there.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Its literally " How are you " and the usual generic bore fest and then nothing.

I can't be arsed with it.

Maybe the genuinely single men on Tinder are single for a reason

Tinder is so easy to have success on it's just that 90% of guys will start a message with exactly that "Hi how are you"

Soooooo dull, poor girls recieved a hundred messages a day like that.

Simple tactic, make a girl on tindr laugh in your first messages and your winning. Look at her photos and read her bio and find an opening to make a joke at, poke a bit of fun at something in her pics, not enough to cause insult but enough to get a message throwing some banter back at you.

Tindr and any dating plateform is what you make of it, unfortunately most guys dont have a clue.

Also, the kinkist meet from a website or app I ever had was off tindr.

For what we as a couple are looking for FAB is ideal, but as a single guy tindr and clubs have far better results if you know how to make a girl smile in a message

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Its literally " How are you " and the usual generic bore fest and then nothing.

I can't be arsed with it.

Maybe the genuinely single men on Tinder are single for a reason

Tinder is so easy to have success on it's just that 90% of guys will start a message with exactly that "Hi how are you"

Soooooo dull, poor girls recieved a hundred messages a day like that.

Tindr and any dating plateform is what you make of it, unfortunately most guys dont have a clue.

Also, the kinkist meet from a website or app I ever had was off tindr.

For what we as a couple are looking for FAB is ideal, but as a single guy tindr and clubs have far better results if you know how to make a girl smile in a message "

This has been my experience too. The kinkiest girl I‘ve met to date, has been from Tinder.

I talked to a lot of female friends about the kind of messages they got sent, got them to show me etc. Both good and bad. It’s much the same as on here to be honest.

I think a lot of guys aren’t honest about what they’re looking for, what they’re into, and what they want. I’ve found honesty on tinder is generally well received, and women have continuously surprised me.

You still have to have a lot of fruitless conversations though, just the same as here.

Plus, over investing in the process (reading profiles, being highly selective on swipes etc) for guys on tinder is a fairly rewardless task. It’s unpopular, but I just swipe right on most profiles these days and pay little attention to it. I do however look at every profile in full, with due care and attention if we match.

If you pay for the Plus for a year it was only £40ish. If you swipe right on everyone, then you always see who’s liked you anyway, you get all the super likes and the boost of Gold every month/day. It’s gaming the system a bit, but it means I spend less wasted time swiping and more time chatting to people I’m interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

Neither! Zero success on either platform for me

Struggling to believe this!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

Do couples do tinder???

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

Do couples do tinder??? "

I’ve send a handful.

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By *panishbull90Man
over a year ago

rochdale

I try both but I will explain with details tinder :

by far much more matches but for every 20 you meet maybe 3 or 4 of them as people get bored of chatting. I end up deleting it as I wasn’t up for a relationship and most of the women there are looking for a long term thing.

Tinder whit a specific profile just for nsa:

I uploaded with non face pictures, just top off photos and with a description saying I wasn’t looking for a relationship instead I was looking for nsa fun ( I wrote it in a better way to don’t sound as a prick ) i did have very low matches but the ones I meet still calling me , let’s say they are regulars ( I’m seeing 2 of them , one is superb! So good chemistry on bed)

Fab:

Is working well for me , but a few time wasters around , I’ve been left down by 2 couples at the last minute and I honestly think there are a few fake profiles too ( men pretending to be a couple or a woman) but I like fab over tinder.

Long message but I hope I was helpful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always found tinder better actually but lately it’s nobody talks on either to me so I must be doing something wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had more luck on fab than tinder. The algorithm on tinder really likes to show fakes or inactive users, whereas on fab the selection is more natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More luck here, never matched on tinder and Everytime I use POF I get blank profiles looking for hook-ups or asking am I on here.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"I’ve had way more success with Fab. Tinder seems to be full of lads who are keen to swipe but then have nothing to say."

A lot of People have nothing to say on both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder has loads of weirdos "

So does fab lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder but that’s because tinder is for people around my age range

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I try both but I will explain with details tinder :

Tinder whit a specific profile just for nsa:

Fab:

Long message but I hope I was helpful!

Oh yeah. I bet you could be very ‘helpful’!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tinder but that’s because tinder is for people around my age range "

Yh I thought so, I'm getting decent attention on both but more women in my local area

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Tinder worked for me, it's where I met M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fab, but had success on tinder too xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"More fab, but had success on tinder too xx"

I’m sure you have - you’re very pretty!

I think tinder is great for younger people and would possibly use it if I were under 40. X

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm on both but find Tinder too passive. If I see someone I like who I think I have things in common with, I prefer to be able to write and say hello. Something to show I've read the profile and catch their attention hopefully, rather than just swiping right and hoping they do the same.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I prefer fab least people are more honest with their intentions.

The likes of tinder and other vanilla 'dating' sites its one extreme to another either a hook up or the full blown relationship with the fairy tale forever after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More fab, but had success on tinder too xx

I’m sure you have - you’re very pretty!

I think tinder is great for younger people and would possibly use it if I were under 40. X"

I think you'd have plenty of success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used tinder and not had much luck.

Same faces on there and every other dating app. And there isn't anyone on those sites that I like or would actually date.

Prefer fab.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Fab definitely.

I've had way more meets and met more friends on here.

I've met some really cool people on Tinder but only for 'proper' dates, not hook ups.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Tinder users normally have a paddy when they hear about my other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to hear about other similarly web sites

Love to meet a couple on Tinder

I had io one lucky date on tinder last year

No luck on this website

Love meet people love have regulars chat with girls and couples

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I still got bitches outside my house now from tinder

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I still got bitches outside my house now from tinder

Hope you’ve made them a brew then?

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I still got bitches outside my house now from tinder

Hope you’ve made them a brew then?

They drink witches brew x

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Tinder users normally have a paddy when they hear about my other half "

I've yet to match with a couple or an attached woman. (fingers crossed) Don't see many couples either, but almost all my bi female friends do - or at least certain 'single' matches turn out to be after a 3rd for threesomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re 21. Use tinder.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Tinder users normally have a paddy when they hear about my other half

Yeah. I’m just after a lovely lady. Single or attached

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Tinder users normally have a paddy when they hear about my other half

Yeah. I’m just after a lovely lady. Single or attached "

I do know some pretty prudish types to be fair. Need to move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is better. I find Tinder people a lot ruder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finder Tinder , Bumble , and Match The place to be if you are a single guy looking for young hot girls to hangout with but the caveat is that girls/ women from dating sites secretly want a relationship... No matter what they tell you

Fab is place the place to be if you’re looking to have great NSA Sex after a break up and before finding your next Long term relationship....

The reason most guys do not talk much on dating apps .... is simple....

We get a certain amount of matches per day... So we Just like every profile picture we see , then when that person matches back.. we read the profile, look at the pictures , and decide if we want to talk...

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By *lsa-xxxWoman
over a year ago

Tetbury

I use both. If I feel like dating I use tinder. Then I remember why I hate dating. And I return back here.

Met some amazing people on both. Some questionable ones too.

Tinder boys tell me I’m an ice cold bitch.

Fab tells me otherwise

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I finder Tinder , Bumble , and Match The place to be if you are a single guy looking for young hot girls to hangout with but the caveat is that girls/ women from dating sites secretly want a relationship... No matter what they tell you"

This just isn’t true at all. There are plenty of girls that are perfectly happy with a genuinely NSA casual relationship on tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This just isn’t true at all. There are plenty of girls that are perfectly happy with a genuinely NSA casual relationship on tinder. "

Ok they are the mythical creatures, I’ve only read about.... I’ll just give you a quick example of my dating experiences on Dating apps...

Meet girl on Tinder we hangout and hook up... I Explain I do not want a relationship and she agrees....

We hook a few more times , experiment different sexual things , and then boom .. the non sense on her part starts.....

Like sleeping over my place and cuddling.... Like inviting me to social functions with friends/family And work stuff .... I have no problems doing that stuff with people I’m dating... But if you say you want a NO STRINGS ATTACHED relationships...

Why are they trying to create non sexual memories?

Why are they trying to spend holidays together and inviting me to meet their friends/family?

Now , maybe NSA casual relationships have a different meaning in the UK , but in my opinion that’s not what I signed up for.....

Now if you meet a couple, they just want to have a few drinks and great sex..,.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's tinder.....?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder"

So basically fabswingers is just a route to get your dick wet.. could be why you don't have much luck.

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over a year ago

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

This just isn’t true at all. There are plenty of girls that are perfectly happy with a genuinely NSA casual relationship on tinder. "

I can second this. Had many many NSA casual meets from Tinder

(Daddy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab for sure, I get plenty of meets here. I've never used tinder but I wouldn't bother with it anyway, I'm looking to meet other swingers at clubs, I'm not sure tinder is the place to find that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder has faces, very strange!

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Really? I've never had a single NSA meet on Tinder. Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

I find the minority who say they just want sex are really wanting a relationship or selling something.

I find Fab much more honest and forthright with a more grown up attitude to sex and sexual relationships.

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By *panishbull90Man
over a year ago

rochdale

"Tinder has faces, very strange! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really? I've never had a single NSA meet on Tinder. Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

I find the minority who say they just want sex are really wanting a relationship or selling something.

I find Fab much more honest and forthright with a more grown up attitude to sex and sexual relationships.

This has been my experience as well.... You are doing nothing wrong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which one have you had more successful meets from?I've only used fab, but not getting much luck atm so might try tinder

Neither! Zero success on either platform for me

Struggling to believe this!"

Honestly... if I had been lucky enough in either I wouldn’t be here replying to you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder has faces, very strange!

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

This just isn’t true at all. There are plenty of girls that are perfectly happy with a genuinely NSA casual relationship on tinder.

Ok they are the mythical creatures, I’ve only read about.... I’ll just give you a quick example of my dating experiences on Dating apps...

[your experiences]

Fair dos. Can’t speak of your own experience, or the women you’ve met, but I’ve formed real friendships and done many of the things you mention without having any hassle/drama. Guess you’ve just got to do it the right way for you!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Never tried Tinder.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"Never tried Tinder."

Me neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on Tinder - POF yielded weirdos and some who chatted with me until "something better came along".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is better for the honesty in terms of people admitting it’s just sex they want. Tinder is a bigger risk of someone wanting ‘more’

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

"Fab was enough that I never even considered Tinder"

This

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By *ingle_docMan
over a year ago

Oxford

More luck from Tinder, but I found that even if it started off as NSA, they ended up wanting more. And no kink.

I left Tinder around the time I came to fab, and 700 messages later, I finally met someone.

I'm constantly amazed on Tinder by all the filters, people calling themselves 'sapiosexual' (bullshit you are if your basing your swipes on a photo), horse pics, and every other girl owning a cockapoo.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well I resigned up for tinder and have a meet with a lady from fab next week (via tinder)

What a crazy world xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder has 50% fake profiles mainly the younger females id say up to the age of 30 all they want to do is get you to add them on snap chat then want you to pay subscription to see there pics or it sends you a link to a premium site also there 100s of escorts on it lol

But ive met 5 or 6 more mature women who i have had a good time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But ive met 5 or 6 more mature women who i have had a good time with

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Well I resigned up for tinder and have a meet with a lady from fab next week (via tinder)

What a crazy world xx"

Not as uncommon as you think! I met a fellow fabber via tinder too. It’s actually how I got verified here in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more luck on other sites than here. But I'm hooked on fab now and I haven't used any others since I joined here.

I was recommended this by a woman who I chatted with on Tinder. I told her that I wasn't looking for a relationship and she told me to try fab swingers.

She said I would be having sex in no time if I used this.. Yeah right sure I will lol

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Well I resigned up for tinder and have a meet with a lady from fab next week (via tinder)

What a crazy world xx

Not as uncommon as you think! I met a fellow fabber via tinder too. It’s actually how I got verified here in the end.

It is when you’re a lady trying to meet a lady in my 15 years on here I have only met two who met through the site and didn’t ask at the last minute if their BF can watch.

They had winked me on here. Makes Me wonder though why I was more approachable on there than here? Maybe as it was a match? Not sure x

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I feel both websites have there upsides and downsides. Personally had more success in getting into conversations at Tinder most likely due to more interests. My age might have been a factor. However, only had a handful of awesome meets from fabswingers over the years, but they were enough to keep me hooked to the website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab. Nobody spoke on Tinder. "

Not many speak on here either

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Tinder works better for me.

Fab works better for the wife.

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