FabSwingers.com forum: fab has made me....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

Same here

The yellow looks amazing BTW!

It has given me a love for underwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

Same here

Bingo

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

not trust anyone not even in real life. My therapist suggests I stop using it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly opened my eyes to a different more submissive side of me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?"

It’s also brought you an extensive collection of cock pictures

It’s made me realise I almost never say no to things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercises by imagination when replying to forum threads

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

Same here

A lot will say the same. Its opened their eyes to the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made life easier for me. He knows what he’s going to get... sort of

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not trust anyone not even in real life. My therapist suggests I stop using it.

You shouldn't trust anyone anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made me realise I shouldn’t be quite so insecure about my looks , introduced me to people I’d never have met some very genuine and some not so much !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynical

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

fab has made us happy ..frustrated ..and horny ..not always in that order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wise up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cynical "

Yes! And all words associated with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s made me realise I shouldn’t be quite so insecure about my looks , introduced me to people I’d never have met some very genuine and some not so much !"

This is nice

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"fab has made us happy ..frustrated ..and horny ..not always in that order

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this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has nade me extroadinarily patient

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"It’s made me realise I shouldn’t be quite so insecure about my looks , introduced me to people I’d never have met some very genuine and some not so much !

This is nice

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I think this is a lesson for all of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am far more open minded and accepting of peoples kinks than I ever would have been without fab

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Fab has introduced me to some lovely people I would never have met. Some are a big part of my life. It’s also taught me.

“Never judge a book by its cover” and “if something appears too good to be true it usually is”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cynical "

I was cynical before fab

Fab has made me smug about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has introduced me to some lovely people I would never have met. Some are a big part of my life. It’s also taught me.

“Never judge a book by its cover” and “if something appears too good to be true it usually is”. "

And this! Every word of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me mad by keep checking phone to see if any looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am far more open minded and accepting of peoples kinks than I ever would have been without fab "

It’s introduced me to kinks I never knew existed lol x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fab has made me happier in who I am, more open to love and also I like people a lot more than I used to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Made me mad by keep checking phone to see if any looks"

I looked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab has made me happier in who I am, more open to love and also I like people a lot more than I used to.

I'm glad you like people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Made me mad by keep checking phone to see if any looks

I looked

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab has introduced me to some lovely people I would never have met. Some are a big part of my life. It’s also taught me.

“Never judge a book by its cover” and “if something appears too good to be true it usually is”. "

Sadly, very true

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Open to more sexual experiences than id imagined ,at times more confident im myself but also less ,jaded with the awful people that are on here ,but also uplifted with the nice regular meets and chats we have ..Learning life is short live for now ...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Fab has made me start finding a confidence I never had before.

And made me both happier than I've ever been and sadder. Hoping the happy stays though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Fab has made me happier in who I am, more open to love and also I like people a lot more than I used to.

I'm glad you like people

Yeah; people are great. I mean sure, you get twunts every now and again and sometimes even those dear to you can be bloody exhausting and hard work. Generally though, they're not too bad. Or maybe I'm just lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab has made me happier in who I am, more open to love and also I like people a lot more than I used to.

I'm glad you like people

You are lucky...or very good at working out the twunts earlier than I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's kinda ruined my confidence, the endless rejection is hard to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab has made me start finding a confidence I never had before.

And made me both happier than I've ever been and sadder. Hoping the happy stays though"

Long live the happy!

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Happy. Fab has made me happy.

It’s given me the most amazing girlfriend..

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Feel a lot more accepted by regular folks than i ever thought I would be so I want to thank you all for that.

I've made some brilliant friends, been introduced to clubs which covid had gotten in the way of so i can't wait to pick that up again and found a lot to look forward to after some tough times.

For all the sites foibles and quirks, the people of Fab are what have made it a wonderful place to spend my time and hope I put a smile on others faces like they do on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy. Fab has made me happy.

It’s given me the most amazing girlfriend.. "

Awwww that’s lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happy. Fab has made me happy.

It’s given me the most amazing girlfriend.. "

Did you meet on here?

Look everyone....it is possible

I'm jealous and happy for you both x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Fab has made me start finding a confidence I never had before.

And made me both happier than I've ever been and sadder. Hoping the happy stays though

Long live the happy! "

Oh I bloody hope so!

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Fab has made me happier in who I am, more open to love and also I like people a lot more than I used to.

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Thinking mans/womans crumpet indeed ..xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Feel a lot more accepted by regular folks than i ever thought I would be so I want to thank you all for that.

I've made some brilliant friends, been introduced to clubs which covid had gotten in the way of so i can't wait to pick that up again and found a lot to look forward to after some tough times.

For all the sites foibles and quirks, the people of Fab are what have made it a wonderful place to spend my time and hope I put a smile on others faces like they do on mine

You do, you sexy human being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realise what a dirty bitch I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made my wife a bigger dirty cow than i thought she was lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Realise what a dirty bitch I am

Whoop whoop!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Feel a lot more accepted by regular folks than i ever thought I would be so I want to thank you all for that.

I've made some brilliant friends, been introduced to clubs which covid had gotten in the way of so i can't wait to pick that up again and found a lot to look forward to after some tough times.

For all the sites foibles and quirks, the people of Fab are what have made it a wonderful place to spend my time and hope I put a smile on others faces like they do on mine

You do, you sexy human being "

Awwwww thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice this asked a few times in the forums.

Honestly, not a lot apart from staying true

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"Happy. Fab has made me happy.

It’s given me the most amazing girlfriend..

Did you meet on here?

Look everyone....it is possible

I'm jealous and happy for you both x"

Yep.. met on here as singles. Living together now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?"

Nope..it just enhances the person l always wanted to be

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Fab has made me...

Even more self concious about merting people. Looking at all these seriously hot boobs and asses all day can really dent a girls ego - but please don't cover them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not trust anyone not even in real life. My therapist suggests I stop using it.

Either sack your therapist or sack fab off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More sexually aware and adventurous less gullible, more observant and conscious of patterns of online behaviour, less in denial of my sexuality and situation, less sexually frustrated.

As a result of my own personal development that has continued in parallel with my Fab participation I’m more content and at peace with myself than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has mad me nothing, if I've changed then fab didn't make me do it, I just evolved. I make my own choices, innit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That just because someone says something its not necessarily a fact, or that I have to let it concern me.

That you shouldn't expect the world to change to meet your standards, regardless of how awful others may appear. Walk away and do your own thing focusing energy on that, not berating others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has mad me nothing, if I've changed then fab didn't make me do it, I just evolved. I make my own choices, innit....

Bollix wish I'd read that before I posted. Tru dat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" That just because someone says something its not necessarily a fact, or that I have to let it concern me.

That you shouldn't expect the world to change to meet your standards, regardless of how awful others may appear. Walk away and do your own thing focusing energy on that, not berating others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has mad me nothing, if I've changed then fab didn't make me do it, I just evolved. I make my own choices, innit....

Not mad, promise....

Made*

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's brought a wonderful person into my life, as well as some amazing friends...it's also delivered some grade A arseholes, but you can't have everything I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually improved my confidence which was pretty low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has made me realise not to give out my real opinions as they are sometimes controversial and it’s not worth the hassle or headache on the forums!

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

Opened my Pandora’s box and made me feel more confident and accepting of my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horny but let down by how fussy people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me realise that love is often confused with lust.

I also realised through experiences that my lust needs to be in line with my principles in order to fully enjoy the sense and essence of sex.

I now understand better what Wilde said by 'sex is about power' and I now pick wisely who I get intimate with, be it sexually or not.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

"Fab has made me...

Even more self concious about merting people. Looking at all these seriously hot boobs and asses all day can really dent a girls ego - but please don't cover them

You look FANTASTIC ...

And I also cover those heels!!!

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

"Fab has made me...

Even more self concious about merting people. Looking at all these seriously hot boobs and asses all day can really dent a girls ego - but please don't cover them

You look FANTASTIC ...

And I also cover those heels!!!

Covet ... damn autocorrect

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

"...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?"

Far more cynical, more flippant, less trusting and definitely helped my sarcasm reach new heights.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Made me realise that love is often confused with lust.

I also realised through experiences that my lust needs to be in line with my principles in order to fully enjoy the sense and essence of sex.

I now understand better what Wilde said by 'sex is about power' and I now pick wisely who I get intimate with, be it sexually or not. "

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Unapologetic about saying no to people. Doesn't come naturally as an innate people pleaser, but realising I don't owe people anything if they don't know me, and that I don't have to justify my choices to others, has been a powerful thing.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ruthless in some self protective ways.. but also sexually freed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unapologetic about saying no to people. Doesn't come naturally as an innate people pleaser, but realising I don't owe people anything if they don't know me, and that I don't have to justify my choices to others, has been a powerful thing.

Mrs TMN x"

This too.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's pretty much cemented for me that I can't be attracted to people purely for the physical. Which makes meeting people on here pretty hard

. I mostly stay for the social aspect now but every now and then...

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Fab has made me more confident.

I know I am overweight and it is something I have struggled with and it often made me feel unattractive but the attention from guys on here has given me a massive boost and I feel much better about myself.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

A hell of a lot more confident in breaking the ice and chatting to complete strangers here and the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive realised that even as a fatty im a very passionate and awesome lover....will some think so oh and that im an amazing kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive realised that even as a fatty im a very passionate and awesome lover....will some think so oh and that im an amazing kisser

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but i also realise some men will say just about anything they think you want to hear and that actions rather than words tell the true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

I'll say.

It's made me realise how many like minded lovely people are out there in this wonderful swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For once I am going to be serious

Fan, in particular the forums has boosted my confidence and self esteem.

The acceptance, encouragement,and friendliness I have encountered has helped me step away from (literally) decades of self doubt, denial and at times self hate. I believe the couple of years I have been here have done more for my wellbeing than anything else I can think of.

So there

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Unleash the usually reserved horny fucker lurking within

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A couple of life long friends that I would never have met as our paths would never have crossed.

A reawakening of a passion in drawing and a huge learning curve in the new subject matter.

All the thoughts and ideas I had whirling in my head are quite normal and the opportunity to experience them and others fully

That’s the good stuff, I won’t bother with the negative side as that’s life, people will be who they are... your choice though to let them and their ways affect you; they are nothing to you so don’t let them take your positivity away

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

That there’s more to people than meets the eye.

Given me confidence.

That I can stand up for myself when needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab’s made me more body confident.

If lots of strangers on the internet can love my curves I know I can.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Its brought out a side I never knew ! If someone told me 3 years ago what I b doing now I'd b horrfied lol x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Ive realised that even as a fatty im a very passionate and awesome lover....will some think so oh and that im an amazing kisser

but i also realise some men will say just about anything they think you want to hear and that actions rather than words tell the true story"

This. Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's confirmed a lot of what I thought about myself before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me think about plastic surgery and not for an enlargement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has made me realise not to give out my real opinions as they are sometimes controversial and it’s not worth the hassle or headache on the forums! "

Thats a real shame. Some of the most outspoken and controversial members are the most interesting to follow on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has brought out my sexuality and curious side. Now i wana feel light anal play and maybe try receive a prostrate massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has brought out my sexuality and curious side. Now i wana feel light anal play and maybe try receive a prostrate massage "

Lie face down and perfectly straight then please.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

That it's sexy black lingerie and stockings and suspenders that do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab allowed me to be more confident and come out of my shell

And I made some amazing friends

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Ask even more questions and take nothing for granted!

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Made more more interested in same sex experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opened my eyes to how innocent people like to act or make you believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accomplished a few fantasy

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

All I can say is is definitely maybe more cheekier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More open minded over the years

Possibly a bit harsher too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And definitely more sociable and confident since going to meets/parties/clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And definitely more sociable and confident since going to meets/parties/clubs"

Funny, it had exactly the opposite effect on me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

Same here

Ditto that

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

More aware of how many couples like to play, how ridiculous/desperate/vulgar single men can be, and that people here are no different to anywhere else, they’re just more up front about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And definitely more sociable and confident since going to meets/parties/clubs"

Thought you would always be confident

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

More confident and accepting of myself. Slightly more cynical but less tolerant of empty words and compliments x

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Realise I’m normal and many more are like me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Recognise the new unit of measurement, known as the sky remote. I was just using lynx cans previously.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Fabs and me... well where do I start ...

Had great sexual experienced and realised what I like now.

Helped me visit my first club.. and loved them since.

Made me a social butterfly.. enjoy getting to socials and meeting new people.. and given me a new confidence around Fabsters

Learnt some lessons on the way about how and how not to treat people.

Learnt not to air dirty laundry in public.

Yeah so fab has had a big impact in my life..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's made me very wary of people's motives for doing things. I don't trust as easily as I used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has done the exact opposite for me, i dont mind seeing dicks. Some are really quite good looking and I absolutely love that guys pester me and tell me they are getting off on my pics, rather than been picky i think its made me more of a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's made me very wary of people's motives for doing things. I don't trust as easily as I used to. "

Totally this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And definitely more sociable and confident since going to meets/parties/clubs

Thought you would always be confident "

Because?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Fab has done the exact opposite for me, i dont mind seeing dicks. Some are really quite good looking and I absolutely love that guys pester me and tell me they are getting off on my pics, rather than been picky i think its made me more of a slut

I suspect you'll be getting lots and lots of mail in 5-4-3-2-1...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And definitely more sociable and confident since going to meets/parties/clubs

Funny, it had exactly the opposite effect on me..."

Ahhh no. Sorry to hear that. Bad experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for men to chat to women on here when u cant wink at them and they block men from messege them why is that looking find nice fuck buddy or is it covid stopping this ???

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Hmmmm.... What has fab taught me?

Good and bad things.

It's taught me to love myself. I am much more body positive than I used to be.

It's taught me I am perhaps too trusting sometimes.

It's taught me a little bit kinky but not at all Domme.

It's taught me that I am not weird for liking what I like.

It's given me some of the best friends ever that I know have go my back no matter what

I love it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has made me realise not to give out my real opinions as they are sometimes controversial and it’s not worth the hassle or headache on the forums!

Thats a real shame. Some of the most outspoken and controversial members are the most interesting to follow on here!

I’m sure they are but some people can’t cope with some subjects so it’s not wise to put that stress upon them! It ends up negative energy and not worth the upset!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Atleast your honest Thank you for that

Only thing that comes to mind for me is the power of the internet makes it easy for your loving wife to meet a much better sexually talented man at the click of a button .

Had the internet not been available

Would we still be together?

Who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has entertained me a lot.

For this I thank you

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Fab has made us laugh, made us wince, made us some nice friends and given us a different avenue to explore together.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Fab has made me realise not to give out my real opinions as they are sometimes controversial and it’s not worth the hassle or headache on the forums!

Thats a real shame. Some of the most outspoken and controversial members are the most interesting to follow on here!

I’m sure they are but some people can’t cope with some subjects so it’s not wise to put that stress upon them! It ends up negative energy and not worth the upset!"

True but some need to learn to bypass threads that aren’t for them. It’s a public forum, everyone has a voice and a debate is healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recognise the new unit of measurement, known as the sky remote. I was just using lynx cans previously. "

hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May sound silly but being in fab has knocked my confidence a little, obviously I know I’m not to everyone tastes, but constant rejections can not be good for the soul lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And definitely more sociable and confident since going to meets/parties/clubs

Funny, it had exactly the opposite effect on me...

Ahhh no. Sorry to hear that. Bad experience?"

More than I can count.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"May sound silly but being in fab has knocked my confidence a little, obviously I know I’m not to everyone tastes, but constant rejections can not be good for the soul lol x"

It took me a long time to get used to this, and it still hurts to be honest

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It's hard for men to chat to women on here when u cant wink at them and they block men from messege them why is that looking find nice fuck buddy or is it covid stopping this ???"

No, its the dross womrn receive from some men and couples that is stopping it. Also, currently only socially distanced meets are allowed on here, most don't want those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught me to accept that while there will compliments, there will also be rejections.

But I should treat those two imposters just the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has made me realise not to give out my real opinions as they are sometimes controversial and it’s not worth the hassle or headache on the forums!

Thats a real shame. Some of the most outspoken and controversial members are the most interesting to follow on here!

I’m sure they are but some people can’t cope with some subjects so it’s not wise to put that stress upon them! It ends up negative energy and not worth the upset!

True but some need to learn to bypass threads that aren’t for them. It’s a public forum, everyone has a voice and a debate is healthy

Very true but they don’t instead they would rather believe that information is fake or incorrect! It’s just a waste of time! So I don’t bother anymore! Better to just pm people! What your saying is correct though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s taught me how to disassociate sex and true intimacy and reminded me what love really is. And that fab is a great stop gap till it comes back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has opened me up sexually and in turn made me more confident as a person. It is definitely a good thing for me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Fab has given me love with single men and husbands, where else could I ever find access to that

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Fab has made me:

More body confident

More open to sexual exploration

More candid about my own wants and needs

Google things that have either intruiged or repulsed me - either way, it's made me smile for the fun of it

Photograph myself, which I'd never done before

Realise that kinky people are all around us

Realise that cake is a currency

Look to the forums for updates on everything happening in the world

It's made me some wonderful friends.

It's made me feel desired again.

It's made me feel whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has made me:

More body confident

More open to sexual exploration

More candid about my own wants and needs

Google things that have either intruiged or repulsed me - either way, it's made me smile for the fun of it

Photograph myself, which I'd never done before

Realise that kinky people are all around us

Realise that cake is a currency

Look to the forums for updates on everything happening in the world

It's made me some wonderful friends.

It's made me feel desired again.

It's made me feel whole."

Hold your head up there’s nothing wrong with your body

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

"...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?"

Bored....

Haha

We have tried most things and looking for something new and exciting to do

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"I've realised that I'm naughtier than I actually thought I was before joining

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost celibate. Im sure I was getting more sex before I joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m attractive to the same sex - I never knew men would want me in a sexual way. I’ve found it flattering and inspiring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me realise that there really is some truly horrible self centered narsatisctic people around

However on the plus side there are some truly fantastic amazing and friendly people on here too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

That actually I am attractive to some people.

That sometimes leaps of faith and joining the dots are the pathways of life and that you shouldn't be afraid to take them if it feels right.

That it's possible to find friendship and more where you least expect it and be able to be open and honest and not be judged.

There are negatives too, but I'm full of positivity and I'll not drag things down by mentioning them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s messed up how I trust people as I have heard so many lies

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By *erkswankerMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Realise a lot of people are prejudiced against guys who are bi because apparently if you've sucked a cock it means your dick is tainted and can't ever go inside a woman again. Also realised that a large number of people on here are pretty stuck up or just plain weird. However, a few are very nice lol.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Plenty of poop stuff that I'd rather have not learnt but.....

Friendships that mean the world to me.

Pre-fab (not sprout) I probably wouldn't have given TVs the time of day. Not in a disrespectful way, but in a "well we clearly have fuck all in common" way. I was so wrong, and couldn't be more thankful to have met my friends and see them as family. They've taught me so much about me without even trying and I can't imagine my life without them. They taught me the value of true beauty.

That I am a crazy diamond and it's perfectly ok to shine on my own way.

That my moral fibre is pretty hard-core.

To own who you are. Everyone has a backstory that's shaped who we are or why we do certain things. It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's part of our lives and by sharing our own experiences we can help others without even realising

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

"Fab has made me:

More body confident

More open to sexual exploration

More candid about my own wants and needs

Google things that have either intruiged or repulsed me - either way, it's made me smile for the fun of it

Photograph myself, which I'd never done before

Realise that kinky people are all around us

Realise that cake is a currency

Look to the forums for updates on everything happening in the world

It's made me some wonderful friends.

It's made me feel desired again.

It's made me feel whole.

Hold your head up there’s nothing wrong with your body "

Thank you. I did, and now I do again.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not as ugly as I think I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not as ugly as I think I am."

This is sad but good at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not as ugly as I think I am."

You are not ugly not one bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made me realise I need to get out more! Definitely not going to be the place for me but I’ve made a few nice friends and it’s killed some bored and lonely hours on the forums

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I'm not as ugly as I think I am."

You definitely aren’t. Do you think I’d have ugly people on my friends list?

You’re beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?"

See how many people there are with bizarre attitudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met some interesting people and given me more confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...a really picky bitch and also quite shallow.

What has fab done for you? Haha

Has it brought out any sides of your personality you didn't realise you had?

See how many people there are with bizarre attitudes "

I'd like to know your attitude more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not as ugly as I think I am.

You are not ugly not one bit!

What she said ^^

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fab has reinforced my awareness of just how much of an outlier I actually am. I think I'm looking in the wrong places, but I don't know where to try next.

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By *ullishMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Made me realise how much women objectify and show entitlement

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