FabSwingers.com forum: Confused

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabbers

Have you noticed how many statuses there are for advertising sexual meets, in hotels, one to one etc?

What are the Fab rules on this?

Confused.com.

Bhubaysi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I updated mine this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabbers

Have you noticed how many statuses there are for advertising sexual meets, in hotels, one to one etc?

What are the Fab rules on this?

Confused.com.

Bhubaysi x "

Supposedly not permitted and should be reported (so that FAB can ignore it)

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I updated mine this morning "

Loving it you handsome brute....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People make their own choices. We don't have to agree with aporove of or worry overmuch about those choices unless they have some relevance to our own lives....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I updated mine this morning

Loving it you handsome brute...."

Brute ?!

best compliment ever

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"People make their own choices. We don't have to agree with aporove of or worry overmuch about those choices unless they have some relevance to our own lives...."

What a strange comment. It does have relevance to our lives. It’s possibly spreading a virus further....

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

"People make their own choices. We don't have to agree with aporove of or worry overmuch about those choices unless they have some relevance to our own lives...."

Except admin have asked for our help in reporting rule breakers.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"People make their own choices. We don't have to agree with aporove of or worry overmuch about those choices unless they have some relevance to our own lives....

Except admin have asked for our help in reporting rule breakers.

Don’t think the rule breakers are kicked off the site though.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

There's a pic in Hot Photos that is obviously not socially distanced, is not pre covid as evidenced by their recent statuses, but the pic is still there. Not enough consistency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People make their own choices. We don't have to agree with aporove of or worry overmuch about those choices unless they have some relevance to our own lives....

What a strange comment. It does have relevance to our lives. It’s possibly spreading a virus further...."

Point missed?

We are only ever responsible for our own actions, not the actions of others, irrespective of whether we agree or not with the actions of others....

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

pretty sure loads are meeting on here now. Just a shame no one wants my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bubbles are allowed anyone else that meets are bloody stupid but people think it’s gone

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve some social meets planned and I will be honouring them.

Re:play meets, yes it’s frustrating to see but least their risk is theirs alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab rule no.1 = if they're getting sex and you're not, Burn them!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t look at my local updates now, It just pisses me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t look at my local updates now, It just pisses me off.

Let's be honest it was pretty weird before Covid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only ever responsible for our own actions, not the actions of others, irrespective of whether we agree or not with the actions of others....

It is a conundrum for an open liberal democracy.

Think about the alternative of an enforced lockdown - like China - and how much people would kick back against that.

The government's strategy will already have built into it an acknowledgement that not everyone will follow the rules.

The lockdowns are only about slowing the spread of the virus so other measures can be in place.

This virus could very well be with us for a long time - and become as ubiquitous as flu (which is also a killer). How long you put parts of your life on hold is for you alone to decide.

Life is about risk - driving your car carries a risk but because driving is 'normalised' most people don't consider the risk.

COVID is just another risk.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

"Fab rule no.1 = if they're getting sex and you're not, Burn them!

Lol.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

"I don’t look at my local updates now, It just pisses me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our local area, there have been no new cases in over 6 weeks.

How about we allow consenting adults to make their own decisions and mitigate their own risks...

Save the judgy forum posts for barebacking

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

We are only ever responsible for our own actions, not the actions of others, irrespective of whether we agree or not with the actions of others....

It is a conundrum for an open liberal democracy.

Think about the alternative of an enforced lockdown - like China - and how much people would kick back against that.

The government's strategy will already have built into it an acknowledgement that not everyone will follow the rules.

The lockdowns are only about slowing the spread of the virus so other measures can be in place.

This virus could very well be with us for a long time - and become as ubiquitous as flu (which is also a killer). How long you put parts of your life on hold is for you alone to decide.

Life is about risk - driving your car carries a risk but because driving is 'normalised' most people don't consider the risk.

COVID is just another risk."

I agree life is a risk but have you seen the videos of someone dying of Covid? It’s no fun. Now I wonder if will you risk Covid?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"In our local area, there have been no new cases in over 6 weeks.

How about we allow consenting adults to make their own decisions and mitigate their own risks...

Save the judgy forum posts for barebacking

I asked for Fab rules on meeting. No mention of bareback in my opening post. If you don’t like the topic then please pass by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a joke... haha jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"In our local area, there have been no new cases in over 6 weeks.

How about we allow consenting adults to make their own decisions and mitigate their own risks...

Save the judgy forum posts for barebacking

Or just not have any judgey behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

COVID is just another risk.

I agree life is a risk but have you seen the videos of someone dying of Covid? It’s no fun. Now I wonder if will you risk Covid? "

Not at the moment.

But the government also knows the longer it goes on for the less people will be prepared to put their lives, or parts of their lives, on hold. Which is why they have moved to local lockdowns and looking at how to manage it without another national lockdown.

At some point I will accept the risk. And so will many others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At some point I will accept the risk. And so will many others."

Precisely, we must mitigate our own risks

Each person or couple should decide when that will be for themselves, vilifying peoples choices get us nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our local area, there have been no new cases in over 6 weeks.

How about we allow consenting adults to make their own decisions and mitigate their own risks...

^This^

Save the judgy forum posts for barebacking

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report please if they are asking for more than socials. They will get a warning initially

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