FabSwingers.com forum: Friends that never write

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am i the only one that people on your friends list, that never contact you

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Nope I've got people on my friends list that I've not chatted with for ages

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they dont, but were eagerly pursuing friendship, I just delete and forget. If someone deletes me after long silence/no interaction whatsoever, despite being active online, I just think fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the people on my friends list talk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shake it up and be choosey? I chat to most of mine, I have a couple where I don't so much, but they have great pics to perv on, so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the reason behind them being a friend on fab.

Is it to look at the friends only photos? To chat with a view to meeting? You become friends through the forums?

Multitude of reasons for being friends and for not communicating.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah I’ve never understood this. Even when you message they ignore you. I guess it’s time to cut them out huh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shake it up and be choosey? I chat to most of mine, I have a couple where I don't so much, but they have great pics to perv on, so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shake it up and be choosey? I chat to most of mine, I have a couple where I don't so much, but they have great pics to perv on, so....

I perv on you!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No op, you aren't the only one. We rarely accept requests now

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I go through a culling every couple of months and if we haven’t interacted in a couple of months I remove them - sometimes I remove everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through quite often , people who we’ve met that maybe haven’t made the effort after we have get deleted and people we were planning to meet that haven’t returned messages so get deleted obviously we give a few days but if they’re not interested then fair enough but there’s no point in being friends if the ‘friendship’ isn’t a two way thing

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Alot on my friends list I've actually met thro clubs etc , but before cov I saw them out so no need to speak on here

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

"Am i the only one that people on your friends list, that never contact you

Same as not getting any 'first-messages' the vast majority of my friends on here expect me to make the first move to instigate a conversation...I think its just the way it is on fab...wven folk I've met many times.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I have some on my friends list with whom I've been corresponding for a few years. With a select few, I've even met up socially, and kept in touch.

There are a few others, mainly couples who keep in touch with me monthly. There are others who'll contact me periodically too, maybe every 4-5 months.

But we all have our different lives and with some people, we pass each other intermittently, with others moreso.

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

"None of the people on my friends list talk to me. "

Same here

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Am i the only one that people on your friends list, that never contact you

Have you tried messaging them?

It's a difficult time for many. I do try at times, but I'm sure my friends would attest that I'm not as chatty as usual with everything happening.

Reach out. Better answers than assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I don't accept friends request without having exchanging at least 68 messages prior

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I just like looking at the pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just like looking at their bums"

Same buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged all my friends last month just to check on them all.

They all responded so we’re all still friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a rather strange function, other than to view certain photos, pre meet.

I keep in touch with people via messenger apps, having swapped numbers when we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All been said above I guess. Depends why you friended them in the first place? There's only so much you can discuss unless you actively associate with them off Fab? If they didn't reply,I guess its time to move on?

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