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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to be a trend atm that in order to compliment me, some men are putting other women down.

For example:

"I love your curves, cant stand skin and bones"

"Real women have curves"

"Women should aim to be your shape instead of 6 packs"

This does nothing for me.

Nothing.

You can tell me you like my curves with any additional comments.

Confidence and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Without any*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be a trend atm that in order to compliment me, some men are putting other women down.

For example:

"I love your curves, cant stand skin and bones"

"Real women have curves"

"Women should aim to be your shape instead of 6 packs"

This does nothing for me.

Nothing.

You can tell me you like my curves with any additional comments.

Confidence and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

Thanks "

Yes! Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your curves and tats

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People are beautiful as they are, not because other people are lesser. Not that other people are lesser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed! Blokes making "compliments" like that are often sly and second guessing at what might be your insecurities in an attempt to magnify their "compliment". I think it's kinda lazy and sleazy. Why put anyone down ever really - it's unproductive and mean spirited....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Indeed! Blokes making "compliments" like that are often sly and second guessing at what might be your insecurities in an attempt to magnify their "compliment". I think it's kinda lazy and sleazy. Why put anyone down ever really - it's unproductive and mean spirited.... "

Exactly.

I love my curves and big boobs, but I am sexually attracted to smaller boobs and women.

So putting them down does not boost my confidence, it irritates me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your curves and tats "

Why thank you

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Well I for one love curves more as each year goes by

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"It seems to be a trend atm that in order to compliment me, some men are putting other women down.

For example:

"I love your curves, cant stand skin and bones"

"Real women have curves"

"Women should aim to be your shape instead of 6 packs"

This does nothing for me.

Nothing.

You can tell me you like my curves with any additional comments.

Confidence and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

Thanks "

Well done. If you people have nothing good to say don’t say nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady at work was describing her daughter who’s apparently ‘very overweight’ in her words then said to me ‘ a bit like you’ As if I need it pointing out ffs !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to be a trend atm that in order to compliment me, some men are putting other women down.

For example:

"I love your curves, cant stand skin and bones"

"Real women have curves"

"Women should aim to be your shape instead of 6 packs"

This does nothing for me.

Nothing.

You can tell me you like my curves with any additional comments.

Confidence and beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

Thanks "

So true.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I like your curves and tats

Why thank you "

I second that! Though also love your hair and colours...brightens up my day!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

All women have curves somewhere.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lady at work was describing her daughter who’s apparently ‘very overweight’ in her words then said to me ‘ a bit like you’ As if I need it pointing out ffs ! "

I would have called her out immediately on her unwelcome and rude comment

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Women do it too. My friends daughter has a tee shirt that says "bigger women give better hugs".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth is guys say what they want to get close or to get there end away !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lady at work was describing her daughter who’s apparently ‘very overweight’ in her words then said to me ‘ a bit like you’ As if I need it pointing out ffs !

I would have called her out immediately on her unwelcome and rude comment"

She was clueless to have said anything offensive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women do it too. My friends daughter has a tee shirt that says "bigger women give better hugs". "

Even worse, women bashing women

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The truth is guys say what they want to get close or to get there end away ! "

Yep. It must work sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The truth is guys say what they want to get close or to get there end away !

Yep. It must work sometimes "
it’s no different to a night out on the town really !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The truth is guys say what they want to get close or to get there end away !

Yep. It must work sometimes it’s no different to a night out on the town really !"

I have noticed certain similarities .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women do it too. My friends daughter has a tee shirt that says "bigger women give better hugs".

Even worse, women bashing women"

It's just not necessary.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women do it too. My friends daughter has a tee shirt that says "bigger women give better hugs".

Even worse, women bashing women

It's just not necessary."

Imagine if I turned up wearing a tee shirt that said "slimmer women give better hugs" .

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Youre absolutely gorgeous op! I find some men do this with my age. They put down younger woman and tell me that I look amazing "for my age" Such a backhanded compliment

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

OP, aside from your fabulous curves, I think you have the most amazing eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, aside from your fabulous curves, I think you have the most amazing eyes"

Thanks x

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By *ercedes60Man
over a year ago

waterford


"OP, aside from your fabulous curves, I think you have the most amazing eyes

Thanks x"
fantastic looking woman

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