FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Psychology of stories

Jump to newest
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

How do you view the world? What do the type of stories you find most appealing say about you?

Are you attracted towards art (books, films, stories) where problems get solved by hero figures (not necessarily super heros) and there’s a happy ending?

Or do you prefer stories that acknowledge the complexity and nuance of life. That thing and people are rarely All good or All bad? Do you prefer to hold darkness and light in tension?

Either way what do you think it says about your psychological make up?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I like all different things, but they all seem to have the same undertone.

Justice of sorts.

Whether that's the couple finally getting together and having their happy ever after or the story of a killer coming to light, and you find out they've killed yes, but those who's lives they've taken were child murderers or suchlike.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What an interesting set of questions!

I really dislike tension in a novel, I actively avoid thrillers of anything that's going to involve huge tragedy of reflect terrible historical events. I prefer books that relate the story of a life situation, showing how characters react to different events, what that means for their lives and family situations. I also read a fair bit of history especially around Elizabeth 1st.

I have no idea what this says about me though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"What an interesting set of questions!

I really dislike tension in a novel, I actively avoid thrillers of anything that's going to involve huge tragedy of reflect terrible historical events. I prefer books that relate the story of a life situation, showing how characters react to different events, what that means for their lives and family situations. I also read a fair bit of history especially around Elizabeth 1st.

I have no idea what this says about me though."

I’m glad you thought so!

I recognise that I like a bit of escapism sometimes but ultimately those stories with nice happy endings (no! Not those happy endings!) don’t resonate in the way more complex ones do.

I have a friend that loves neat and tidy plots and I’ve noticed a degree of magical thinking in real life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy twisted imperfect worlds and characters who are flawed yet aspire to recognise who they are.

Mainly factual though weird fiction fascinates me.

Perhaps I find comfort in reading about other flawed types?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it very much depends on how I'm feeling.

Sometimes I'll want to relate to something.

Sometimes I'll want to learn something.

Sometimes I'll just want an escape.

I generally enjoy being made to feel uncomfortable, thought provoking books and documentaries are a favourite.

As for my view of the world? I think we live on a beautiful planet that's being destroyed by assholes. Thankfully a few decent people give me hope that maybe one day people will be better. We have dogs at least

Not sure if I've answered correctly...I'll use this morning's brain fog as an excuse if not

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the stories that relate to real life more than simple fantasy most of the time, albeit I do enjoy some escapism too. Multi-level stories with strong psychological, political, philosophical or spiritual themes that engage me mentally and emotionally are my favourites. I enjoy exploring the profundity of human experience and enjoy listening to and reading Such stories.

I am looking forward to the film release of a powerfully poignant story from the life of one of my biggest philosophical influences, Ken Wilber, later this year or early next. It’s release has been delayed due to Covid-19. I read his book of the same name about 14 years ago and cried buckets. I imagine the film will affect me similarly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy archetypal stories, from good overcoming evil, or the downtrodden rising up and all those basic themes. But I do prefer to see a bit more depth in a story, the characters and plots, not all just clear cut black and white.

I find myself reading a lot of non fiction at the moment though, maybe be classed as pseudo science but interesting none the less

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I like the stories that relate to real life more than simple fantasy most of the time, albeit I do enjoy some escapism too. Multi-level stories with strong psychological, political, philosophical or spiritual themes that engage me mentally and emotionally are my favourites. I enjoy exploring the profundity of human experience and enjoy listening to and reading Such stories.

I am looking forward to the film release of a powerfully poignant story from the life of one of my biggest philosophical influences, Ken Wilber, later this year or early next. It’s release has been delayed due to Covid-19. I read his book of the same name about 14 years ago and cried buckets. I imagine the film will affect me similarly."

I’ll look out for the Ken Wilbur film. I know a little bit about him from reading about Spiral Dynamics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"For me, it very much depends on how I'm feeling.

Sometimes I'll want to relate to something.

Sometimes I'll want to learn something.

Sometimes I'll just want an escape.

I generally enjoy being made to feel uncomfortable, thought provoking books and documentaries are a favourite.

As for my view of the world? I think we live on a beautiful planet that's being destroyed by assholes. Thankfully a few decent people give me hope that maybe one day people will be better. We have dogs at least

Not sure if I've answered correctly...I'll use this morning's brain fog as an excuse if not "

There’s no correct way to answer this!

I agree with you that we live on a beautiful world though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am attracted to a large variety of genre as It tempers my insatiable need for knowledge.

I have one ocd though, I must have closure. I need an ending to move on in anything I do or frustration can overwhelm me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I am attracted to a large variety of genre as It tempers my insatiable need for knowledge.

I have one ocd though, I must have closure. I need an ending to move on in anything I do or frustration can overwhelm me "

So this will drive you nuts?!

Oggy oggy oggy, oi ......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I am attracted to a large variety of genre as It tempers my insatiable need for knowledge.

I have one ocd though, I must have closure. I need an ending to move on in anything I do or frustration can overwhelm me

So this will drive you nuts?!

Oggy oggy oggy, oi ......"

Is that a challenge sir....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I am attracted to a large variety of genre as It tempers my insatiable need for knowledge.

I have one ocd though, I must have closure. I need an ending to move on in anything I do or frustration can overwhelm me

So this will drive you nuts?!

Oggy oggy oggy, oi ......

Is that a challenge sir...."

More of a mind tease!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I am attracted to a large variety of genre as It tempers my insatiable need for knowledge.

I have one ocd though, I must have closure. I need an ending to move on in anything I do or frustration can overwhelm me

So this will drive you nuts?!

Oggy oggy oggy, oi ......

Is that a challenge sir....

More of a mind tease! "

I'll take the mind tease, though a mental wit duel is much more fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the stories that relate to real life more than simple fantasy most of the time, albeit I do enjoy some escapism too. Multi-level stories with strong psychological, political, philosophical or spiritual themes that engage me mentally and emotionally are my favourites. I enjoy exploring the profundity of human experience and enjoy listening to and reading Such stories.

I am looking forward to the film release of a powerfully poignant story from the life of one of my biggest philosophical influences, Ken Wilber, later this year or early next. It’s release has been delayed due to Covid-19. I read his book of the same name about 14 years ago and cried buckets. I imagine the film will affect me similarly.

I’ll look out for the Ken Wilbur film. I know a little bit about him from reading about Spiral Dynamics"

Yes he has integrated it into his Integral Theory over recent years. His work has fascinated me since the mid 90’s. Integrating Spiral Dynamics into it has made it more accessible in my view.

I’ll keep you posted on Grace and Grit as I’m not sure yet how it will be released.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I am attracted to a large variety of genre as It tempers my insatiable need for knowledge.

I have one ocd though, I must have closure. I need an ending to move on in anything I do or frustration can overwhelm me

So this will drive you nuts?!

Oggy oggy oggy, oi ......

Is that a challenge sir....

More of a mind tease!

I'll take the mind tease, though a mental wit duel is much more fun "

A strip mental wit duel and I’m in!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to read a lot of fiction starting with horror and then moving into more 'literary' territory.

In recent years I've shifted from fiction (I even stopped reading books altogether for awhile) to non-fiction (mainly memoir/biography, travel and history).

For me it's not so much the content of the book but the quality of the writing which attracts me.

For fiction I stick mostly to looking at Penguin Modern Classics (currently reading The Monkey Wrench Gang) and European (one of my recent favourites has been The Kingdom by Emmanuel Carrère) writing.

I particularly enjoy stumbling upon a book I've never heard of - so I don't have a 'must read' list.

History fascinates me (not any particular era - once again quality of writing is more important) - as I don't think you can really 'see' an event until many years later and the way it can be interpreted from many different angles.

Similarly I enjoy documentaries now more than movies.

What it all says about me? I'll let others decide at this moment.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m not one for female fiction, romance, etc

I get lost in a thriller, whether it be political, historical or who done it.

Love historical reads, from ancient history through to 1970s learn about their ways, culture, certain moments of time. If a writer can combine the two I’m hooked.

My true passion lies in the mind, why people do what they do, the choices they make, why they behave outside the ‘norm’

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top