FabSwingers.com forum: The discussion before/at a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've often thought about this an never show what's the best thing to do. I often wonder when at a meet and I'm receiving oral am I allowed to cum or do I have to pull out first?... Am I ok to cum over her?... Where am I allowed to cum on her?.. Am I allowed to cum a few times or am I wait and cum only once at the end?

I've asked in the past and people tend to say flow with it and see what happens, but I think what if I get it wrong and do something she doesn't want. Also I feel like bit of a bore for asking and worried I'll come across like that.

Also I'm young and so cum very quick, but I can cum many times (although there is little fluid that comes out the 2nd time and practically nothing 3rd, 4th and 5th time) so because of that the woman need to be slow or stop while I take over and play with her, or make me cum many times. I'm never sure if I should mention that I cum very quick and feel bit embarrassed to that I do

Any advice? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and go with the flow.

I personally would rather talk about likes and dislikes before meeting.

I don't like facials, however, if it happens, I am not going to go off in a huff!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks, I often worry I'll come when she was wanting/expecting it and feel I'd upset her. Is a bit off putting thinking that when your trying to play

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Go with the flow?

Yer either doing something special or you come by the bucketful, either way you should be in demand.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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Suggestions...

Prior to meet and blended into regular chat about meeting:

"I should warn you I sometimes cum quick the first time.... don't worry, I'm not a one hit wonder"

"Do you have any no-goes I should know about?"

During... well most people will go with the flow... but try giving a warning and making a suggestion to see what reaction you get:

"mmm you're gonna have me cumming soon"......... "I'd love to cum on your ----"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you worry about coming to fast why not spend a lot more time on the woman to begin with.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I personally appreciate a discussion pre-meet about what each of us want to get out of the meet. Nothing too mechanical, like 'after 10 mins I want your feet on my shoulders, and after 15 mins I expect you to have started to cum', but just to iron out personal foibles. Most women appreciate vocal feedback (don't just cum and go, so to speak) so have a chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suggestions...

Prior to meet and blended into regular chat about meeting:

"I should warn you I sometimes cum quick the first time.... don't worry, I'm not a one hit wonder"

"Do you have any no-goes I should know about?"

During... well most people will go with the flow... but try giving a warning and making a suggestion to see what reaction you get:

"mmm you're gonna have me cumming soon"......... "I'd love to cum on your ----""

Wow! Thanks that was really helpful never thought of saying it in them terms, doesn't sound like your been a bore, your playing along and been really into it and sexy and informative at the same time

Just curious would it put you off (you been any reader) if the guy had told you that he cum quick the first time but.. but he wasn't a one hit wonder?

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally appreciate a discussion pre-meet about what each of us want to get out of the meet. Nothing too mechanical, like 'after 10 mins I want your feet on my shoulders, and after 15 mins I expect you to have started to cum', but just to iron out personal foibles. Most women appreciate vocal feedback (don't just cum and go, so to speak) so have a chat."

Thanks hun, also good advice which I do like the idea of

your a star.

I do need to work on my vocal feedback more I think, and knowing how to do it well... I always seek to perfect

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

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"Suggestions...

Prior to meet and blended into regular chat about meeting:

"I should warn you I sometimes cum quick the first time.... don't worry, I'm not a one hit wonder"

"Do you have any no-goes I should know about?"

During... well most people will go with the flow... but try giving a warning and making a suggestion to see what reaction you get:

"mmm you're gonna have me cumming soon"......... "I'd love to cum on your ----""

you can't go wrong with the advice posted above

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Just curious would it put you off (you been any reader) if the guy had told you that he cum quick the first time but.. but he wasn't a one hit wonder?

Thanks!"

Much prefer that to someone who grinds away for 2 hours to show off his endurance. I'm getting on a bit - me hips ache!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious would it put you off (you been any reader) if the guy had told you that he cum quick the first time but.. but he wasn't a one hit wonder?

Thanks!

Much prefer that to someone who grinds away for 2 hours to show off his endurance. I'm getting on a bit - me hips ache!"

Haha bless ya

you certainly ain't looking old.. that would be a problem with me ha I can assure you. You'd have many, but short sessions and lots of play inbetween

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