FabSwingers.com forum: Does someone desiring you turn you on

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now bear with me a minute. You're attracted to someone but they ignore you, do you try harder or say to hell with it.

However when you see someone you like and they also desire you too, doesn't it make you want them even more.

Think I'm falling for someone on fab and the fact she desires me alot is making me like her even more x lol (sighs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual attraction makes everything so much better and more fun

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Now bear with me a minute. You're attracted to someone but they ignore you, do you try harder or say to hell with it.

However when you see someone you like and they also desire you too, doesn't it make you want them even more.

Think I'm falling for someone on fab and the fact she desires me alot is making me like her even more x lol (sighs)"

Can you please repeat the question?

I follow the last part - enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, just need to find someone to desire me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

There is nothing sexier than knowing you fancy someone as much as they fancy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now bear with me a minute. You're attracted to someone but they ignore you, do you try harder or say to hell with it.

However when you see someone you like and they also desire you too, doesn't it make you want them even more.

Think I'm falling for someone on fab and the fact she desires me alot is making me like her even more x lol (sighs)"

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Definitely. Only way it works for me. If someone doesn’t want me I sure as hell won’t want them. That’s why I’ve never understood the stalker/obsession thing.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yes! Definitely. Only way it works for me. If someone doesn’t want me I sure as hell won’t want them. That’s why I’ve never understood the stalker/obsession thing. "

Because you think your stalking will eventually wear me down?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Now bear with me a minute. You're attracted to someone but they ignore you, do you try harder or say to hell with it.

However when you see someone you like and they also desire you too, doesn't it make you want them even more.

Think I'm falling for someone on fab and the fact she desires me alot is making me like her even more x lol (sighs)"

Good on you sir - I hope it goes well

Mutual desire and the subsequent sexual chemistry that derives from it is indeed an exquisite mix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! Definitely. Only way it works for me. If someone doesn’t want me I sure as hell won’t want them. That’s why I’ve never understood the stalker/obsession thing.

Because you think your stalking will eventually wear me down?

Erm Adam I think you have it the wrong way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now bear with me a minute. You're attracted to someone but they ignore you, do you try harder or say to hell with it.

However when you see someone you like and they also desire you too, doesn't it make you want them even more.

Think I'm falling for someone on fab and the fact she desires me alot is making me like her even more x lol (sighs)

Good on you sir - I hope it goes well

Mutual desire and the subsequent sexual chemistry that derives from it is indeed an exquisite mix!

Actually you’re my exception

. I’ll get you one day!!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yes! Definitely. Only way it works for me. If someone doesn’t want me I sure as hell won’t want them. That’s why I’ve never understood the stalker/obsession thing.

Because you think your stalking will eventually wear me down?

Erm Adam I think you have it the wrong way round

Wait, what?

So that’s why I have these binoculars!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Yes, massively!!!! I turn on so much that I sometimes lost myself in lust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happens I'll let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it happens I'll let you know."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I desire them too then yes, otherwise no.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes and when you know you know, nothing better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely and it brings out the filthier side of us to make it even hotter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord yes. Knowing I’m desired is the main aphrodisiac for me these days. Discovering someone who does and the feeling to be entirely mutual is the challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desire is a powerful emotion, nothing better than craving someone badly. I love to be craved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it when you know his heart is racing as much as yours..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you falling in love OP?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

They ignore me I walk away

They give me the want me look and I'm pouncing

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes! It's when you look into their eyes and can see the lust that you know they can see in yours

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"Yes! It's when you look into their eyes and can see the lust that you know they can see in yours

exactly! what a wonderful feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely yes yes yes !

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Ding ding dong

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Oh ahhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 people like eachother. What’s the point of the thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! Definitely. Only way it works for me. If someone doesn’t want me I sure as hell won’t want them. That’s why I’ve never understood the stalker/obsession thing. "

I feel like this too. If they aren't interested I just move on as it's a waste of time obsessing over them. Maybe if I was single it would be different.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I try for so long before I get the message they are not interested then I back off. So much better if the feeling is mutual.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

It can be a bit embarrassing if the feelings are not returned. Always flattered to know i have admirer but sometimes it becomes uncomfortable.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely, when I feel desired and wanted I can’t get enough of him and it makes my drive go insane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mutual attraction makes everything so much better and more fun

Yes this! ????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unrequited lust is frustrating but the talking is wonderful. If they didnt communicate then I'd say to hell with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be mutual but yes it feels lovely to be desired.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Reciprocal desire is fucking hot. I don't understand playing hard to get at all, or acting like you're not interested (though I am guilty of that). Just say you're into someone & have incredible sex, for fuck's sake.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

That is a great situation to be in. I would say cherish that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes! If there is no attraction it's pointless, if I want you but you don't want me I feel sad, if you want me but I don't want you I feel bad so both wanting each other is bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the car she drives but more importantly how she drives it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the car she drives but more importantly how she drives it "

I’m a good driver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely, mutual desire drives me wild x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fine balance.....

If it's great it's great, if it's ok and they like you more it less it can be off-putting.....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Absolutely! Especially when getting together is like throwing two starving predators a steak.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i like them and they in turn desire me....then hell yeah

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Absolutely! Especially when getting together is like throwing two starving predators a steak. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s reciprocated, absolutely. Nothing quite like that sizzling tension and the urge to jump on each other as soon as you lay eyes on them

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Mutual desire is a huge turn on.

However if someone comes on to strong, I run a mile. Likewise if I get a vibe they aren’t interested, why would you waste your time

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Im starting to feel the same way.... even more so after our kiss last night.... she messaged me today saying just how she feels about me and I also have the same feelings (last night was not the first time we have met either.... its only stupid Rona that has stopped us from being together, but the messages throughout has helped)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the car she drives but more importantly how she drives it "
Mercedes are good and spacious

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It's a big fat yes from me!

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By *meliaeWoman
over a year ago

Chester

If they’re not interested, I’m not chasing them. If they change their mind then I’m still not going there.

In my opinion the best sex comes when you’re crazy into one another (be that just physical appearance or personality too). Why would someone want anything less?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! Especially when getting together is like throwing two starving predators a steak. "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it feels mutual it’s the most magical thing in the world!! Connection is key! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual respect and aprication is jolly delish, especially if there is a splendid spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone desiring me definitely turns me on like mad, but I also would need to desire them in return for it to work.

OP, you're a babe!!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wonderful high

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone desiring me definitely turns me on like mad, but I also would need to desire them in return for it to work.

OP, you're a babe!!

Mrs x "

Aww thanks you're sweet, you're perfection both face and body x #crushingonyou

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ofcourse it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone desiring me definitely turns me on like mad, but I also would need to desire them in return for it to work.

OP, you're a babe!!

Mrs x

Aww thanks you're sweet, you're perfection both face and body x #crushingonyou"

Boy, you need to get your sexy ass over to Ireland!

There's mutual desire for ya! Lol. Mrs x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

If I’m desired by someone I don’t desire it doesn’t make me desire them. But if I’m desired by someone that I desire too it makes me desire them even more. I think that’s pretty standard.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Only if I desire them back

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Oh yes

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We definitely feel like that, it’s fantastic when we make a connection with a new couple or lovely lady and know that the feeling is mutual

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Of course. It's flattering, and can be quite intoxicating, too.

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