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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

verification! I know its been done before but I remain curious. Has ANYBODY EVER given a bad verification?

I have seen lots of verifications on people's profiles where they have met and the one person describes the meeting as a great experience and there's none back? Bit like a black hole?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Problem is that you cannot revoke one, so you may have thought it was great, the other party thought it was questionable, so don't leave one

BTW what happened to mine

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Problem is that you cannot revoke one, so you may have thought it was great, the other party thought it was questionable, so don't leave one

BTW what happened to mine

True - I was just curious about whether anybody ever had the balls to give a bad one?

And re yours - we wanted to give you one from our joint profile but it got too long, got complicated

Could we do veri pics instead next time?;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have enjoyed a meet, I will always verify them.

I don't always get them back but have gone on to meet some people several times more despite the lack of a veri from them.

Some people don't verify, some people are lazy, some people aren't good with words and some people want you all to themselves.

I have someone say that because I use the forums regularly and (at the time) displayed my veri's that they wouldn't verify me as the chances are that people would see it !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You have the opton of people either seeing or no seening the.

Not through this site but i did one guy a reallly bad one. but it worked never heard from him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged a gang bang recently and the woman called off 2 hours before leaving 7 guys en route to a big disappointment. , she gave 3 different versions to people as to why she called off which were all untrue so I sent her a rotten verification just to make a point. The thing is that it's up,to the person verified if they want to display it so she will have it hidden forever obviously, therefore a bad verification doesn't mean squat as nobody will ever see it

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"If I have enjoyed a meet, I will always verify them.

I don't always get them back but have gone on to meet some people several times more despite the lack of a veri from them.

Some people don't verify, some people are lazy, some people aren't good with words and some people want you all to themselves.

I have someone say that because I use the forums regularly and (at the time) displayed my veri's that they wouldn't verify me as the chances are that people would see it !"

Yeah I can see where you are coming from, they would be protecting their/ your confidentiality I guess?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"You have the opton of people either seeing or no seening the.

Not through this site but i did one guy a reallly bad one. but it worked never heard from him again

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Thats what I call successful lol

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I arranged a gang bang recently and the woman called off 2 hours before leaving 7 guys en route to a big disappointment. , she gave 3 different versions to people as to why she called off which were all untrue so I sent her a rotten verification just to make a point. The thing is that it's up,to the person verified if they want to display it so she will have it hidden forever obviously, therefore a bad verification doesn't mean squat as nobody will ever see it

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Thats really bad, the fact different people had different stories

I know people would not display a bad verification so I was curious if anybody, knowing that, had nonetheless given a bad one.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Current tally stands at :

Sent 0 Received 4

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Current tally stands at :

Sent 0 Received 4

...til I give you one -

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Every time I get a new one they leave the bloody site. Dunno what I do to em lol

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Every time I get a new one they leave the bloody site. Dunno what I do to em lol"
Maybe cos they know they wont find anybody who is better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Peachy, left a bad one for a timewaster & he then left me a bad one which I displayed on my single profile. It was a topic of conversation & every now & again I display it lol xxx

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"Every time I get a new one they leave the bloody site. Dunno what I do to em lol"

Lol I get that, most of mine have done a runner.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I, Peachy, left a bad one for a timewaster & he then left me a bad one which I displayed on my single profile. It was a topic of conversation & every now & again I display it lol xxx"

I am so curious now as you may well gather.... please let me know when you ll display it next?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Every time I get a new one they leave the bloody site. Dunno what I do to em lol

Lol I get that, most of mine have done a runner.

MAybe you too have just shown them too good a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I, Peachy, left a bad one for a timewaster & he then left me a bad one which I displayed on my single profile. It was a topic of conversation & every now & again I display it lol xxx

I am so curious now as you may well gather.... please let me know when you ll display it next?

Gimme 5 & Ill log in & show it, peachyboo xxx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Every time I get a new one they leave the bloody site. Dunno what I do to em lolMaybe cos they know they wont find anybody who is better?

Ha ha good thinking I will keep telling myself that

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By *rs Robinson1Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row

thought this post was gona say Very Very Very nice man lol

as in the AA ad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would there be any point in giving a bad one as the party in question has the option to display or not. i mean i am chatting to someone just now who had a meet the other day and she said it was worst ever so if she put that he would just nt display, no one need ever know

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I, Peachy, left a bad one for a timewaster & he then left me a bad one which I displayed on my single profile. It was a topic of conversation & every now & again I display it lol xxx

I am so curious now as you may well gather.... please let me know when you ll display it next?

Gimme 5 & Ill log in & show it, peachyboo xxx"
Yes please xxx

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"Every time I get a new one they leave the bloody site. Dunno what I do to em lol

Lol I get that, most of mine have done a runner.

MAybe you too have just shown them too good a time

Yes maybe, but then if we show off all our veri's we get called serial shaggers, so it's best if a few leave.

But for gods sake keep it quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never given a bad verification i cant see the point they wouldnt show it would they? if i have met someone and the meet wasnt great for whatever reason i just wouldnt send a verification, to be honest i never send them out first anyway i only verifiy someone if they send me one first out of politness i guess, so long as i liked them

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"ive never given a bad verification i cant see the point they wouldnt show it would they? if i have met someone and the meet wasnt great for whatever reason i just wouldnt send a verification, to be honest i never send them out first anyway i only verifiy someone if they send me one first out of politness i guess, so long as i liked them"
I have personally never given a bad one - not had any really bad meets anyway; some were less exciting than others but nothing really bad. Also I would nt expect anybody to publish a bad verification anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it."
Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back. "

when you got mud on your feet no one invites you round.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back.

when you got mud on your feet no one invites you round."

Got to get those heels cleaned up

Joke aside, you are totally right. We never look back except to our mates whom we meet regularly.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Problem is that you cannot revoke one, so you may have thought it was great, the other party thought it was questionable, so don't leave one

BTW what happened to mine

We gave you one in 2010 ,has it really been that long ?

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back.

when you got mud on your feet no one invites you round."

That reminds me of a mate years ago who liked his sweetheart to wear her kinky boots in bed, until the day she'd trod in something and climbed in.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back.

when you got mud on your feet no one invites you round.

Got to get those heels cleaned up

Joke aside, you are totally right. We never look back except to our mates whom we meet regularly.

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onward then, into the unknown, and who knows that dreadfully rude and insulting verification may be just around the corner, or then again it may just be another non verfication meet for me. '-) '-)

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back.

when you got mud on your feet no one invites you round.

That reminds me of a mate years ago who liked his sweetheart to wear her kinky boots in bed, until the day she'd trod in something and climbed in.

Killed the moment a bit I d think? Funny though

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"i think the only bad one is when someone doesnt leave you one.

then you just move on and forget about it.Very true - and isnt that what the scene is all about? Moving on, not looking back.

when you got mud on your feet no one invites you round.

Got to get those heels cleaned up

Joke aside, you are totally right. We never look back except to our mates whom we meet regularly.

onward then, into the unknown, and who knows that dreadfully rude and insulting verification may be just around the corner, or then again it may just be another non verfication meet for me. '-) '-)

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Verifications are like a piece of an overall bigger puzzle, me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would never give a bad one.

only mention their good points, not the bad ones.

if i met a man who was not nice at all. then i wouldnt leave one.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Obviously, the ones who didn't turn up don't get verified, as I still don't know if they are real!

The ones that do turn up but are 20 years older and 200 lbs larger than their profile pics don't get one, because I can't verify them as being what their profile states they are.

The one's that do turn up and are what thir profile says they are usually get one, but they can range from 'nice guy' to a glowing description, depending on how good the meet went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should there possibly be an option where the person who sent the verification be able to also take it back from that person ? Kind of like where you can fab or unfab a pic.

I have recently found out a previous meet (no names) wasnt actually single and defo wouldnt have met or verified if i had known xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should there possibly be an option where the person who sent the verification be able to also take it back from that person ? Kind of like where you can fab or unfab a pic.

I have recently found out a previous meet (no names) wasnt actually single and defo wouldnt have met or verified if i had known xx "

I heard a rumour that if you block someone you've met your veri dissapears! if anyone can verify this (probably wrong choice of word! lol) feel free!

Personally I've always thought a veri should just indicate someone's genuine and nice company - I don't want to know the gory details - and don't really want anyone knowing the ins and outs of my meets either!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I'd like to remove a verification I've given to another member

(New, Sept 2010) If you block a user, verifications you have left will no longer show on their profile and similarly verifications they have left you will not show on yours. If you remove the block then the verifications will show again. Removing a verification will not remove a user's "verified tick", it only stops the verification text showing on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to remove a verification I've given to another member

Thanks Rugby!

Guess some rumours you hear on here are true then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"verification! I know its been done before but I remain curious. Has ANYBODY EVER given a bad verification?

I have seen lots of verifications on people's profiles where they have met and the one person describes the meeting as a great experience and there's none back? Bit like a black hole?

Yes i gave someone an horrendous one and he remembers it well....oh how we laugh about it......

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"verification! I know its been done before but I remain curious. Has ANYBODY EVER given a bad verification?

I have seen lots of verifications on people's profiles where they have met and the one person describes the meeting as a great experience and there's none back? Bit like a black hole?

Yes i gave someone an horrendous one and he remembers it well....oh how we laugh about it......

The only trouble with this system is that it allows people whether they want to show the verification's or not, thus not allowing the bad ones to be shown.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"verification! I know its been done before but I remain curious. Has ANYBODY EVER given a bad verification?

I have seen lots of verifications on people's profiles where they have met and the one person describes the meeting as a great experience and there's none back? Bit like a black hole?

Yes i gave someone an horrendous one and he remembers it well....oh how we laugh about it......

The only trouble with this system is that it allows people whether they want to show the verification's or not, thus not allowing the bad ones to be shown."
But if there wasnt a choice anyone could verify anyone else and that veri would show...so i could send you one and say....bloody timewaster kept me waiting ages and didnt turn up....etc.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As long as it proves that it's a woman, not a bloke pretending to be one....

Oh, hang on a minute, I'm bi so I really couldn't give a monkey's

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"As long as it proves that it's a woman, not a bloke pretending to be one....

Oh, hang on a minute, I'm bi so I really couldn't give a monkey's

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a monkeys what?

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Dont verify every meet, same as some gals dont verify every meet. Sometimes meets are so amazing and memorable ya just dont wanna share the experience with anyone else, you just keep them between the parties involved and just smile

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