FabSwingers.com forum: Romantic dinner dates

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fab guys,

This is inspiration from another thread.

I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.

I’m wishing to see if any are?

Social distancing expected.

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Bhubaysi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take a lady on a dinner date or go to bowling alley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picnic perhaps.....

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

I'd love to take some of my fab friends out to a romantic dinner

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Definately go for dinner and a drink ,see if we click ,then see how things go ,fabs version of first dates,most of us have done the naked attraction bit lol

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

"Fab guys,

This is inspiration from another thread.

I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.

I’m wishing to see if any are?

Social distancing expected.

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Bhubaysi

Evening Bhubaysi

I'd love to meet with you and take you for a Romantic Meal...

Andy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not. A dinner yes but could be anywhere - McDonalds, Pizza Express or Wagamamas - or just a drink.

Not romantic though as I have no truck with romance. I'm all about the casual.

I won't even buy flowers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't want a romantic dinner with a guy from fab. No problem if people do want that but its not for me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I've done plenty of dinner dates in my time. Women and food. What's not to like? Luke

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve had a couple of dinner dates from fab, it’s a lovely way to spend an evening

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I’ve had a couple of dinner dates from fab, it’s a lovely way to spend an evening "
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We've had loads of dinner dates with our swinging partners, it's great fun. We only do romance with each other though.

I personally think that people need to make a clear distinction between swinging and dating/romance because it can lead to misunderstanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like food so I'm in

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've had a number of pleasant dinner dates in a nice setting with people from here.

A "romantic" one i'd only do with one person.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I quite often for for dinner with guys I meet. Whether or not it's romantic is a different thing but we feed and then we fuck

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s risky for a first meet - if things go badly you don’t want to wait until the dessert menu comes around before saying it’s time to leave.

A drink is usually better for a first meet but for someone that I know, a meal is an enjoyable evening

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Fab guys,

This is inspiration from another thread.

I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.

I’m wishing to see if any are?

Social distancing expected.

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Bhubaysi

oooo pick me pick me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I wouldn't want a romantic dinner with a guy from fab. No problem if people do want that but its not for me"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I often do romantic dinners, but my partners are strictly picked to do it. Having control over their emotions and a very open communication friendship with me is imperative to being able to avoid unwanted drama.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

To me it feels more relaxed and natural to go for a drinks social meet, then dinner dates to get to know my lover. plus i love food and really really miss going to restaurants since lockdown started

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Fab guys,

This is inspiration from another thread.

I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.

I’m wishing to see if any are?

Social distancing expected.

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Bhubaysi

I love the buzz of playing the couple in public with a married woman, and have shared many a lunch dates

I would happily take a Fab lady out for dinner too, especially if her cuck hubby was fully aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab guys,

This is inspiration from another thread.

I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.

I’m wishing to see if any are?

Social distancing expected.

Reply within.

Bhubaysi

I am into bdsm which is more classy and you normally meet for dinner on first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea we’re both in agreement on that. Why wouldn’t a guy do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple would happily take a lady out to dinner.

It shouldn't be expected though, and the men shouldn't get a rough time if they answer no

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

On the rare occasion I meet someone new from fab I generally prefer informal coffee/drinks socials initially, if we get along & meet again then I'm happy to do dinner but definitely not looking for the romantic element.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've had a number of pleasant dinner dates in a nice setting with people from here.

A "romantic" one i'd only do with one person."

Awww Chillout, there's someone you'd do a romantic dinner date with?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Out of interest what's the difference between a romantic dinner date and a dinner date where you're sizing up sexual compatibility?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I think the key word here is romantic. I've been out for dinner with a few people from here, but I'd only associate the word romantic with one of those people, the rest have been just friendly and social as part of a meet.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Out of interest what's the difference between a romantic dinner date and a dinner date where you're sizing up sexual compatibility?"

Personally speaking, the former I'd be far more affectionate, "loving" and generally sweeter. There would still be the flirtation of the first but the romantic wouldn't be so much about the sexual chemistry/tension; obviously I'd hope that would still be there but the main atmosphere is a lot different. Like the posters above, I've been on many dinner dates and they've been fantastic but there's only one I'd go on a romantic dinner date with (complete with PDAs aplenty

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Out of interest what's the difference between a romantic dinner date and a dinner date where you're sizing up sexual compatibility?"

I think romance is eye of the beholder.. for me romantic date is the location type of food and the conversation we share.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've had a number of pleasant dinner dates in a nice setting with people from here.

A "romantic" one i'd only do with one person.

Awww Chillout, there's someone you'd do a romantic dinner date with?

There is.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.

I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..

But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.

But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted. "

Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.

But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.

Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations. "

but if you already met and know you like eachother and met on fab, then there shouldn't be any confusion.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.

But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.

Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.

but if you already met and know you like eachother and met on fab, then there shouldn't be any confusion. "

I agree... I deffo wouldn't meet first time for romantic meal.. it would be something that has developed and there is a mutual understanding. If I were Taking someone out romantically it would have been discussed beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very often get men saying they want to wine and dine me.....not something i want till i know someone well enough( i know im strange)

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.

But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.

Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.

The same could be said for the people that think she/he went for a social with me.. that entitles me. I've had evenings out at a pub or seeing a band - got on great but didn't want to take it further and had the same thrown at me expecting to end up in bed. Sometimes people just feel entitled. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I have ever been truly romanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer cooking a meal at my place or hers. First date me and Mrs had I cooked a steak dinner with garlic mashed potato's, red wine sauce and dessert

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.

But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.

Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.

but if you already met and know you like eachother and met on fab, then there shouldn't be any confusion. "

People lie

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