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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We know that many of you like the other ladies, and very much want to get in to their pants as much as the next guy does. My question is this: how does your flirting with another woman differ to with a guy, if it does at all?

Genuine question but normal lounge silliness will also be accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not good at flirting with women. I need some tips to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not good at flirting with women. I need some tips to be honest!"

Pull up a pew then, I'll lend you a notepad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder this too because you so often read they never get any interest from other ladies in their statuses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder this too because you so often read they never get any interest from other ladies in their statuses."

Education for the masses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder this too because you so often read they never get any interest from other ladies in their statuses."

I rarely do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the forum my flirting doesn't change but in private it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the forum my flirting doesn't change but in private it does. "

In what way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m useless, a guy no problem, can do that from a different postcode. Put me in front of a woman I like though and it all goes to jelly.

Are we flirting? are we being friendly? is she interested or just being nice? Even in a club most of the time hubby is the one who speaks to girls I like initially, and is normally the one who points out that short of her just jumping straight on my face I’m missing some pretty obvious signs!

Love it when naughtiness is established though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same either way. I'll strike up conversation about something random. I think the point can get lost sometimes when they assume it's just girly chat. I reckon "FAF?(NO SERIOUSLY!)" would just be easier!

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I’m not good at flirting with women. I need some tips to be honest!"

Same!

I'm completely satisfied with my hunk of a man so wouldn't flirt with blokes on here in any case... I'm in it for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs"

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs"

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I'm crap at flirting. Male or female I just cant pull it off

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m terrible nor do I know when one is flirting with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs... "

I definitely get distracted by boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs "

Told ya...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs... "

Oh I’m one of them, but I think women like to get to know other women on a different kind of level. I suppose build a friendship too, which makes the flirting entirely different. That’s not to say that we don’t do it with men too, but the way you approach things are definitely very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men jump straight to the point whereas we ladies like to build up to it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs "

Me too!! Very!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you send each other fanny pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs

Me too!! Very!"

Maybe I should amend that to women get sidetracked by boobs but can still hold it together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs

Me too!! Very!"

That's not news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send each other fanny pics "

. More likely to send it to a woman than a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not good at flirting with women. I need some tips to be honest!"

Will you accept cake as a tip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs

Me too!! Very!

Maybe I should amend that to women get sidetracked by boobs but can still hold it together "

Well you are supposed to be better at multitasking than us lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m useless, a guy no problem, can do that from a different postcode. Put me in front of a woman I like though and it all goes to jelly.

Are we flirting? are we being friendly? is she interested or just being nice? Even in a club most of the time hubby is the one who speaks to girls I like initially, and is normally the one who points out that short of her just jumping straight on my face I’m missing some pretty obvious signs!

Love it when naughtiness is established though "

This, I can get quite shy when it comes to flirting with women. Less so in person which is weird, but I think tone comes across better than online, so it's easier to tell if she's actually interested.

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By *rumpet and ScouseCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

I'm usless at flirting with women I always think they wouldn't be interested yes its crumpet here the female half lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send each other fanny pics

. More likely to send it to a woman than a man "

With a cucumber inside? Yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs

Me too!! Very!

That's not news "

Haha. I am totally obsessed with boobs. I think I need help! Always have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely distracted by boobs ! I think I take a more gentle approach to flirting with women , plus we can bond over shoes and make up

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Do you send each other fanny pics "

do you I haven’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send each other fanny pics

. More likely to send it to a woman than a man

With a cucumber inside? Yummy "

Sometimes a whole salad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m useless, a guy no problem, can do that from a different postcode. Put me in front of a woman I like though and it all goes to jelly.

Are we flirting? are we being friendly? is she interested or just being nice? Even in a club most of the time hubby is the one who speaks to girls I like initially, and is normally the one who points out that short of her just jumping straight on my face I’m missing some pretty obvious signs!

Love it when naughtiness is established though "

So funny i think i am the same haha... In my head I think i would do much better in a club situation, where the flirting takes place in person, but in reality I'm rubbish at picking up the signs

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

^ That’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send each other fanny pics

do you I haven’t "

Nora does, and she once had a full size aubergine shoved inside!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Do you send each other fanny pics

do you I haven’t

Nora does, and she once had a full size aubergine shoved inside!"

Ohh I’d love to see that

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Basically have a chat, see if there is any vibe between us...hopefully if there is, it with just unfolds naturally. Same as with a guy...to start off with at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send each other fanny pics

do you I haven’t "

C'mon, stop playing bashfull... You sent me the wall of

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Do you send each other fanny pics

do you I haven’t

C'mon, stop playing bashfull... You sent me the wall of "

Ohh I did too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same either way. I'll strike up conversation about something random. I think the point can get lost sometimes when they assume it's just girly chat. I reckon "FAF?(NO SERIOUSLY!)" would just be easier! "

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have no clue how to flirt with women and don't like to assume that they want to be flirted with by me either.

I also would have no clue if a woman was flirting with me or just giving a friendly compliment as we do that to each other a lot. Also on here there is a lot of flirty banter between women which doesn't mean they are actually interested Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

I definitely get distracted by boobs

Me too!! Very!

Maybe I should amend that to women get sidetracked by boobs but can still hold it together "

Maybe, just, a little bit....oh boobs.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know that many of you like the other ladies, and very much want to get in to their pants as much as the next guy does. My question is this: how does your flirting with another woman differ to with a guy, if it does at all?

Genuine question but normal lounge silliness will also be accepted "

They just send them a picture of their minge and say, "fancy scissoring this"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know that many of you like the other ladies, and very much want to get in to their pants as much as the next guy does. My question is this: how does your flirting with another woman differ to with a guy, if it does at all?

Genuine question but normal lounge silliness will also be accepted

They just send them a picture of their minge and say, "fancy scissoring this""

Ooooh scissoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send each other fanny pics

do you I haven’t

Nora does, and she once had a full size aubergine shoved inside!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We know that many of you like the other ladies, and very much want to get in to their pants as much as the next guy does. My question is this: how does your flirting with another woman differ to with a guy, if it does at all?

Genuine question but normal lounge silliness will also be accepted

They just send them a picture of their minge and say, "fancy scissoring this""

Is this the female equivalent if a dick pic and "FAF?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We know that many of you like the other ladies, and very much want to get in to their pants as much as the next guy does. My question is this: how does your flirting with another woman differ to with a guy, if it does at all?

Genuine question but normal lounge silliness will also be accepted

They just send them a picture of their minge and say, "fancy scissoring this"

Is this the female equivalent if a dick pic and "FAF?" "

Yeeup

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ?? "

No but I’ve had a few with Lynx Cans in their bums !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ?? "

Of course not, we use pretty, shiny things instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

No but I’ve had a few with Lynx Cans in their bums !"

Sorry

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ?? "

I prefer if they use carrots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I prefer if they use carrots "

That's more of a Christmas thing surely?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ?? "

I may try this a new tactic

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

No but I’ve had a few with Lynx Cans in their bums !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

No but I’ve had a few with Lynx Cans in their bums !

Sorry "

Don’t be, I had a wank over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I prefer if they use carrots

That's more of a Christmas thing surely? "

I prefer to ping sparkly baubles out of mine at Christmas

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I prefer if they use carrots

That's more of a Christmas thing surely? "

No that’s parsnips

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

Of course not, we use pretty, shiny things instead "

Silver remotes I see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I prefer if they use carrots

That's more of a Christmas thing surely?

I prefer to ping sparkly baubles out of mine at Christmas "

Can't wait

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I prefer if they use carrots "

Ah I see , duly noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I prefer if they use carrots

That's more of a Christmas thing surely?

No that’s parsnips "

I just spat my coffee out!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Question is ...

Do women get unsolicited fanjina pics from other women with Sky Remotes shoved up there for depth purposes ??

I may try this a new tactic "

Do it

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues"

There's another thread just for you then

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

There's another thread just for you then "

Loving your PSA!

I need more ladies on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

There's another thread just for you then

Loving your PSA!

I need more ladies on my friends list "

It seems to be a reoccurring theme so I thought I'd give you lot a not so gentle nudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

There's another thread just for you then

Loving your PSA!

I need more ladies on my friends list

It seems to be a reoccurring theme so I thought I'd give you lot a not so gentle nudge "

Just nudge me face first in to boobs please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

There's another thread just for you then

Loving your PSA!

I need more ladies on my friends list

It seems to be a reoccurring theme so I thought I'd give you lot a not so gentle nudge

Just nudge me face first in to boobs please "

I'm sure I can find a some lovely boobs to throw you at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

There's another thread just for you then

Loving your PSA!

I need more ladies on my friends list

It seems to be a reoccurring theme so I thought I'd give you lot a not so gentle nudge

Just nudge me face first in to boobs please

I'm sure I can find a some lovely boobs to throw you at"

We need a drooling emoji

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very confident with men. I don't have a single clue with women though, I go quite shy and I'm pants at picking up clues

There's another thread just for you then

Loving your PSA!

I need more ladies on my friends list

It seems to be a reoccurring theme so I thought I'd give you lot a not so gentle nudge

Just nudge me face first in to boobs please

I'm sure I can find a some lovely boobs to throw you at

We need a drooling emoji "

Yes! I've just been using this one instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too "

Ladies! Would anyone mind plain dirty messages from another sexy lady? Asking for a mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included. "

Change it back! Never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too

Ladies! Would anyone mind plain dirty messages from another sexy lady? Asking for a mate "

. Are you thinking of setting up a fake profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too "

Yeah I can be like this too sometimes. Today I'm in pure filth mode, I'll apologise is advance

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too

Yeah I can be like this too sometimes. Today I'm in pure filth mode, I'll apologise is advance "

Don't you dare apologize.

(Squeezes her bum)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t flirt with anyone

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside


"I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too

Yeah I can be like this too sometimes. Today I'm in pure filth mode, I'll apologise is advance "

I have spent ages writing out a message in the past, getting it just right and then bam! No reply! The lady vanishes. Seems to be my problem is Too much dirt, not enough flirt!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I am better at flirting with women in real life than on line. Although I am quite shy to start with, I soon find my stride. I find it hard online as I struggle to word messages to come across as flirty and not just plain dirty

Ps. I get distracted by boobs too

Yeah I can be like this too sometimes. Today I'm in pure filth mode, I'll apologise is advance

I have spent ages writing out a message in the past, getting it just right and then bam! No reply! The lady vanishes. Seems to be my problem is Too much dirt, not enough flirt! "

If i became a lesbian would you write me a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included. "

Ooo we have matching names

I think it is easier to flirt with girls in person... I think i am quite spontaneous too, so more likely to play in a club or a night out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included.

Ooo we have matching names

I think it is easier to flirt with girls in person... I think i am quite spontaneous too, so more likely to play in a club or a night out "

Must be fate...

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over a year ago

I think the thing I struggle the most with is when to take lead on the flirting or when to let them

Also how do you get physical with them lol like my anxiety goes all over the place lol with guys you can read them like a book

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I think the thing I struggle the most with is when to take lead on the flirting or when to let them

Also how do you get physical with them lol like my anxiety goes all over the place lol with guys you can read them like a book"

Some of us guys are more like comics. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ivy

Although I find it harder to say "not my type" to ladies aswell as pick up on flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included.

Ooo we have matching names

I think it is easier to flirt with girls in person... I think i am quite spontaneous too, so more likely to play in a club or a night out

Must be fate... "

I think i frightened her away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ivy

Although I find it harder to say "not my type" to ladies aswell as pick up on flirting "

Your name goes in the other ladies thread Ivy I'm sure some ladies in there will help you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ivy

Although I find it harder to say "not my type" to ladies aswell as pick up on flirting

Your name goes in the other ladies thread Ivy I'm sure some ladies in there will help you out "

Ooh my bad, i came out then went back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included.

Ooo we have matching names

I think it is easier to flirt with girls in person... I think i am quite spontaneous too, so more likely to play in a club or a night out

Must be fate...

I think i frightened her away "

I did say I was shit with women didn't I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its harder on here than it is in person. I find convos with women on here always fizzles out for me unfortunately which is why I have changed my looking for from couples to just men sadly. Different in clubs though, I find women much more flirty in clubs, myself included.

Ooo we have matching names

I think it is easier to flirt with girls in person... I think i am quite spontaneous too, so more likely to play in a club or a night out

Must be fate...

I think i frightened her away

I did say I was shit with women didn't I "

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I’m useless, a guy no problem, can do that from a different postcode. Put me in front of a woman I like though and it all goes to jelly.

Are we flirting? are we being friendly? is she interested or just being nice? Even in a club most of the time hubby is the one who speaks to girls I like initially, and is normally the one who points out that short of her just jumping straight on my face I’m missing some pretty obvious signs!

Love it when naughtiness is established though "

I can imagine it’s a nightmare to puzzle through.

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Women are so much harder to flirt with than men. Mainly because we don’t get sidetracked by boobs

I've heard this too, in what way? Although I know a few women who definitely get distracted by boobs...

Oh I’m one of them, but I think women like to get to know other women on a different kind of level. I suppose build a friendship too, which makes the flirting entirely different. That’s not to say that we don’t do it with men too, but the way you approach things are definitely very different"

Yeah I get that. It’s more of a long game where u end up getting to know the woman first and build your bond from there.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I wonder this too because you so often read they never get any interest from other ladies in their statuses.

I rarely do "

I never do.. swing me the other way hah.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

I’m less needy and “damsel in distress” with the ladies... it’s more an equal footing if that makes sense. With a guy I want to be looked after. Even though I’m an independent woman so if he looks after me too much I’ll be annoyed..

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over a year ago


"I’m less needy and “damsel in distress” with the ladies... it’s more an equal footing if that makes sense. With a guy I want to be looked after. Even though I’m an independent woman so if he looks after me too much I’ll be annoyed.. "

Haha we are soooo alike

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village


"I’m less needy and “damsel in distress” with the ladies... it’s more an equal footing if that makes sense. With a guy I want to be looked after. Even though I’m an independent woman so if he looks after me too much I’ll be annoyed..

Haha we are soooo alike "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not good at it. I tend to become the friend instead and then we get past the oh I want to take you to bed stage

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"I’m not good at it. I tend to become the friend instead and then we get past the oh I want to take you to bed stage "

Women are complex eh?!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I wonder this too because you so often read they never get any interest from other ladies in their statuses.

I rarely do "

I never do.. swing me the other way hah.

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