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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately some of us take a dislike to others. Occasionally we don't even understand why and have no rational explanation. I simply don't like them and whilst I feel rather ashamed of my thoughts, I really don't care for them.

But how well do you hide it? If everyone thinks they're lovely do you mask your thoughts? Do you look for every opportunity to snipe at them on the forum or simply avoid ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like you

Good luck with this thread.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

On here it's easy I just avoid or just be polite. Don't see the need to sniping or petulant behaviour.

And I'm perfectly happy not to be liked by everyone, I'm me and unlikely to change me to fit in.

Luckily on here nobody can see my face, cause it's that what gets in trouble off this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd have to just avoid them. If you snipe, then you'd run the risk of coming across as a bit of a knob.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I try not to interact. Not always mind. I’m not perfect.

I also appreciate that just because i’m wary of someone doesn’t mean they are actually unpleasant, it might just be down to me and not appreciating how they are, their humour or something. Or i witnessed them having a bad day that one time or something. That’s not their fault. Some folk just don’t gel.

And there isn’t anything wrong with that.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I don't have an irrational dislike of anyone on the forum. Rational yes! A couple of posters may annoy me through no fault of their own but I just ignore them. I don't think Fab is that integral to me to have any such deep feelings towards anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like you

Good luck with this thread..... "

Fabicide...I think I may have failed to highlight that this applies to the real world too not just people on the forums.

I'll let it run and watch my demise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'd have to just avoid them. If you snipe, then you'd run the risk of coming across as a bit of a knob. "

Agree, I’ve given in to temptation a few times but never without good reason but have now resorted to drinking nail varnish remover and cutting myself instead just to save face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly though, yes and I see a fuck load of it from ppl who should know better tbh. It's a crime to be new, engaging, inclusive or write a popular thread these days. I'm not talking about me either, just for clarity.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like you

Good luck with this thread.....

Fabicide...I think I may have failed to highlight that this applies to the real world too not just people on the forums.

I'll let it run and watch my demise "

Someone did actually spit in my pint once at uni, I just drank it and said it was their round.....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Honestly though, yes and I see a fuck load of it from ppl who should know better tbh. It's a crime to be new, engaging, inclusive or write a popular thread these days. I'm not talking about me either, just for clarity..... "

It is. And it can be damn hurtful when the attacks come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not participating - only reading....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think anyone is going to admit to sniping at someone at any possible chance OP. I really, really don't.

Sometimes when I had read things that were wildly untrue I'd have made a comment in the past. Sometimes people would read snipes into things that really weren't there but their frame of mind made them think so. I think now I'm at a point that even if I'm not particularly fond of someone for whatever reason, I can still comment on their posts/threads. Not because I'm doing it to agitate them but more, their thread/post might be interesting. Maybe I think they are talking codswallop and can politely disagree.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I mostly just ignore those that get on my nerves. I occasionally break this rule though.

Having said that, there aren’t many that fall into the complete and utter cockwomble category. So it’s not difficult to ignore them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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And yes, it does happen in a myriad of forms for various reasons. I don't think it's that bad right now. Well not the past few days anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is going to admit to sniping at someone at any possible chance OP. I really, really don't.

Sometimes when I had read things that were wildly untrue I'd have made a comment in the past. Sometimes people would read snipes into things that really weren't there but their frame of mind made them think so. I think now I'm at a point that even if I'm not particularly fond of someone for whatever reason, I can still comment on their posts/threads. Not because I'm doing it to agitate them but more, their thread/post might be interesting. Maybe I think they are talking codswallop and can politely disagree. "

Xperia could be a snipey fucker at times, I didn't like him, I'll admit that....

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m pretty obvious if I don’t like someone.

I tend to have a reason if I don’t.

I’m far from two faced and you will always know where you stand with me.

On here or real life I just can’t stand two faced twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who know me 'in real life' think I'm lovely. They know more about background life stuff though so understand if I'm grumpy.

We all get snipey grumpy at times, we are human. We look out for each other and know when to drop it. It's never a fatal fall out.

Online it's different.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't think anyone is going to admit to sniping at someone at any possible chance OP. I really, really don't.

Sometimes when I had read things that were wildly untrue I'd have made a comment in the past. Sometimes people would read snipes into things that really weren't there but their frame of mind made them think so. I think now I'm at a point that even if I'm not particularly fond of someone for whatever reason, I can still comment on their posts/threads. Not because I'm doing it to agitate them but more, their thread/post might be interesting. Maybe I think they are talking codswallop and can politely disagree.

Xperia could be a snipey fucker at times, I didn't like him, I'll admit that.... "

Yeah, he was a proper sniper fucker. But that was only one side of him, people are far more well rounded and so was he. I think taking a dislike to someone because of a particular perception is understandable but what happens if you learn that's wrong? I think being able to be cordial and polite isn't a bad thing, why be an out and out dick (obviously if they have done something serious I understand).

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I don't think I know anyone enough to dislike on the forum.

In life though I can dislike someone for the silliest of reasons. It's usually written all over my facial expressions too. I never was a good actress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Would love to know who it is!

I usually just avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I’m not feeling I just avoid .. no room for drama lamas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disliked someone at work (which is unheard of) and I've had to really force myself to form a civil relationship with them. It feels fake but better than rude.

On here I just avoid people if I'm in an unsympathetic mood. Not many annoy me though. And less annoy actually, rather, drain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a fucking delight!

Actually more like Marmite,

I am one of those people that just says what everyone is thinking, not always a good thing.

On here, I mostly walk away, but I wont suffer fools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only the men on here that I dont like. I find them to be competition for me shagging my way through the site....inconsiderate bastards. This site should be all women and me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here it's easy I just avoid or just be polite. Don't see the need to sniping or petulant behaviour.

And I'm perfectly happy not to be liked by everyone, I'm me and unlikely to change me to fit in.

Luckily on here nobody can see my face, cause it's that what gets in trouble off this site "

I think that's why people interact with me differently 'in real life'- because they can see my face. At forum socials people seemed that way too.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I don't have an irrational dislike of anyone on the forum. Rational yes! A couple of posters may annoy me through no fault of their own but I just ignore them. I don't think Fab is that integral to me to have any such deep feelings towards anyone. "

This dude will do well on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually find that having a deep dislike for someone is a disowned part of me. So I endeavour to take a good look in the mirror to see why. I can’t think of anyone one here I really dislike. Disagree with for sure, but I don’t dislike them. There are certainly those that I don’t particularly notice though, a bit like white noise that until the volume is turned up I don’t hear them. I guess most people tune some out, or at least that is my assumption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just avoid interacting with them

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

I would avoid interacting too. But my dislike wouldn’t be entirely irrational - there’s always a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is going to admit to sniping at someone at any possible chance OP. I really, really don't.

Sometimes when I had read things that were wildly untrue I'd have made a comment in the past. Sometimes people would read snipes into things that really weren't there but their frame of mind made them think so. I think now I'm at a point that even if I'm not particularly fond of someone for whatever reason, I can still comment on their posts/threads. Not because I'm doing it to agitate them but more, their thread/post might be interesting. Maybe I think they are talking codswallop and can politely disagree.

Xperia could be a snipey fucker at times, I didn't like him, I'll admit that....

Yeah, he was a proper sniper fucker. But that was only one side of him, people are far more well rounded and so was he. I think taking a dislike to someone because of a particular perception is understandable but what happens if you learn that's wrong? I think being able to be cordial and polite isn't a bad thing, why be an out and out dick (obviously if they have done something serious I understand)."

I think it's the being a dick part that ppl can at times actually take pleasure in because it's hurting someone they believe to be hurting them or their friends and therefore they are in their own mind a "super hero". Makes no sense though when you think about it - it's a negative spiral. It can be super petty, for example a person posts on a thread, gets no reply, then looks at another forum user with a thread that's close to completion, or really popular and on part three or whatever, and then they messages me for example saying "omg the forum is so shit, have you seen that so and so playing the crowd and attention seeking? Her threads are so boring! Her pics are so filtered! Why can't ppl see through it? She's so fake? Ppl will find out the truth about her eventually and I'm gonna do my best to make sure they do" etc....

....wtaf is all that about then? It's a sex site forum, innit....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I love you all. You’re all gods creatures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disliked someone at work (which is unheard of) and I've had to really force myself to form a civil relationship with them. It feels fake but better than rude.

On here I just avoid people if I'm in an unsympathetic mood. Not many annoy me though. And less annoy actually, rather, drain. "

You avoided my comment about using your pics, js....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disliked someone at work (which is unheard of) and I've had to really force myself to form a civil relationship with them. It feels fake but better than rude.

On here I just avoid people if I'm in an unsympathetic mood. Not many annoy me though. And less annoy actually, rather, drain.

You avoided my comment about using your pics, js.... "

I'd be gutted if you didn't. That's why you get the extras Though I think it's a little inappropriate with a puppy in the house to line the ceilings with them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disliked someone at work (which is unheard of) and I've had to really force myself to form a civil relationship with them. It feels fake but better than rude.

On here I just avoid people if I'm in an unsympathetic mood. Not many annoy me though. And less annoy actually, rather, drain.

You avoided my comment about using your pics, js....

I'd be gutted if you didn't. That's why you get the extras Though I think it's a little inappropriate with a puppy in the house to line the ceilings with them... "

I just stream them on the big telly in living room and wank furiously while she's eating her lunch in the kitchen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disliked someone at work (which is unheard of) and I've had to really force myself to form a civil relationship with them. It feels fake but better than rude.

On here I just avoid people if I'm in an unsympathetic mood. Not many annoy me though. And less annoy actually, rather, drain.

You avoided my comment about using your pics, js....

I'd be gutted if you didn't. That's why you get the extras Though I think it's a little inappropriate with a puppy in the house to line the ceilings with them...

I just stream them on the big telly in living room and wank furiously while she's eating her lunch in the kitchen.... "

Now that's what you call big labia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disliked someone at work (which is unheard of) and I've had to really force myself to form a civil relationship with them. It feels fake but better than rude.

On here I just avoid people if I'm in an unsympathetic mood. Not many annoy me though. And less annoy actually, rather, drain.

You avoided my comment about using your pics, js....

I'd be gutted if you didn't. That's why you get the extras Though I think it's a little inappropriate with a puppy in the house to line the ceilings with them...

I just stream them on the big telly in living room and wank furiously while she's eating her lunch in the kitchen....

Now that's what you call big labia "

I had that on cd in 1998.....

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I just roll my eyes and move on. I'm not a confrontational person so I'm unlikely to say anything. I probably wouldn't interact with them though.

There have been people who I have taken a bit of a dislike to at first based on how they come across and then been pleasantly surprised when I have got to know them so I am trying to be less judgy.

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I roll my eyes a lot, I’m sure people roll their eyes at me a lot. I’m past caring now what people think about me on here. It’s their problem not mine if they don’t like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you all. You’re all gods creatures "

Awwww that’s nice

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I roll my eyes a lot, I’m sure people roll their eyes at me a lot. I’m past caring now what people think about me on here. It’s their problem not mine if they don’t like me "

I'm similar, here and in real life. There are people whose posts set my teeth on edge, so I just skip the threads they post heavily in and stick to ones I find less irritating.

I won't interact, I don't see the point. Why should anyone try to change for an irrational dislike of mine? Lord knows I wouldn't change for any of the people who don't like me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done. "

What about people that made fun if your scooter?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone is going to admit to sniping at someone at any possible chance OP. I really, really don't.

Sometimes when I had read things that were wildly untrue I'd have made a comment in the past. Sometimes people would read snipes into things that really weren't there but their frame of mind made them think so. I think now I'm at a point that even if I'm not particularly fond of someone for whatever reason, I can still comment on their posts/threads. Not because I'm doing it to agitate them but more, their thread/post might be interesting. Maybe I think they are talking codswallop and can politely disagree.

Xperia could be a snipey fucker at times, I didn't like him, I'll admit that....

Yeah, he was a proper sniper fucker. But that was only one side of him, people are far more well rounded and so was he. I think taking a dislike to someone because of a particular perception is understandable but what happens if you learn that's wrong? I think being able to be cordial and polite isn't a bad thing, why be an out and out dick (obviously if they have done something serious I understand).

I think it's the being a dick part that ppl can at times actually take pleasure in because it's hurting someone they believe to be hurting them or their friends and therefore they are in their own mind a "super hero". Makes no sense though when you think about it - it's a negative spiral. It can be super petty, for example a person posts on a thread, gets no reply, then looks at another forum user with a thread that's close to completion, or really popular and on part three or whatever, and then they messages me for example saying "omg the forum is so shit, have you seen that so and so playing the crowd and attention seeking? Her threads are so boring! Her pics are so filtered! Why can't ppl see through it? She's so fake? Ppl will find out the truth about her eventually and I'm gonna do my best to make sure they do" etc....

....wtaf is all that about then? It's a sex site forum, innit...."

They message you!

Block em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done. "

Isn't that likely to be counter productive....? In that you alienate the clique without knowing much about them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done.

What about people that made fun if your scooter?! "

There was only one who really let rip, but I let that go because he's absolutely gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done.

Isn't that likely to be counter productive....? In that you alienate the clique without knowing much about them..... "

I know enough about them to know that they are not the type of person I wish to interact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done.

What about people that made fun if your scooter?!

There was only one who really let rip, but I let that go because he's absolutely gorgeous "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Avoid and skip past any comment they might make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I take a dislike to someone in The Forums, it's for good reason. They have usually been mean to someone or to me. I try to just avoid them but it's hard when they pop up on all the threads. I do have to bite my tongue at times as I don't want a ban. I've recently blocked a cliquey gang on here to stop me messaging them and telling them how I feel about what they have done.

Isn't that likely to be counter productive....? In that you alienate the clique without knowing much about them.....

I know enough about them to know that they are not the type of person I wish to interact with. "

What did that gang do btw? Just curious....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid or never return.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


" Unfortunately some of us take a dislike to others. Occasionally we don't even understand why and have no rational explanation. I simply don't like them and whilst I feel rather ashamed of my thoughts, I really don't care for them.

But how well do you hide it? If everyone thinks they're lovely do you mask your thoughts? Do you look for every opportunity to snipe at them on the forum or simply avoid ? "

Its not any of people I avoid on here its the type of threads, a person can be an absolute cockwomble on one thread and be a delight on another, we all have threads we see and instantly without opening them, thats what makes the forums fun, there is something for everyone

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I got to meet you IRL before I go the bother of taking a dislike to you.

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