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"You mean manipulates them? "this   | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that "Well loads of women prefer a man they can try and change into their ideal bit of stuff so why not. | |||
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His mate sounds right up our street "You wanna break him? | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that "Is he Gok Wan? | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
Is he Gok Wan?"I don't think Gok's "ideal bit of stuff" is a woman lol | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
Is he Gok Wan?
I don't think Gok's "ideal bit of stuff" is a woman lol" | |||
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"its an age old thing. You know dull librarian suddenly throws off her glasses and lets her hair down at the sight of a man." So stupid. She can’t see if she doesn’t have her glasses | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
Is he Gok Wan?"You go girl, you tell him girl | |||
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"When you say birds, do you mean pigeons, eagles or starlings? " CHICKENS | |||
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His mate sounds right up our street
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"When you say birds, do you mean pigeons, eagles or starlings? CHICKENS" Tits | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that "How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff???? | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff???? "Turns them into glue  | |||
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"When you say birds, do you mean pigeons, eagles or starlings? CHICKENS Tits" Tits where? Are they big ones? Who said tits? Damn you Doc | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff???? "Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
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Turns them into glue "And I, man nuh play number two | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that "How do You think of it then? | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Turns them into glue "Eeek! Is he like the knacker man?? My uncle was a knacker man! Grim business that | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages"Do tell me more about this please? I might have a use for useless people | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages
Do tell me more about this please? I might have a use for useless people "It only works on birds | |||
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"Wow
His mate sounds right up our street
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"When you say birds, do you mean pigeons, eagles or starlings? CHICKENS Tits Tits where? Are they big ones? Who said tits? Damn you Doc "Great tits | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages
Do tell me more about this please? I might have a use for useless people
It only works on birds"Birds?? That's a broad range Birds with feathers? Bald ones Winged ones Tits? One leg? Two leg? Squakky ones? Chirpy ones? Big ones? Burbs????  | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages
Do tell me more about this please? I might have a use for useless people
It only works on birds
Birds?? That's a broad range
Birds with feathers?
Bald ones
Winged ones
Tits?
One leg?
Two leg?
Squakky ones?
Chirpy ones?
Big ones?
Burbs????
"The winged feathered variety but due to the instability and unpredictability of the operation I believe he only practised the art on annoying ones. | |||
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"Wow
His mate sounds right up our street
You wanna break him?
Hell yes"Let's go girls | |||
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"Wow
His mate sounds right up our street
You wanna break him?
Hell yes
Let's go girls "Come on! I'm going out tonight, I'm feelin' alright Gonna let it all hang out. Want to make some noise, really raise my voice Yeah, I want to scream and shout..... | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages
Do tell me more about this please? I might have a use for useless people
It only works on birds
Birds?? That's a broad range
Birds with feathers?
Bald ones
Winged ones
Tits?
One leg?
Two leg?
Squakky ones?
Chirpy ones?
Big ones?
Burbs????
The winged feathered variety but due to the instability and unpredictability of the operation I believe he only practised the art on annoying ones."Oh I see. I would be interested to see the data which would substantiate the research, both qualitative and quantitative | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
How does he do that??? Turns them into what type of stuff????
Ornothotic Alchemy it’s a little known science from the Dark Ages
Do tell me more about this please? I might have a use for useless people
It only works on birds
Birds?? That's a broad range
Birds with feathers?
Bald ones
Winged ones
Tits?
One leg?
Two leg?
Squakky ones?
Chirpy ones?
Big ones?
Burbs????
The winged feathered variety but due to the instability and unpredictability of the operation I believe he only practised the art on annoying ones.
Oh I see. I would be interested to see the data which would substantiate the research, both qualitative and quantitative "So would I | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
Is he Gok Wan?
I don't think Gok's "ideal bit of stuff" is a woman lol" | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
Is he Gok Wan?"That guy's name makes the most unfortunate anagram | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that "Does he deflate them afterwards or just keep blown up in the corner of the room for another go the next day? | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that "Your mate sounds like an abusive wanker. | |||
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"Whereby he prefers plain quiet birds and turns them into his ideal bit of stuff. Kinda never thought of it like that
Well loads of women prefer a man they can try and change into their ideal bit of stuff so why not. " | |||
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"I know loads of women who talk about smartening their man up, putting him on a diet, stopping him drinking so much, limiting the time he spends with friends etc. That's usually seen as being a good influence. " Tru dat! Men aren't allowed so much as to agree a woman's bum looks big in this dress when she tells them it does without being called manipulative..... | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other?" I agree, I think ppl can grow together too however, and tangle there roots so to speak over time, which isn't necessarily bad..... | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? I agree, I think ppl can grow together too however, and tangle there roots so to speak over time, which isn't necessarily bad....." Growing together is different to actively seeking to change one partner though I think. Each relationship must grow and adapt else it's doomed for failure I think | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? I agree, I think ppl can grow together too however, and tangle there roots so to speak over time, which isn't necessarily bad..... Growing together is different to actively seeking to change one partner though I think. Each relationship must grow and adapt else it's doomed for failure I think " Absolutely! | |||
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"What do you mean by "turns them" He changes them? Women are not a ball of clay to be sculpted to your perfect ornament. We are people.. Exactly!!' Gross behaviour" | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? I agree, I think ppl can grow together too however, and tangle there roots so to speak over time, which isn't necessarily bad..... Growing together is different to actively seeking to change one partner though I think. Each relationship must grow and adapt else it's doomed for failure I think " This
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? I agree, I think ppl can grow together too however, and tangle there roots so to speak over time, which isn't necessarily bad..... Growing together is different to actively seeking to change one partner though I think. Each relationship must grow and adapt else it's doomed for failure I think This
I wouldn’t get with someone with the mindset that I wanted to change them "Lots of people do though. It's where men get the idea that women only like "bad boys" they don't they just think they can change them into "good boys". | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. " Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? " His thing is to completely control what she wears what she eats etc in order to create the perfect woman (in his eyes) From seeing her pics from the time they met to the present the change is quite apparent. I have not seen his previous partners to know if they carry on the same. It’s very very full on. | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? His thing is to completely control what she wears what she eats etc in order to create the perfect woman (in his eyes) From seeing her pics from the time they met to the present the change is quite apparent. I have not seen his previous partners to know if they carry on the same. It’s very very full on. " That's manipulative and emotional abuse | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? His thing is to completely control what she wears what she eats etc in order to create the perfect woman (in his eyes) From seeing her pics from the time they met to the present the change is quite apparent. I have not seen his previous partners to know if they carry on the same. It’s very very full on. " I have read about similar things before. It's a hell of a responsibility for the person in control. | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? His thing is to completely control what she wears what she eats etc in order to create the perfect woman (in his eyes) From seeing her pics from the time they met to the present the change is quite apparent. I have not seen his previous partners to know if they carry on the same. It’s very very full on. That's manipulative and emotional abuse" Even if the person enters in to it with full knowledge of what's involved? | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other?" Pygmalion projects | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? His thing is to completely control what she wears what she eats etc in order to create the perfect woman (in his eyes) From seeing her pics from the time they met to the present the change is quite apparent. I have not seen his previous partners to know if they carry on the same. It’s very very full on. That's manipulative and emotional abuse Even if the person enters in to it with full knowledge of what's involved?" Then maybe not but it's a very fine line and a big grey area. Just because the person agreed to it, doesn't mean they weren't coerced and it massively depends on the person's mental state at the time as to weather they were actually able to make that choice. | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? Pygmalion projects " Though I believe in the Pygmalion effect. I think it's about how you view yourself and pushing yourself to yield result. Not something from my fair lady | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? Pygmalion projects Though I believe in the Pygmalion effect. I think it's about how you view yourself and pushing yourself to yield result. Not something from my fair lady " Me too but two very different things, albeit inspired by the same Greek myth. | |||
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"Hate it when people go into a relationship actively wanting to change the other. Surely the whole point of a relationship is that you enhance each others lives and not change each other? Pygmalion projects Though I believe in the Pygmalion effect. I think it's about how you view yourself and pushing yourself to yield result. Not something from my fair lady Me too but two very different things, albeit inspired by the same Greek myth." I'll have to go look it up | |||
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"I have seen this on another site as a kink. A mate on the site practices “bimbofication” where he enters into a relationship with a sub and changes her with full consent. Not my cup of tea but if they are both into it I’m not one to judge. Blimey. Do the women change completely or just within that relationship? His thing is to completely control what she wears what she eats etc in order to create the perfect woman (in his eyes) From seeing her pics from the time they met to the present the change is quite apparent. I have not seen his previous partners to know if they carry on the same. It’s very very full on. That's manipulative and emotional abuse" It might be. But he’s very upfront with what he wants beforehand so it might not be. | |||
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"My son had a friend who was narcissistic, and every time he had a girlfriend, he would manipulate them and make them change the way they acted and dressed. It was amazing how many went along with it, for a while at least !" Talking from experience, sadly it's not something you realise what's happening straight away... | |||
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