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By *weetguy33 OP Man
over a year ago

some where near you

11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x"

What was it like? What did you get up to? Very intrigued by other people’s first experiences, as someone who’s never been!

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By *weetguy33 OP Man
over a year ago

some where near you

I was Very nervous going as a single guy. But the club staff and members were very friendly.

Its been about 9 years since I last went their. I think town house is under new management now.

Was a brilliant place lots going on over 3 floors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first club i went to was Chameleons, about 15 years ago, loved it

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

My first was at the Vanilla Alternative. I had an absolutely incredible time at a Bi Night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a fetish night at townhouse for the first time when I was 18, so about 8 years ago.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My first event was the BBB after party but that's in a nighclub the rent out for the event. My first actual club was Xotic Xtreme. I'm pretty sure its closed down now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Infusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse in the Wirral before it had been taken over by the current owners.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Swindon

A club in Ibiza with my ex 10 years ago, wow what a first time experience it was amazing.

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By *irm and TenderCouple
over a year ago

north west

Our first visit was the No.3 in Chorley, not long after it opened.

We no longer live in the area but it remains one of our favourite clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons 2 years ago.

Loved it and still go regular

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Eurekas about 8 years ago with my then partner had a great time.not really done the club scene since but now I'm single will get back out there once things are back to almost normal

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The first club I ever went to was in Perth, Australia! The first uk one was Rio’s it isn’t really a proper club though.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

HU9, I went on a quiet night, people were friendly (bar the stinky couple we met when being shown around!) Wish I went on a busy night, I was the only female there that night.

First and only time I’ve been to a club, would like the guts to try others

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

2x2 in cap d arge with the wife and a club at the top of bury rd in manchester, can't remember the name, many years ago.

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By *essica trueTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

Honeycombe in Blackpool x my fav now is infusion so friendly and great people

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Silverleigh in West Kingsdown is the first club we were introduced to

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By *omnlynneCouple
over a year ago

milton keynes

first club many years ago was ranch4play in Florida when I was a single man then with my wife was arousals in dunstable and after a few visits finally broke our swinging cherry with a couple called Julia and Steve who lynne described as "like been fucked by a redwood tree" ...he was a big boy

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent, so nervous I hardly moved from the bar!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Kestrels as a daytime naturist last year, then the Attic derby this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

La Chambre in 2017 it was really busy and met so many people my first time was really welcoming x

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Vanilla Alternative was our first experience and we haven’t looked back since! A fantastic club

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Cupids Manchester 4 years ago now

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The only club I’ve been to was The Attic, myself and my fwb at the time used to go to Derby Socials and house parties arranged via another site, so we knew the people who took it over and started the initial changes, had a few good times there

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When Quest was called ISIS in different premises to where it is now.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"When Quest was called ISIS in different premises to where it is now. "

I have a fondness for old Quest.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

A place called Skinny Dippers in Brighton many, many years ago!

K and T x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Tease2 near Cambridge, think it’s closed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleasures !

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

My first and forever favourite was SX (now Play) last year, been so many times cos I love the atmosphere so much, I felt so free, can't wait to get back!

Those who've not been to Townhouse since the new owners should give it a try, Vicky and Jim have done a great job, it's our other fave!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

After eight in Edinburgh. Met some great folk.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

The Attic. Very many others since.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

It was Paradise Spa in Essex somewhere, near Barking I think. Closed down now I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Chameleons in Darlaston on a Friday night two years ago, loved it so much went for the next six weekends in a row

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one yet

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down, it was about 17 years ago)...it was a right dump, and the clientele were, errmm, interesting

It's a wonder I ever went to a club again after that

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down, "

Was it Amour ?

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

Route 69 and I had a great night with a Welsh couple

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down,

Was it Amour ?"

That doesn't ring any bells...but I am getting old and generally can't remember what I had for dinner yesterday, never mind something from nearly 20 years ago

When I say Manchester, I mean the general north west area...as in the other side of the Pennines somewhere, I can remember going on the M62 to get there

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

I’m too embarrassed to mention mine. It’s not one of the best....

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Mine was Adam and Eve s in Eccles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be Eves nightclub wolverhampton.It was banging in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had an afternoon visit to Cupids, was very quiet and great for a gentle introduction to test the waters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia for us really enjoy it still

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By *ticky 69Man
over a year ago

Stirling

"When Quest was called ISIS in different premises to where it is now.

I have a fondness for old Quest. "

I'm not so keen on ISIS. Or Al-Queda. My first club was The Lodge in Gloucester. Very sadly, it closed a few years ago and there are no local clubs now. I enjoyed Club Sx last year, so look forward to visiting it as Club Play and to trying the Townhouse when they reopen.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

T took me to Xtasia - it was a Christmas foam party & I was terrified!!! It looked like great fun but I spent the night watching others having fun & in awe of their confidence

Not been for some time but it is my favourite club

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x"

Still waiting on me first one...

I'm a chicken

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

No.3 in Chorley was the first club I visited. I was so nervous going in, didn’t know what to expect, had read so many feel-good stories about the club scene! Anyway, it was a quiet night, and driving home afterwards I wondered what all the fuss was about? It’s just a pub, where people wear less clothes......

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not so keen on ISIS. Or Al-Queda. "

Isis is an Egyptian goddess and also the river in Oxford.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Tease 2 in cambridgeshire, it was a bit sleazy x

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Club Fata Morgana in Amsterdam only last October. Big club, all very relaxed and friendly, loved it once the nerves dissipated

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Vanilla Alternative about 3 years ago, Great first club with bedrooms and a bar area that you can chill in before going into the play areas, I was chatting to a Woman/couple for 11 months before meeting up with them and her other meet, 1st club, 1st meet 1st mmmf,

What a night

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Kestrels or was it Ab Fabs... was in the day

Had my first MMF

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By *nnejohnCouple
over a year ago

warrington

"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down,

Was it Amour ?

That doesn't ring any bells...but I am getting old and generally can't remember what I had for dinner yesterday, never mind something from nearly 20 years ago

When I say Manchester, I mean the general north west area...as in the other side of the Pennines somewhere, I can remember going on the M62 to get there "

xanadu?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Gatehouse, absolutely awesome and it was that good, I went twice a week until the lock down.. Met some fantastic people there. Not all are brilliant but I'd definitely say 99% are. Everyone is welcome and reasonably priced and no membership fee. Staff are very friendly and welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pandoras in Leeds last year. First and only time we have been to a club. We enjoyed it and the staff were great but it was a quiet night. Looking forward trying different clubs once its safe do do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids in Swinton, loved the place.

Not been for a few years now but would love to go back as soon as it reopens.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"When Quest was called ISIS in different premises to where it is now. "

My single go to club now as it's so near but still like No 3

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

VA easter bunnies

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By *rumpet and ScouseCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

Mine as a single female was partners thank god it was an organised social with chat friends otherwise I'd never of gone through the door.

As a couple I took scouse to entice not log after it opened but we went as mates and 2 yrs later we are still together ? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been to a club, but keen to do so for an event/social when able to do so safely up this way

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Tease 2 in cambridgeshire, it was a bit sleazy x "

Wasn’t it ! And that accommodation was like an old school.

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Oasis,near manor house,North london

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

We did Fun4Two for our first; still our favourite place.

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

We both went to clubf for our first times at club. Hubby played in a MFM. I just chatted to please and walked around nervous as anything. I didn’t play until my 4th visit

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By *orkcouple101Couple
over a year ago

york

Mystique Tenerife fab night with a cpl we hooked up with in the club from Portsmouth then a random single guy ....P certainly enjoyed it....

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Club Whiplash which was in Putney before it was raided by the Police

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

" Club Whiplash which was in Putney before it was raided by the Police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember it very well like if it was yesterday, it was funtimes in hackney and I had sex with the owner, her name is jenny

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x"

Steamers quay in Torquay

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Everyone had Jenny lol

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

"Tease 2 in cambridgeshire, it was a bit sleazy x

Wasn’t it ! And that accommodation was like an old school. "

Lol, it was all breeze blocks ,dark rooms and closed doors, the lights in the accommodation was so bad I might as well have put my makeup on with my eyes closed , lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone had Jenny lol"
Yes they had. I would say that she is really good in the bed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to quest for the first time with my ex 3 years ago. We didn't do anything a part from chatting to other couples. We wanted to see what a club was like and never even thought about swinging before.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"Vanilla Alternative about 3 years ago, Great first club with bedrooms and a bar area that you can chill in before going into the play areas, I was chatting to a Woman/couple for 11 months before meeting up with them and her other meet, 1st club, 1st meet 1st mmmf,

What a night

Friends of ours went there, they said it was amazing too.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I live near Heathrow but always found myself travelling to Birmingham for clubs. Chams and Xtasia as I didn't fancy the prospect of bumping into someone I know.

I have tried Hellfire a couple of times too

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

The Maltings in Baldock before it closed, Arousal in Dunstable then Jaydees, it has been a long while since I've been out to a club

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By *lljambarMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Northwich Sauna for me, u was literally blown away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x"

First club and where we met was Southend Utd Football Club.

Like you op we had planned to go to the Townhouse as it looks like a brilliant club but some cunt sneezed and the world hanged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first club visit was secrets in Sunderland many many years ago, sadly it closed

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By *weetguy33 OP Man
over a year ago

some where near you

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pandora’s 3rd March 19, I went as a single lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Office in Bristol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down, it was about 17 years ago)...it was a right dump, and the clientele were, errmm, interesting

It's a wonder I ever went to a club again after that

Adam and Eves?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Everyone had Jenny lol"

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partners in bury about 17 years ago maybe more , we loved the wet area there and met some lovely couples who helped us find our feet , not been back for years now , we discovered townhouse a few years after and its been our local and prefered club ever since though we have tried many more

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By *iggydog78Man
over a year ago

London

I'd love to give a club a go but would do a erm "fly on the wall" style visit lol

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

"I'd love to give a club a go but would do a erm "fly on the wall" style visit lol"

Just sit at the bar and chat, just like a pub x

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Swindon remix

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By *orthcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Chatelet in Solou while on holiday, still the best club we have visited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.

Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.

It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.

A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.

Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd love to give a club a go but would do a erm "fly on the wall" style visit lol"

Go for it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.

Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.

It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.

A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.

Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club. "

That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.

Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.

It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.

A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.

Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.

That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back

It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now

We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons in Darleston. Regular at Townhouse now

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Partners in Bury.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberty elite about 14 years ago. Was so nice back then, went a couple of years ago and didn’t like it so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.

Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.

It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.

A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.

Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.

That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back

It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now

We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management. "

I always planned to go as a friend told me about it, think he may have done DJ sets at the time but never got there before it closed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bootle, went round in 88

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.

Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.

It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.

A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.

Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.

That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back

It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now

We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management.

I always planned to go as a friend told me about it, think he may have done DJ sets at the time but never got there before it closed "

Shame you missed it.

We loved it, very often we would head there after work on Friday and not go home until early hours of a Monday morning ready (or not so), to go to work

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Vanilla Alternative for moi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small club in horwich about 15 years ago, can't remember the name of it. Not sure if it's still there

Went to a private birthday social there for the owner at the time

Was a very enjoyable night

If anyone remembers it please feel free to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was Chameleons . Stayed about 30mins and drove home in silence . Then tried again after a few months and been to a few in uk and GC . .Really enjoy them now .

Chams and Townhouse are the favs but looking to enjoy more when allowed

. . ( Covid etc )

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

La Chambre with hubby 7/8 years ago.

Had a fun night and even swapped.

We understand each other well and had decided to just go with the flow

Been to over 25 clubs since then.

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By *weetguy33 OP Man
over a year ago

some where near you

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

The Attic was our first club a few years ago. We tried xtasia but wasn’t really for us. We had a big break was going to try again then lock down!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Mine was Pandora in Leeds , i was so so nervous. I tried few times before in but never had the courage to do it , till the day i finall win the courage.

The club is just amazing the staff are so friendly.

From staff to some costumers i have the lucky to call them my friends , they are people with great heart and always have supported me and care .

Make sometime i don't see them because lack of time and personal situation that happened, but can't wait to back and see again lovely friends and enjoying the club as always and having my pink gin tonic.

I do love this club and the friends i have done there

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Eureka - 30 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids. I wasn't really a fan to be honest. Townhouse on their hand I would love to go back to any time, it was lovely

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Chameleons with an ex who I had ready fallen out of love with. We went to try and patch over an already failing relationship.

Thank god I persevered and went again. This time on my own and had a great time. Its my favourite club.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ours was Purple Mamba, about 3 years ago. We have been to the Attic but only during the daytime

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.

The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.

The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too"

I really wanted to go to jaydees

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"My first event was the BBB after party but that's in a nighclub the rent out for the event. My first actual club was Xotic Xtreme. I'm pretty sure its closed down now. "
it has. Sadly I don't think it will reopen again.

For me it was chams about 20 years ago

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Arousals in Dunstable was my first club...(around 10 years ago)

I had the best first night, memories that will stay with me forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams, still my favourite x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.

The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too

I really wanted to go to jaydees "

With me to take the piss for how naive I was?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Chams, still my favourite x"

I miss my jet

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.

The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too

I really wanted to go to jaydees

With me to take the piss for how naive I was?

Only for like 5 mins.... Then I'd make it up to you

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.

The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too

I really wanted to go to jaydees

With me to take the piss for how naive I was?

Only for like 5 mins.... Then I'd make it up to you

That sounds like an amazing night

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.

The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too"

Yep - love JayDees. No reason to ever feel strange or nervous there - everyone puts you at ease straight away, and it is so friendly. Missing it during lockdown, to be honest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chams, still my favourite x

I miss my jet

I miss the hotub and the sex swing!!

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

The first club I ever went to was called G-Spot in Leicester around 30 years ago.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

Angels in Melksham for us The first night of many excellent nights there.

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By *ensual massagerMan
over a year ago

Bolton

My first club was Adam and Eves in Eccles. Great experience especially back in the 80's.

Then moved on to Xanadu in Manchester, then Club Manchester when Xanadu closed then onto the Gatehouse. Also been to Partners and Cupids. Tbf, all are different in their approach and atmosphere. Some are very cliquey whereas some are friendly. Some have membership for single guys which can make it an expensive first night.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"My first club was Adam and Eves in Eccles. Great experience especially back in the 80's.

Mine (Mr) was also the Adam & Eve circa 1987/88.

Not many of us that can go that far back.

Mrs first was Fun4two in Holland 2009.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Ours was Chameleons . Stayed about 30mins and drove home in silence . Then tried again after a few months and been to a few in uk and GC . .Really enjoy them now .

Chams and Townhouse are the favs but looking to enjoy more when allowed

. . ( Covid etc ) "

Our first time at Chams we didn't like it. It was a BBW party night. We didn't like the atmosphere at all. Said the club was not for us, never to return. Luckily we were tempted back because its open in the day time and the sun was out for the sun deck. Had a great time, met some great people and ended up staying over. Its now our favourite club and go when we can.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.

Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.

It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.

A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.

Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.

That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back

It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now

We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management.

I always planned to go as a friend told me about it, think he may have done DJ sets at the time but never got there before it closed

Shame you missed it.

We loved it, very often we would head there after work on Friday and not go home until early hours of a Monday morning ready (or not so), to go to work

T drives past twice a day. It had a fire either last year or year before & has no roof. I can see the site being sold for housing or to the hospital next door

J x

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

My first ever club was the Fetish club “ Der Peutch “ way back in the 80s . At Touch Dance Studios in Balham south London .. it was still very underground back then .. Had a hell of a job finding out about events , pre internet

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Xtasia 3 years ago, bricking it. Love clubs now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x

Still waiting on me first one...

I'm a chicken

I was same felt sick with worry but was brill and made to feel comfortable straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams ........... quite a few years ago now, was my first and a few visits with a female friend, was also my last ............ just wouldn’t go on my own .... was more comfy with company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first club I ever went to was called G-Spot in Leicester around 30 years ago. "

A place called the G-Spot?

Was the area swamped with frustrated men desperately trying to find it?

(Sorry couldn’t resist)

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

Our was Secrets nr Totness 15 or so years ago

The best club we went to

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our first club was OP4F. We’d been to the Camden Roundhouse and stayed in Camden and decided to give a Club ago the following night. Met a lovely couple, sadly didn’t play, met anice guy who must have thought I (B) was a rabbit as I let him play with me, not entirely sure how far I wanted to go - M watched me and let me have my fun! Later M and I played in front of a bunch of guys which was very horny!

May have to go back again one day, it wasa fun night with great sex in the hotel afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been, yet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my first one just before lockdown, strictly not really a club more a spa but went to Rios with a couple of friends. It was a really great day. Thoroughly enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First club ... the boardroom in Salford now closed then started going to Adam and eves in Eccles where I still go occasionallly predominantly now it’s partners in bury or Cupids for the BI party night which was awesome ????

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitches unleashed femdom party.

It was at a burlesque club in Manchester.

I had a good time.

I am not into swinging.

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Infusions. Still our fave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t been to one yet

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

051 in Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club f for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last Halloween I went to silks at Croydon hall in minehead, absolutely buzzing night but it closed at new year. Went to another after that and it was awful! So dirty we made our excuse and left pretty quickly! Silks has made an impression I’m not sure another place would be the same

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"First club ... the boardroom in Salford now closed then started going to Adam and eves in Eccles where I still go occasionallly predominantly now it’s partners in bury or Cupids for the BI party night which was awesome ????"

The Boardroom. Now that brings back memories. It was actually my 2nd club but used to go quite a lot in the early 90's.

Rough and ready but I had some good fun in there.

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By *weetguy33 OP Man
over a year ago

some where near you

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

Adam and Eves.

Had some great times.

Looking forward to being able to go back

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By *_91Man
over a year ago

huds

My first was Gatehouse in Farnworth, safe to say I was very nervous and only stayed an hour or so!

Since then I’ve been to Club SX (now Club Play) and now very much enjoy a club visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what it was called, it was in a church. I think it was called The Cool Kids club. I remember there was a little disco and I was drinking some blue raspberry juice and eating strawberry strings and I felt like a badass.

I'd rate it 10/10 good memories.

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