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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers,

So I haven't ever had people round who I hadn't previously met at a club but am hoping to in the future now I have my own place.

What are other people's experiences? Both from single guys and those visiting them? Any particular do's n don'ts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a bowl of pistachios fro general grazing

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

As long as its clean its all good.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

To be honest i feel more comfortable in a hotel. I will always pay half the cost. I feel a bit uneasy in someones home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.

Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest i feel more comfortable in a hotel. I will always pay half the cost. I feel a bit uneasy in someones home."

Thanks, might add that into my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.

Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable "

So basically just like hosting a party but with someone you don't know? Do you tend to chat on phone to them both first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.

Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable

So basically just like hosting a party but with someone you don't know? Do you tend to chat on phone to them both first?"

Yeah mate usually have an 'impression' of them before hand. Give it a go! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never have some random come round.

We only play when we know someone

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

From here I've not met at home, but from dating sites I have. I'm comfortable with either, I need to know someone very well before meeting them anyways

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have a fab friend who I meet at his place. We met for an evening in a bar first. I feel very comfortable at his place. I often arrive to find him cooking us some dinner with music playing. I usually end up stood in the kitchen doorway chatting to him as he cooks. I'm very spoilt .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather go to a hotel. It's like mutual ground. Different if I know the lady a bit more though

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By *FuckingDelightWoman
over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

Always have good bread for post coital toast - always welcome

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Oil all the locks. It’s embarrassing for the victim when the fire brigade have to cut them out of the shackles while naked

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Only once and then I’d known them for some time and was convinced they weren’t weirdos.

Clean sheets, bottled water or other refreshments available, obviously condoms and lube (if required).

The other thing I’d definitely recommend is, no matter how much you trust the other person, keep your credit cards hidden, money or valuables stored away and someone to call afterwards so they know everything went well.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Make sure it’s clean and at the very least offer a drink before, during and after.

Shagging is thirsty work

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Clean sheets

Clean shower

Clean loo

Jo x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Make sure it’s clean and at the very least offer a drink before, during and after.

Shagging is thirsty work "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a bowl of pistachios fro general grazing "

I prefer salted cashews, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a bowl of pistachios fro general grazing

I prefer salted cashews, just saying "

Honey roasted are better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to meet a girl in my car once for a social and she took a picture of my reg plate before she got in the car then sent it to her friend. I actually thought, good on her for being sensible!

We went for a drive and ended up pumping in the car! Was a good night.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I have a fab friend who I meet at his place. We met for an evening in a bar first. I feel very comfortable at his place. I often arrive to find him cooking us some dinner with music playing. I usually end up stood in the kitchen doorway chatting to him as he cooks. I'm very spoilt . "

Sounds great.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like to accommodate if the others are comfortable with it.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Always have a baseball bat at hand and make sure you clean the bit of the toilet where its screwed to the floor beforehand

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan."

So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.

Hotel tips anyone?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.

So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.

Hotel tips anyone?"

You don't have to cook them dinner, like I said I'm just spoilt .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.

So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.

Hotel tips anyone?

You don't have to cook them dinner, like I said I'm just spoilt ."

Oh I did for my last friend who came over, although we got a bit distracted so had to order pizza in the first night

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan."

Honestly, the main reason I'm soon to be - and looking forward to - living alone.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.

So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.

Hotel tips anyone?

You don't have to cook them dinner, like I said I'm just spoilt .

Oh I did for my last friend who came over, although we got a bit distracted so had to order pizza in the first night "

That is a danger

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.

So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.

Hotel tips anyone?"

You sit are sorted to accommodate

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan."

Definitely no formula 1 tyre tracks in the toilet

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I have had no problems when I accommodate. Apart from what other people have mentioned, clean sheets, house clean, drinks and cooking food etc. Make sure you make the lady feels comfortable and relaxed. For a lady to visit your home and she doesn't really know you is a big step.

If the lady sleeps over, make sure you have breakfast ready to cook, sex can make you hungry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All great advice but one thing, if I clean my house so its all sparkling to 'parental visit standard' won't they assume I am secretly married?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"All great advice but one thing, if I clean my house so its all sparkling to 'parental visit standard' won't they assume I am secretly married?"

Only if you have women's belongings everywhere . It's easy to tell when it's just a guy that lives somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella....

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"All great advice but one thing, if I clean my house so its all sparkling to 'parental visit standard' won't they assume I am secretly married?"

Hahahahahaha not really! Might assume you have a little OCD or a cleaning obsession but I do like visiting a mans home that is proper clean, not just "attempted effort". But if you are hiding the wife, just make sure her toothbrush and obvious toiletries are hidden many make that mistake!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella.... "

Sadly the fruitcakes run around fab free nippy! Some hide it, some don't try and some don't see they are it, nowt stranger then fab folk

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

No nuts - you don't want to be calling an ambulance or driving someone to A&E!

I have a nut allergy

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Oil all the locks. It’s embarrassing for the victim when the fire brigade have to cut them out of the shackles while naked "

Not if you can convince the firemen to join in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella....

Sadly the fruitcakes run around fab free nippy! Some hide it, some don't try and some don't see they are it, nowt stranger then fab folk"

Love your cunt btw

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella....

Sadly the fruitcakes run around fab free nippy! Some hide it, some don't try and some don't see they are it, nowt stranger then fab folk

Love your cunt btw "

thank you very much nippy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oil all the locks. It’s embarrassing for the victim when the fire brigade have to cut them out of the shackles while naked

Not if you can convince the firemen to join in! "

Ooh, I could always pretend there broken and put a firemans outfit on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cleanliness and have like some kinda atmosphere ready

i dont mean candles and shit just like some nice music playing. I remember one guy who had some incense going and that mellowed me out completely

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.

Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable "

This is exactly what I do.

The only thing I’d add is that to avoid awkwardness, I quite often suggest we meet for coffee or a drink first somewhere close to the house. That way it gives both parties an opportunity to call it off if they’re not feeling the chemistry in person.

I find it takes the pressure off on both sides and just sets things up really nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All great advice but one thing, if I clean my house so its all sparkling to 'parental visit standard' won't they assume I am secretly married?"

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have a social before hand if the chemistry is right and both feel comfortable with each other happy to invite. Not overly keen inviting somebody who I've never before home...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"To be honest i feel more comfortable in a hotel. I will always pay half the cost. I feel a bit uneasy in someones home."

So when the hotel door closes and locks you actually feel safe do you?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Make sure your family don't have spare keys and pull an impromptu visit, that's rather embarrassing

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Make sure your family don't have spare keys and pull an impromptu visit, that's rather embarrassing "

Leave the key in the lock in case nosey family with spare keys call.....

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I go to someone house if I met than before socially and the vibe was good

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Estate agents often provide videos of homes for sale, so perhaps something similar would be a good idea for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest i feel more comfortable in a hotel. I will always pay half the cost. I feel a bit uneasy in someones home."

Same here..much more relaxing in a hotel.

Definitely 50/50 split x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure your family don't have spare keys and pull an impromptu visit, that's rather embarrassing "

I sense a story here! ?

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