FabSwingers.com forum: Couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

Couples, how did you introduce swinging to your partner. I'm keen to embrace this lifestyle but not sure if my partner would. Would not want to loose my relationship so is there a subtle way to test the water?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Leave fab logged in on your computer.

I'm kidding.

We went to a club together. Purely socially for a while then partner swapped with a couple we were friendly with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually met on a different site and never got to do any swinging as we fell for each other , fast forward a couple of years we decided to join Fab and never regretted it ! Maybe watch a sexy film where there’s a hint at threesomes etc and see her reaction? But if she’s not interested then just leave it there , don’t jepordise your relationship, does she know you are on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her about her fantasies... ask her questions, suggest the idea of threesomes/foursomes/group play. See what her reaction is...

I honestly believe having an open and non-judgemental conversation is the only way to proceed!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi All,

Talk to your partner, say you have a fantasy that involves sex with other people. If you think you will lose your relationship by discussing a fantasy the two of you aren't in a place where swinging would be a good idea so work on communication first.

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Talk to her about her fantasies... ask her questions, suggest the idea of threesomes/foursomes/group play. See what her reaction is...

I honestly believe having an open and non-judgemental conversation is the only way to proceed!

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Couldn't agree more.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

My husband talked to me about it.

At first I couldn't get my head round it at all. It felt like I wasn't enough or good enough, but his thing is seeing me with another guy, he wasn't looking for women. Anyway, long story short, we were going through a bad patch, I got close to a guy I was friends with, a bit too close but not sexual.

Husband found out, we talked about it, sorted out our differences and after a while joined up here.

I think when he first mentioned it I had a very wrong impression about it, I'm now more than happy to be here and it's been great for our relationship too

I guess I'm saying dont be surprised if she says no initially.

Is there some film or something you could watch and bring it up in conversation maybe?

Take care

Jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allaboutthewife makes a very valid point. Don’t be surprised if at first she is repulsed at the idea. Give her time to consider it and don’t be pushy or pouty if she says no!

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Allaboutthewife makes a very valid point. Don’t be surprised if at first she is repulsed at the idea. Give her time to consider it and don’t be pushy or pouty if she says no!

Took my husband over 20 years lol xx

Jo x

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

We were both a bit tipsy and Mr said he wanted to see me fuck another guy who was VWE. We chatted about it for a year or two and then decided to join Fab. Several years on we have had a blast!! We started MMF but no enjoy full swap too. It’s been gradual!!

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