FabSwingers.com forum: Non fab button

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more. "

If you dont like certain pics

Dont look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like seeing any public pics. Make them all Friends Only.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Easier to ignore. A non fab button would upset people.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

we have a non fab option...its called dont fab them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easier to ignore. A non fab button would upset people."

true ! but how many people are truly concerned about that?

I'd far rather a slap emoji button, to send a virtual slap surrounding certain comments or an audio applause for words of worthiness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I non-fab this thread plz. How mean spirited is that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I non-fab this thread plz. How mean spirited is that....

I thought this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really needed though is it OP? Why spread negativity?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Can I non-fab this thread plz. How mean spirited is that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you, OP. Not gonna happen though.

Just glad I'm not the one uploading them.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t understand the point of it. Surely you just need to not fab it if you don’t like it.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Seems like a waste of energy to go out of your way just to tell someone you don’t like their photos.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Can I non-fab this thread plz. How mean spirited is that....

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like a waste of energy to go out of your way just to tell someone you don’t like their photos. "

Not to mention a little bit bizarre

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Seems like a waste of energy to go out of your way just to tell someone you don’t like their photos.

Not to mention a little bit bizarre"

Absolutely. And just downright mean!

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I quite like some of the axewound shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only blocked one person in the 2 years I've been on and off here. I've been on and off more times than a brides nighty lol xxx

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Seems like a waste of energy to go out of your way just to tell someone you don’t like their photos.

Not to mention a little bit bizarre

Absolutely. And just downright mean! "

And very rude if you don't like a pic move on

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sorry I just love my butthole so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not open pics before or directly after eating lol rule of thumb

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm with you, OP. Not gonna happen though.

Just glad I'm not the one uploading them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be kind has obviously been forgotten...

what do you think it will do for someone’s self esteem if they have uploaded a pic they are proud of and they get hundreds of not fabs? It’s bad enough when someone out the blue messages to tell you that they think your gross- believe me it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be kind has obviously been forgotten...

I’m not being unkind.

I’m not trying to police the pics either

I get where you are coming from but sometimes they just appear in a set of “arty,sexy,nice” pics. And you just go whoa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Someone will like one pic, someone else will hate it. That’s the beauty of free will and opinion.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yeah less cock pics would be good

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Easier to ignore. A non fab button would upset people.

true ! but how many people are truly concerned about that?

I'd far rather a slap emoji button, to send a virtual slap surrounding certain comments or an audio applause for words of worthiness?

Alot of people would be upset. I am not here to make folk feel bad about themselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Be kind has obviously been forgotten...

I’m not being unkind.

I’m not trying to police the pics either

I get where you are coming from but sometimes they just appear in a set of “arty,sexy,nice” pics. And you just go whoa!

How would you feel if your pictures got a lot of "non fabs"?

I know I'd feel a bit humiliated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me OP

Why would you feel the need to tell people " I dont like your photos?"

I really dont understand your thinking

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We were on a site where it was possible to comment on photos and put a thumbs up or thumbs down. We were lucky and got very few thumbs down or nasty comments but people were very unkind to some of the posters. The mods were quick to pick up on it but some men and women were very upset

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Everyone has different tastes and kinks. Leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to make someone feel bad about their photos? You might not like it but they may have been really happy and feeling great about it then someone slaps a ‘non fab’ emoji on it? I know it would make me feel like shit !

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Wrong, as it would be open to abuse, I don’t like you so I’ll unfab your photo and get my friends to do the same.

If you’re even slightly homophobic or transphobic those pictures would be inundated with negativity.

There’s a massive difference to critique and abuse.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wrong, as it would be open to abuse, I don’t like you so I’ll unfab your photo and get my friends to do the same.

If you’re even slightly homophobic or transphobic those pictures would be inundated with negativity.

There’s a massive difference to critique and abuse. "

It's bad enough that you get the message "fabbed all your photos!" followed by "you stuck up bitch! Unfabbed all your photos!" (I mean, I laugh, it's so fucking petty, but at least it's withdrawing approval rather than actively saying you don't like something)

(the quotations indicate a genre of message, I'm not quoting a specific message as per forum rules)

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By *zCaTzZWoman
over a year ago

The Poke District

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more. "

Oh ffs get a life it isnt farcebook

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By *itch74Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"we have a non fab option...its called dont fab them."

Exactly this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone has different needs, so having choice helps to reach more people. Ignore what has no interest

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I no fab the idea of a no fab button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This just seems like a mean way to put people down.

If you don't like it, surely just don't fab it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have a non fab option...its called dont fab them."

exactly

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Wrong, as it would be open to abuse, I don’t like you so I’ll unfab your photo and get my friends to do the same.

If you’re even slightly homophobic or transphobic those pictures would be inundated with negativity.

There’s a massive difference to critique and abuse.

(the quotations indicate a genre of message, I'm not quoting a specific message as per forum rules)"

Exactly the fabbing of a picture can be an attempt to get attention from the person who posted. By removing the fab, it’s effectively saying that I only did it to try and meet not that I like the actual image.

Some women fab my pictures, I always take it that image is seen as attractive so I learn from that fab. Same with couples and Men it tells me what I should be concentrating on, to do it negatively doesn’t help the poster.

Hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, less is more?

Maybe practice what your preach there OP....

There is 0 need for negativity so a non-fab button is just uncalled for on many levels.

Why knock someone down? What do you get out of crushing someones self esteem?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Silly idea.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more. "

Such a negative option...wjy would we want such negativity on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more.

If you dont like certain pics

Dont look at them

Surely you can’t not look at something you’ve already looked at?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I think that's a bad idea. If you don't like it move on. Why be negative to other people..it's just mean spirited

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more. "

So you're ok about yours being non fabbed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the whole fab it is a bit daft really I’ve seen brilliant pictures and they never get on hot pics or are highly gabbed so I take no notice of all that bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more. "

That's a bit crap...where do you draw the line? I see plenty of pics of people who I find unattractive but why intentionally cause offence by clicking a button to make them aware of that ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"we have a non fab option...its called dont fab them."

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"we have a non fab option...its called dont fab them.

Good point

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Positivity is a whole lot sexier than negativity, OP.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Why do you want to go out of your way to tell someone you don't like the way they look? It's abit shitty to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more.

So you're ok about yours being non fabbed?"

Have no problem with it

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Why do you want to go out of your way to tell someone you don't like the way they look? It's abit shitty to be honest. "

This

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Why do you want to go out of your way to tell someone you don't like the way they look? It's abit shitty to be honest.

This

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more.

So you're ok about yours being non fabbed?

Have no problem with it"

Cool..because your 1st pic ..I'd hit no fab button.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"This may be controversial but what about a Non Fab option

Some of the pics on here how they get approved makes me wonder

Maybe a prude but sometimes less is more.

So you're ok about yours being non fabbed?

Have no problem with it"

So, if everyday you logged into fab and you had a few hundred dislikes on your pics, you'd have no issue with people showing you how much they think your pics are shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Further to my initial reply, I just found this thread a bit glass housey..... .....I couldn't work out if it was just attention seeking or a genuine lack of self awareness of one's own pics? I also wasn't sure if I'd be helping and encouraging someone along to think their thread was good by adding to the number of replies.

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Further to my initial reply, I just found this thread a bit glass housey..... .....I couldn't work out if it was just attention seeking or a genuine lack of self awareness of one's own pics? I also wasn't sure if I'd be helping and encouraging someone along to think their thread was good by adding to the number of replies.

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

Blocking me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

Blocking me?

Never!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

Block me

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

Blocking me?

Never!

Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

Block me

Imma fab you now!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Imma add the ultimate non-fab with a block now if that's ok

Block me

Imma fab you now!

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