FabSwingers.com forum: Attracted

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I couldn't do it otherwise. I also don't know why I'd want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I’ve been sleeping with the mrs for years

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Not really, you could always get them d*unk but that's not advisable

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Yes very much. There needs to be a mental or physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I imagine it makes for an awkward night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do....Not just looks, personality and connection is key

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Yes...without attraction both mentally and physically it just becomes sex for the sake of sex for me...and that personally leaves me cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think OP?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes.

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Absolutely!!"
true

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Hell yes. Unless we are taking about a nap. In which case as long as they don't get fresh I'll sleep anywhere

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Most definitely "
I could not sleep with someone I am not a attracted to

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Nope I’ve been sleeping with the mrs for years

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?"

Absolutely! Of course. Why would you think otherwise?

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Yes! I couldn't do it otherwise. I also don't know why I'd want to? "
very true

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Not really, you could always get them d*unk but that's not advisable "
lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yep, has to be some attraction.

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"What do you think OP?"
I have to find them attractive and also have a laugh

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?"

I did this thread this morning

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Um yeah, otherwise what's the point ?

You might as well go buy a warm apple pie instead, at least you get to eat the smashed remains afterwards.

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?

I did this thread this morning

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didn’t see it

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Without a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?"

This would be better directed at sex workers and pornstars......

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?

This would be better directed at sex workers and pornstars......

Dam I feel sorry for sex workers

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?

I did this thread this morning

didn’t see it "

Headed 'physical attraction' its ok, people said different things and threads are easy to miss

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

In the past I've been guilty of having sex with guys I wasn't really into. The reasons varied from me just needing sex or intimacy, boredom, agreeing to it beforehand and not wanting to back out and at times just for the thrill of it. Some really stupid reasons in there and I look back and realise I made some weird choices.

Nowadays I wouldn't consider having sex with someone I wasn't attracted to.

Katie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to yes. Whether I would want to is another matter

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There has to be an attraction. What I'm attracted to though doesnt necessarily mean others find the same thing attractive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry."

tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?"

I’d say most men no but most women yes and my wife a 100% yes unless a bit d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.

tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule "

Oh no! You’ve mistaken my point.

Just because someone doesn’t immediately attract you doesn’t mean that they might not at the right time or with time to chat/know each other. But that’s still attraction.

You’re still attracted to that person, even if they aren’t your type or it wouldn’t happen at all between you.

I hope that makes sense? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to yes. Whether I would want to is another matter"

^^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.

tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule "

^^ and this

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.

tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule

Oh no! You’ve mistaken my point.

Just because someone doesn’t immediately attract you doesn’t mean that they might not at the right time or with time to chat/know each other. But that’s still attraction.

You’re still attracted to that person, even if they aren’t your type or it wouldn’t happen at all between you.

I hope that makes sense? X"

Yes weirdly, he did initially attract me.. i met this guy in person whilst on a job. We had afew things in common. but normally looks wize, i go for the total opposite. Recently it happened to me twice. Both men surprised me in bed. But I ended up finding them very attractive. But I can't be brave enough to think like that online. if i don't have that initial physical attraction, i find it difficult to converse online

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