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Unreciprocated feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's so bloody hard having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. I've always liked this girl, always had a soft spot for her, but she just sees us as good friends. I'm still talking to her and I'm happy being friends with her, it's just really hard trying to keep my emotions in check and bury those feelings.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Things will be ok in the end, they always are

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside


"It's so bloody hard having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. I've always liked this girl, always had a soft spot for her, but she just sees us as good friends. I'm still talking to her and I'm happy being friends with her, it's just really hard trying to keep my emotions in check and bury those feelings. "

A friend is always good to have although I feel for your frustration x

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"It's so bloody hard having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. I've always liked this girl, always had a soft spot for her, but she just sees us as good friends. I'm still talking to her and I'm happy being friends with her, it's just really hard trying to keep my emotions in check and bury those feelings. "

So you have asked her how she feels ? Friends can sometimes turn into more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet it’s not easy for her wanting you as a friend but picking up on how you really feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's so bloody hard having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. I've always liked this girl, always had a soft spot for her, but she just sees us as good friends. I'm still talking to her and I'm happy being friends with her, it's just really hard trying to keep my emotions in check and bury those feelings.

So you have asked her how she feels ? Friends can sometimes turn into more "

I hinted that I liked her then just came out with it. She said she was surprised and didn't realise I liked her, then said she always saw me as a friend.

I should probably mention she got out of a relationship six weeks back, from a guy I used to be friends with. I feel guilty, but he was always a bit of a prick to me and it sounds like he's being a prick to her too.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It happens. You just have to accept that's the way it is.

If you still carry feelings for this woman while just being a friend, you'll always be pining for her, especially if you keep seeing her and will then end up hurt and disappointed when she finds a new man.

I would advise some distance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bet it’s not easy for her wanting you as a friend but picking up on how you really feel."

She said she doesn't feel awkward, but you're probably right.

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