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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge

so I live in a little village where everyone knows everyone my neighbours lets say Claire and Dan have recently split up there late 30's always pleasant but since they split claires been a bit more friendly popping over having a beer and a good chat but there seems to be a spark but nothings happened no the dilemma next time she pops over do I try it on shes proper fit and prob end up having to bash fuck out her ex or do I swerve it for the piece and quiet

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Could be a bit awkward depending on how good mates you are with Dan?

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"Could be a bit awkward depending on how good mates you are with Dan? "

Only known them both just a year wouldnt say were mates just neighbours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be a bit awkward depending on how good mates you are with Dan?

Only known them both just a year wouldnt say were mates just neighbours "

^ It all goes on in Barton.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Don't shit on your own door step!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the moves on both of them, then if Dan complains, you can tell him he had his shot with you.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Put the moves on both of them, then if Dan complains, you can tell him he had his shot with you. "

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village


"Put the moves on both of them, then if Dan complains, you can tell him he had his shot with you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo tricky......take it slow id say but that's only my opinion

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don’t try it on with her .... if she wants to she’ll come on to you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't shit on your own door step! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t try it on with her .... if she wants to she’ll come on to you.... "

That's lil' misleading ... don't (nice) girls always flirt up to a point ... and then expect the man to make *that move ... ??

Bloody Blue Bloody Blue, Tits-n-Ass, Tits-n-Ass, .... If a Gift Horse comes knocking ... Make the Move!

It's like playing Poker - at some point you have to know where you stand? So Poke Her !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bash anyone's head in what kind of lawless corner of the country is Barton in?

If she's into it then enjoy, nothing to do with her ex. If he starts then defend yourself if necessary, then get the police involved.

Why would he find out anyway, unless you or her told him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lil' misleading ... don't (nice) girls always flirt up to a point ... and then expect the man to make *that move ... ??

Bloody Blue Bloody Blue, Tits-n-Ass, Tits-n-Ass, .... If a Gift Horse comes knocking ... Make the Move!

It's like playing Poker - at some point you have to know where you stand? So Poke Her ! "

Don't fuck women that play games - that's gonna make for a much easier life than avoiding anyone that has an ex.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village


"prob end up having to bash fuck out her ex or "

Just to say that having re-read your post, this part concerns me slightly. Is this necessary?

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"prob end up having to bash fuck out her ex or

Just to say that having re-read your post, this part concerns me slightly. Is this necessary? "

Only if he finds out and starts i guess x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"so I live in a little village where everyone knows everyone my neighbours lets say Claire and Dan have recently split up there late 30's always pleasant but since they split claires been a bit more friendly popping over having a beer and a good chat but there seems to be a spark but nothings happened no the dilemma next time she pops over do I try it on shes proper fit and prob end up having to bash fuck out her ex or do I swerve it for the piece and quiet "

“Bash fuck out of her”. You charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When women are friendly it ALWAYS means they want the man to shag them. There is no other possible explanation.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Are you sure she is keen? I think men (including me!) have a tendency to see women who are being friendly as being interested... says he who has ballsed up friendships with women by this error!!

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village


"so I live in a little village where everyone knows everyone my neighbours lets say Claire and Dan have recently split up there late 30's always pleasant but since they split claires been a bit more friendly popping over having a beer and a good chat but there seems to be a spark but nothings happened no the dilemma next time she pops over do I try it on shes proper fit and prob end up having to bash fuck out her ex or do I swerve it for the piece and quiet

“Bash fuck out of her”. You charmer! "

No, he means bash the fuck out of the ex partner, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When women are friendly it ALWAYS means they want the man to shag them. There is no other possible explanation.

"

... I know you were joking but this is in fact an TRUE .. ALWAYS ... and if you follow that rule, you will be 100% correct like 8 times out of 10 ... and I like those odds !

.. bcos platonic relationships ( as far as most MEN are concerned ) do NOT exist. And you heard the OP - she's proper fit ( as fuck) !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When women are friendly it ALWAYS means they want the man to shag them. There is no other possible explanation.

... I know you were joking but this is in fact an TRUE .. ALWAYS ... and if you follow that rule, you will be 100% correct like 8 times out of 10 ... and I like those odds !

.. bcos platonic relationships ( as far as most MEN are concerned ) do NOT exist. And you heard the OP - she's proper fit ( as fuck) !

"

What do you call the other two encounters?

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village


"Are you sure she is keen? I think men (including me!) have a tendency to see women who are being friendly as being interested... says he who has ballsed up friendships with women by this error!!"

This is true. And also; I don’t know how recent the break up was, but women are generally vulnerable following a break up (obviously depending on circumstances etc)... she may not know what she really wants. So I’d be led by her if I was you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call the other two encounters?"

Exceptions to the rule ...

Unlucky ...

Cross-signals ...

But if you don't ask ( or test ) you will NEVER know ... and that's the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were they married? How long had they been together? Does he still live there?

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

Play it slow and tread carefully, she may well be coming to you as a friend and support.

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"Were they married? How long had they been together? Does he still live there? "

Not married not living there and were together quite a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought that she may be flirty to then say to her ex Well at least so n so wants me etc even if you do fuck each other it could be just to get back at the ex,so she can rub his nose in it.

Tread carefully with this one

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"Have you thought that she may be flirty to then say to her ex Well at least so n so wants me etc even if you do fuck each other it could be just to get back at the ex,so she can rub his nose in it.

Tread carefully with this one "

Wise words x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were they married? How long had they been together? Does he still live there?

Not married not living there and were together quite a while "

I'd leave alone. Let's say you fuck a few times and then she wants more or wants to continue and you don't. You live next door - not like you can really avoid each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't shit on your own door step!

This "

What they said^ always.....

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Stay friends offer her support and see how it goes. You might be bluballed but end up with a good friend and neighbour.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Put the moves on both of them, then if Dan complains, you can tell him he had his shot with you. "

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