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Totally freaked out !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surley this cant be right - met a guy few weeks ago with hubby - we had great fun - lots of messages inbetween and planning another meet - this week .

Now as already stated to him and our friends on here we only do evenings - together- so beig at home today as my daughter has tonsillitus and my hubby is off too - we were completley freaked out when he was just knocking at our door like 10 mins ago hubby answered - thank god he as here-and the guy just siad just checking everything is ok and started to try and come in my hubby being the true gent that he is said - evevrything fine mate and sent him on his way - now i am home alot on my own and this has made me feel really uncomfortable - I would never turn up at someones house uninvited - we are gobsmacked and not happy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost for words!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

For me that would be totally unacceptable behaviour and far beyond my comfortable limits from someone that id only met once

Im not surprised you're not happy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG! thats totally unacceptable behaviour!

Similar has happened to me, a guy I met on another site worked near my home, so he just called in one day as he was passing! My mother was round! I was very polite at the door in hearing range of my mother, walked him to his car and told him in no uncertain terms to never visit or contact me again, he had crossed the line

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

terrible... sadly that is one of the risks with accommodating

all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shocking behaviour

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

i have had the same thing happen here after a meet with Sir and i was home alone one evening and somne guy turned up who we had turned down as he had wasted our time after getting our address. We now dont do meets at home until we know the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell! I would be freaked out too. I'm so glad I don't accomidate so noone really knows where I live. I hope he doesn't keep turning up especially with your daughter there poorly. X

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

Bang out of order that is sooo crossing a line, and it sort of reinforces why we dont accomodate, we have two kids and would never want this to happen. Hope thats an end of it anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yer bloody tosser have blocked and i wont be accomadating again - thanks for replys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yer bloody tosser have blocked and i wont be accomadating again - thanks for replys xx"
I hope you sent him a message first expressing your disgust at his actions!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

thats not right, well out of order x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should mail telling him its not on ........... him just turning up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me that would be totally unacceptable behaviour and far beyond my comfortable limits from someone that id only met once

Im not surprised you're not happy about it"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just goes to show the total lack of respect some people have. Since ive moved ive decided not to accom, think its safest, also dont even tell them the area i live in......... they dont need to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yer bloody tosser have blocked and i wont be accomadating again - thanks for replys xx"

well thats a shame...proof that one person can change ur play.but very understandable

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Maybe you should mail telling him its not on ........... him just turning up ."

he was told where to get off, no more communication required and the block button is the answer.

he was probably chancing his arm and hoped to get his leg over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope he gets the message that what he did was beyond normal but blocking him may be feeding fuel to the fire.

I'd message him, or better still ring him up, and tell him in no uncertain terms that what he did made you feel very uncomfortable and you don't wish to meet him again if that's what he thinks is acceptable. You meet people on your terms, not theirs.

Then block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is way to creepy

I would have punched him!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some strange people about, to be doing that!

I always meet men at my house, only i have given my address to people who i have then decided not to meet because they werent suitable.

Most men i think are ok, but i lock my door if i am on my own and busy doing something, just to be on the safe side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this OP, its absolutely disgusting behaviour.

I don't know whether you had been casually chatting and had mentioned that you were both at home, but if so, for him to take general chit chat as an invitation to come round is disgraceful.

I wouldn't have anyone in my home for this reason. My home is my real life and I don't mix the two, but you'd expect that people on an adult site would act in an adult way.

At least you were both at home, I would imagine that some guys may chance and call on a woman they'd met previously when they fancied a quick shag, these kind of people are the lowest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you should mail telling him its not on ........... him just turning up .

he was told where to get off, no more communication required and the block button is the answer.

he was probably chancing his arm and hoped to get his leg over

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I am sure thats what he was doing for thinking he may get sex....... but i would still mail telling him as could do it again if just blocked asking why .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report him to admin aswell. Not sure what they can do but you never know. We had this from the f half of a couple we had met. She was told that it was out of order

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did message him

after telling him totally unacceptable and me feel

Uncomfortable in my own home then blocked him - he has my hubby's mobile and keeps texing him telling him how sorry he is and that he knows he overstepped the line - but we can't trust him now so game over fir us as far as he is concerned - would never invite anyone to mine with my kids here - complete idiot

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