FabSwingers.com forum: Do you factor in height

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you look at profiles, is it important to you, or does height not really matter in a partner /meet.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes I do. It's not completely set in stone, and if I like everything else about someone I can go with it, but tall men are definitely what I prefer. Height is part of my overall attraction to somebody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like them to be taller than me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes it does matter - I prefer men over 5ft 8 at least. I almost always check out height

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Very much so to me. I love men who are a good few inches taller than me.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Everyone is taller than me, but some can be too tall and from past experience it can feel very odd when out and about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more attracted to a man who is taller than me. I am 6'1 when wearing stilettos and I like that I am at eye level or shorter than a guy.

Although this isn't a total deal breaker as I have previously had a fb for a few years who was shorter than me, and he enjoyed that I was taller than him.

Her x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"When you look at profiles, is it important to you, or does height not really matter in a partner /meet.

Yes very important to me

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Yup, says so on my profile.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

nope

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'd be lying if I said no. They have to be taller than me when I've got heels on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, Chewie has an aversion to short men (in addition to her refusal to entertain even the mildly hirsute)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really important. 5'10" is my minimum (I have to consider how tall I am in heels)

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Yes, it's a significant consideration to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do. It's not completely set in stone, and if I like everything else about someone I can go with it, but tall men are definitely what I prefer. Height is part of my overall attraction to somebody. "

Be careful what you wish for, Chewie wanted a tall man and now has a brood of Children who are taller than her before they hit high school

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By *hegreyMan
over a year ago

Ripon

I don't find it's an issue but then I'm 6.1,i suspect it's more woman than men who find it important

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not something I consider personally, but that may be a men vs women thing as typically men are taller than women so height isn't necessarily a factor.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. No. Kind of.

I tend to like shorter women, but to me it's not a deal breaker to someone's sexiness if they are not short.

If she's hot and tall, she's still hot.

Even if tall is not what I would enter into the weird science 80s movie machine.

So I see being short as just a nice bonus.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Not with women. With men (if I was looking for them), yes it would be a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t. I’ve been with women much shorter than me, a similar height and a few inches taller. Had a great time with all of them from my perspective.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Hubby is smaller than me so a guy the same as me or taller is a nice change for me ..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes always.

It matters

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope. I’ve been with fella’s from 5ft 5 upwards.

As long as i find them physically attractive then i’m not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The myth that size isn't important explodes.

..... and yea,there was a great nashing of teath and the temple whores gave refunds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afraid so for me, I prefer tall men.

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back

Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.

The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.

And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no, like I like a guy to be taller ... but it’s also not hard to be taller than me

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Yes, I prefer guys 5'11" plus. I have met shorter guys than this but my preference is taller.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"When you look at profiles, is it important to you, or does height not really matter in a partner /meet.

First thing I look for.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back

What if you don’t have sex horizontal on your back? Then it matters. Quite a lot, actually.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When you look at profiles, is it important to you, or does height not really matter in a partner /meet.

In doesn't matter to me, but i know many taller ladies prefer tall guys.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back

Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.

The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.

And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above

A common misconception that the height in itself is important when shagging.

I'm my head I'd know you are short, short men have a negative effect on my desire for them.

We are NOT all the same size laying down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly yes! I'm 5'8 so on here I prefer men to be at least 5'10.

However, in real life I have found men who are 5'8/5'9 attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as most are shorter than me anyway. Be novel to see someone closer to my height - cut down on the neck ache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am only 5ft but I do prefer males 6ft plus as I enjoy being thrown about during sex

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

As a rule I prefer a man taller than me, but I do like a rule breaker as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above

I really am 6'2

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back

Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.

The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.

And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above

A common misconception that the height in itself is important when shagging.

I'm my head I'd know you are short, short men have a negative effect on my desire for them.

We are NOT all the same size laying down."

That's not misconception....that's your personal perception. Which of course you are entitled to

With boots on which I wear pretty much without exception...most people perceive me to be 6ft.

But that only because their concept of height is so out of whack with real measurements.

I'm all about undersell and overdeliver so I just take their compliment and move to something my perception of desire ranks higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love em short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height doesn't matter that much to me but I do have a bit if a soft spot for shorter guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I prefer taller than me, I like to reach up to kiss but this happens rarely!

And it does make a difference having sex, for example genital alignment during a 69 or doggy, or standing are all affected.

Its not a deal-breaker, but it Is a strong factor x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am only 5ft but I do prefer males 6ft plus as I enjoy being thrown about during sex

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Duly noted, and put in my notes,

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

A lot of you are shortist. Short lives matter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too right, love a 5 foot woman, something to throw around the bedroom

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

It matters only indirectly.

I am not very tall, so I will most likely not make it on the shortlist of a number of the ladies here.

And as much as I like, talking to a significant taller lady feels strange when all I can see are here breasts. But that difference is no longer important once we go horizontal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 6'1 I don't usually have any drama with height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 6'1 I don't usually have any drama with height"

At least I'm 1inch bigger than someone

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

A guys height is the first thing I look at ,if he's below 5'10 I usually hastily click out his profile and don't even look at any pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I prefer taller than me, I like to reach up to kiss but this happens rarely!

And it does make a difference having sex, for example genital alignment during a 69 or doggy, or standing are all affected.

Its not a deal-breaker, but it Is a strong factor x"

You can reach up to kiss md anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 6'1 I don't usually have any drama with height

At least I'm 1inch bigger than someone

Ahh but where exactly is that inch?

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Not necessarily it’s more height to weight ratio I don’t like tall and skinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 6'1 I don't usually have any drama with height

At least I'm 1inch bigger than someone

Ahh but where exactly is that inch?

That would be telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's shouldn't in theory because I'm quite normal/tallish myself, but in reality it's very important for some weird reason.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must be between 5'7" and 6'1".

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

As long as I am not taller than the man when I wear heels I'm happy.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yep height matters even though I'm a short ass.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I always forget to look at height on people’s profiles

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Definitely a factor - I could like someone but if short then it's a no .

Shallow? Yes

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

Always check - it is very important. I like a guy to be around 5’11 and above due to my height in heels.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Not really, after I put on my 6 inch heels I tend to tower above most people.

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By *uper SaiyanMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well god damn - I want a refund on my membership. We not all ewoks, even Snow White got with 7 dwarves.

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

I'm very short for a guy

At a conservative estimate I'd say my height means at least 75% of females or couples on here would automatically click the delete button

It bothered me when I was a youngster but now I don't really worry about it

It's just a fact of life that attraction is almost always physical first, and if you don't pass that test no manner of other positive attributes would make you attractive

Happy with my lot in life though....if you can't accept yourself for what you are you will never be happy in the one life that you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very.. If they are not taller than me by 3-4" i would not even consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very short for a guy

At a conservative estimate I'd say my height means at least 75% of females or couples on here would automatically click the delete button

It bothered me when I was a youngster but now I don't really worry about it

It's just a fact of life that attraction is almost always physical first, and if you don't pass that test no manner of other positive attributes would make you attractive

Happy with my lot in life though....if you can't accept yourself for what you are you will never be happy in the one life that you have"

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We never even look at the height on a profile as it don’t both us at all ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look and it plays a small factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally find shorter women more attractive but it's not a deal breaker if I'm attracted to you. What a couple of inches between friends?

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"When you look at profiles, is it important to you, or does height not really matter in a partner /meet.

Yes, although a 3.5 foot woman with no teeth has advantages

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I always forget to look at height on people’s profiles

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so we are in with a chance then busty..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does hinder me ......... and I would consider myself exactly that short, but it seems 5’10 plus is more desirable

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back

Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.

The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.

And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above

A common misconception that the height in itself is important when shagging.

I'm my head I'd know you are short, short men have a negative effect on my desire for them.

We are NOT all the same size laying down.

That's not misconception....that's your personal perception. Which of course you are entitled to

With boots on which I wear pretty much without exception...most people perceive me to be 6ft.

But that only because their concept of height is so out of whack with real measurements.

I'm all about undersell and overdeliver so I just take their compliment and move to something my perception of desire ranks higher."

The only people I ever hear quote 'we are all the same size laying down' are men because to the vast majority of them, it doesn't matter and as you can see here to women, especially the tall ones, it does so to dismiss our desires by stating that speaks volumes.

If I got naked with a man who deceived me with his height in someway, he would be gone. Short men have a hugely negative impact on my libido.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Did i mention i like short men.

Just throwing that out there.........

Again.

Anyone?

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Did i mention i like short men.

Just throwing that out there.........

Again.

Anyone?

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hello..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Doesn't matter to me.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I always forget to look at height on people’s profiles

so we are in with a chance then busty..

Of course

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Not at all.

I find it odd that most women replying are saying it's important, and most men are saying it's not important.

I wonder what it is that makes it so important for women.

Why does a man need to be taller than you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issue to me. Just as long as they are breathing, it's all good

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

I'm a short arse but just make the most of it, I know I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea but fuck it there's plenty of people out there and what isn't right for someone could be perfect for someone else.

People stop growing when they reach their full potential, some just take longer than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It’s the first thing I look at on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 ft 5 tall enough for you all?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"6 ft 5 tall enough for you all?

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it depends if you look in proportion as lots don't like tall skinny blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the time, yes.

however exceptions are often made

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

All the time. Yes.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Doesn't make much difference to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he has to be taller than me definitely

. Shouldn't be hard to do been a short arse, but i do like a good few inches taller...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are taller than me, I like tall men it’s not something I look at first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Absolutely.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm in the taller section of most people's thoughts. I always look at people's heights as I do prefer shorter ladles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 5ft 11...and a half. So height is really important to me when looking for a man. Don’t want to feel like a giant. I generally go for guys 6ft 2 and over. I find taller women attractive too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to look actually before meeting, for a one off I wouldnt be overly bothered. If I am going to fall in love with you, I'd rather you were taller.

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