FabSwingers.com forum: what would you wear?

By *ubble-squeak69 OP Couple
over a year ago

england

hey guys and girls, what do people wear on their first social meet? Just a curious question I have,

Pub/bar/club possibilities,

And what would you expect the other person/s to be wearing?

(Just a random question)

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Dress and heels. Not revealing just smart and sexy.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Jeans, crisp white shirt, brown leather shoes, creed aftershave and a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would wear what I usually wear - jeans, t-shirt (maybe a linen shirt), boots. I wouldn't expect dressed up - just for someone to wear what they were comfortable wearing to be as relaxed as possible.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Jeans and a top. With my trusty cagoule in case it rains

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Our social meets have been for a coffee or drink in a local pub. So essentially what we'd normally wear to these kind of places

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By *ubble-squeak69 OP Couple
over a year ago

england

so smart and sexy would be the go to option,

But is theres such a thing as overdressed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in one PVC cat suit and 6" glass bottomed fuck me boots. Normally teamed up with a nice hat of sorts. Or if it was a pub I'd leave the hat in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans and a top. With my trusty cagoule in case it rains

Grab your kagoule you've pulled

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends where the first social meet is......if its just a coffee then I dress accordingly

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"so smart and sexy would be the go to option,

But is theres such a thing as overdressed ? "

No definitely not, wear what you are comfortable with and you'll be fine

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Tux, bow-tie, smart shoes, white shirt...we will get some funny looks in Costa.

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

shirt, smart jeans possibly a waistcoat. and a dab of some nice on my face.

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By *ubble-squeak69 OP Couple
over a year ago

england

Mmmm, drink in a pub/club and see where the night takes us i guess for the first social

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Smart casual, dress and heels for me, trousers and shirt for Mr N. I would expect the other person /people to be clean and well groomed and to have paid us the compliment of having made an effort.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

A dress flats more than likely so I don’t fall over

and a smile

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Birthday Suit

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By *eivers101Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Jeans, nice shirt/top and smart shoes/boots, definitely no sportswear or trainers.....just what we'd wear for coffee/drinks in vanilla world really x

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

It depends where, when and with who. I’ve had socials straight from work wearing jeans and a leather jacket, and ones where I’ve worn a suit. Hopefully, by the time I hit a first face-to-face I know enough about who I’m meeting to know which is most appropriate.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We always say, whatever you feel comfortable wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I feel comfortable in

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By *ubble-squeak69 OP Couple
over a year ago

england

One for the ladies! What do you wear underneath the cloths, I'm not going expecting something obviously but don't want to be caught short if something did progress as such there's nothing worse then being comfortable in normal panties and a sports bra /normal bra

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Jeans and a top. With my trusty cagoule in case it rains

Grab your kagoule you've pulled

Wahey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to dress up so a dress and heels with either a sexy bra and panties or a basque underneath with stockings or hold ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something smart and comfortable, for both parties

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"One for the ladies! What do you wear underneath the cloths, I'm not going expecting something obviously but don't want to be caught short if something did progress as such there's nothing worse then being comfortable in normal panties and a sports bra /normal bra

I normally put on one of my sexy bra/knickers sets on. Our last social i gave a quick flash there were peekaboo knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans and a top. With my trusty cagoule in case it rains

Grab your kagoule you've pulled

Wahey!

Are you wearing wellies as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a red bow ! I do get some funny looks though walking down the high street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where I'm going but I love my dresses so a pub/bar would normally be a dress and heels, a coffee shop would be a casual dress and flats. I usually put a nice matching set of underwear on because it makes me feel good rather than because I'm expecting it to go anywhere further at that time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a red bow ! I do get some funny looks though walking down the high street

I bet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually jeans or chinos with a shirt

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Whatever I feel comfortable in and suits what we are going to be doing. Same goes for the other individual, I’m meeting the person not their clothes

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Tux, bow-tie, smart shoes, white shirt...we will get some funny looks in Costa.

Yeah you would but I’d sure as hell love to be seen with you in that case!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

My shell suit and mullet

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

Depends on my mood, the conversations we’ve had or if I’m following instructions.

Sometimes I will wear a nice bra set, sometimes stockings or hold/ups for that little flash and sometimes nothing at all underneath ... always a nice surprise

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Depends on my mood, the conversations we’ve had or if I’m following instructions.

Sometimes I will wear a nice bra set, sometimes stockings or hold/ups for that little flash and sometimes nothing at all underneath ... always a nice surprise

Oh that little flash sounds very nice right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A satin shirt in black with featured lace ruffles on the cuffs and neckline. Turn up on a space hopper to impress your date further.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

Good old little black dress for me xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Jeans and a top. With my trusty cagoule in case it rains

Grab your kagoule you've pulled

Wahey!

Are you wearing wellies as well?

you know my wardrobe well!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

depends on my mood, the location of the social and just how into them I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first social I wore a dress and boots, but no knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeans, heels and a nice top. Nothing too full on, smart casual and comfortable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Or I might wear the outfit in our latest picture if it was in Starbucks or Costa. I like to blend in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i normally do a social after work so take me as u find me.

Always worked out

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"so smart and sexy would be the go to option,

But is theres such a thing as overdressed ? "

I think there is such a thing as being over dressed. For me it all depends where and what the meet is...but socially, I'll always go smart casual...with a hint of sexiness...at least I hope.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

Depends on my mood, the conversations we’ve had or if I’m following instructions.

Sometimes I will wear a nice bra set, sometimes stockings or hold/ups for that little flash and sometimes nothing at all underneath ... always a nice surprise

Oh that little flash sounds very nice right now

Doesn’t it!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

And as for what I’d like the lady to wear, pencil skirt, fitted top, black underwear and hold ups/stockings... just in case anyone was wondering

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"hey guys and girls, what do people wear on their first social meet? Just a curious question I have,

Pub/bar/club possibilities,

And what would you expect the other person/s to be wearing?

(Just a random question)

Casual clothes. Not too smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face mask. It just seems the norm these days. Maybe with heels ??

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"And as for what I’d like the lady to wear, pencil skirt, fitted top, black underwear and hold ups/stockings... just in case anyone was wondering

I wasn’t

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"And as for what I’d like the lady to wear, pencil skirt, fitted top, black underwear and hold ups/stockings... just in case anyone was wondering

Sounds good

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By *ubble-squeak69 OP Couple
over a year ago

england

I think I know what I'm going to go with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans or chinos, dark colored shirt or T shirt for male and heels and a nice dress for me, depends where we are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I feel comfortable in.

Choice of clothes would depend on the venue though. Or type of activity.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

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By *somemoresomeCouple
over a year ago

south east

Always a little dress and heels xx

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I tend to wear smart casual clothes and would expect the other person to be wearing similar, as long as they’re clean and tidy is the main thing.

I also wear designer perfume. I really like it when the other person smells divine!

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wore jogging bottoms for our first meeting (it was in our own home though) and the second time I wore like a shirt dress for the pub. That way it sort of helps because if I rocked up in tiny skirt fishnets and low cut top I think it would put pressure on whoever I was meeting to think I was up for it and seeking it.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Whatever I felt comfortable, confident and sexy wearing, something that shows the figure without being to full on. Never really have any expectations on what others wear as long as they look smart.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"hey guys and girls, what do people wear on their first social meet? Just a curious question I have,

Pub/bar/club possibilities,

And what would you expect the other person/s to be wearing?

(Just a random question)

Maybe black tie, or if I was slumming it a three-piece suit with my pocket watch.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"hey guys and girls, what do people wear on their first social meet? Just a curious question I have,

Pub/bar/club possibilities,

And what would you expect the other person/s to be wearing?

(Just a random question)

We always make an effort. For example, Caroline often wears a short skirt & corset, Dave a nice shirt & kilt.

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"And as for what I’d like the lady to wear, pencil skirt, fitted top, black underwear and hold ups/stockings... just in case anyone was wondering

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Depends on the time and the place.

I wear what I’d wear if I was to going on a date. I’m sure it would be appreciated if you put some effort on and I’d expect the same

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Depends on the time and the place.

I wear what I’d wear if I was to going on a date. I’m sure it would be appreciated if you put some effort on and I’d expect the same

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I would usually wear a nice fitted dress, sexy but tasteful,and heels. Mr would wear smart jeans, dress shirt and shoes.

We would be disappointed if the other people turned up in tracksuits/jogging bottoms and trainers.

A little effort can go a long way.

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

Samrt but casual for me. Jeans and and a shirt, clean shaven and smelling nice - first impressions after all

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By *somemoresomeCouple
over a year ago

south east

"I would usually wear a nice fitted dress, sexy but tasteful,and heels. Mr would wear smart jeans, dress shirt and shoes.

We would be disappointed if the other people turned up in tracksuits/jogging bottoms and trainers.

A little effort can go a long way."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was just a social with someone new more than likely just a pair of jeans and a tshirt. Social with someone I knew, possibly something more accesible like a skirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual. Maybe something a bit teasing without going overboard. Certainly not shorts with a t-shirt that seen 150 washes and flipflops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gimp mask and arseless chap's

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"And as for what I’d like the lady to wear, pencil skirt, fitted top, black underwear and hold ups/stockings... just in case anyone was wondering

I wasn’t

Irish C**t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gimp mask and arseless chap's

Any mustard in the jap's eye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would usually wear a nice fitted dress, sexy but tasteful,and heels. Mr would wear smart jeans, dress shirt and shoes.

We would be disappointed if the other people turned up in tracksuits/jogging bottoms and trainers.

A little effort can go a long way."

I had a meet where he asked me to to dress up for him... little black dress and the whole shebang lingerie selection. He turned up in stinking old trainers, stained joggers and a t-shirt full of holes. I told him to sling his hook fucking cheek of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choices choices!!!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"And as for what I’d like the lady to wear, pencil skirt, fitted top, black underwear and hold ups/stockings... just in case anyone was wondering

I wasn’t

Irish C**t

Welsh C**t

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Gimp mask and arseless chap's

That sounds perfect Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, go with what you feel comfortable in, look good and sexy, but don’t stress so much over it... I’m sure you will impress them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My usual attire.

50s dress with corset and stockings underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My usual attire.

50s dress with corset and stockings underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leather pencil skirt and seamed stockings usually does the trick

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I hope I was suitably turned out for mine today

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

Due to covid-19 I would be wearing a full on hazmat suit complete with a built in respiration device and holster for a bottle of antibac, failing that just a dickie bow and a smile, I'm sure both would raise a few eyebrows

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"Tux, bow-tie, smart shoes, white shirt...we will get some funny looks in Costa.

Yeah you would but I’d sure as hell love to be seen with you in that case! "

*Gets tux out*

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"My usual attire.

50s dress with corset and stockings underneath

Let me know when it happens I want to watch from the corner

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