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'Self Love' challenge part 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just checked my last thread and saw it was full up, so here is a part two for anyone who missed out and wants to join in.

This is a thread about embracing those parts of you that you are not comfortable with. I want you all to know you are perfect just as you are and those real parts of your body are nothing to be ashamed of.

So, if you are feeling brave share a photo with the world of Fab and let us all appreciate your beauty!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Was such a lovely thread LBC, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just caught up on a few posts from the last thread and for those that still have their pictures up, you look amazing. I know a few have taken them down but I'd love to see them if you feel comfortable enough to share them again.

And if anyone feels like they are too hideous to share a photo I will tell you now that you are good enough and more than your body.

I'm going to try from now on to make more of an effort to select the photos I normally wouldn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My avatar is my least favourite photo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My avatar is my least favourite photo."

I'm looking for a reason as to why that's your least favourite and I can't find one Jimbo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile picture is my most honest photo of me. It shows what I really look like....no fancy angles or sucking my tummy in.

I have accepted that this is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got dressed today ..I’ll get naked again for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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This thread is so lovely, I'll try and take a photo for it. Brilliant idea LBC x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk.... "

Shjjfhkkjgfgkjgg I don't like my typing, it's shameful at times....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk.... "

If they were truly uncomfortable they wouldn’t show the bits they didn’t like, no ones telling anyone to do anything, if people want to they can, if they don’t they won’t, don’t over analyse what maybe a good thing for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is my mum tum, my stretch marks are awful and I hate them but I try to block them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

If they were truly uncomfortable they wouldn’t show the bits they didn’t like, no ones telling anyone to do anything, if people want to they can, if they don’t they won’t, don’t over analyse what maybe a good thing for some people. "

See Meli^

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk.... "


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk.... "

It's not necessarily the want to like certain bits of yourself though. It's about body acceptance and to me those are two different things.

Plus it's far too easy on here to think person x has a perfect body and must have loads of body confidence, which the threads have shown isn't true. And nobody has messaged me saying put that ugly stomach away. Which kinda just emphasizes we are our own worst enemies sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

It's not necessarily the want to like certain bits of yourself though. It's about body acceptance and to me those are two different things.

Plus it's far too easy on here to think person x has a perfect body and must have loads of body confidence, which the threads have shown isn't true. And nobody has messaged me saying put that ugly stomach away. Which kinda just emphasizes we are our own worst enemies sometimes.

"

I was gonna take a pic and all I could think to do was push my gut out, but then I'd be looking for something that's not there.... Maybe I feel left out, maybe I should crack open my head and take a pic of my mind instead, based upon some of the shit I get on fab....?

Bodies ar vessels for people, it's simple really in my mind anyway....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Still proudly being honest and letting it all hang out there - was a lovely and positive first thread, hope it manages to stay the same way for round two.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

It's not necessarily the want to like certain bits of yourself though. It's about body acceptance and to me those are two different things.

Plus it's far too easy on here to think person x has a perfect body and must have loads of body confidence, which the threads have shown isn't true. And nobody has messaged me saying put that ugly stomach away. Which kinda just emphasizes we are our own worst enemies sometimes.

I was gonna take a pic and all I could think to do was push my gut out, but then I'd be looking for something that's not there.... Maybe I feel left out, maybe I should crack open my head and take a pic of my mind instead, based upon some of the shit I get on fab....?

Bodies ar vessels for people, it's simple really in my mind anyway.... "

I'm so glad that you feel like that Nippy. And I think that's the kinda the point, there's fuck all wrong with my body except for what my mind tells me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a couple public. Battling to control the centre ground!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, good. I took a photo, but the thread had closed!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I carry too much weight in the classic man location, belly, cake belly more than a beer belly, not happy with it, but am working on changing what I don't like. Also ain't showing it.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

This is a lovely thread. I have always hated my thighs, they have always been large and nothing I do will change that, so now at 43 I am embracing them, I may have some cellulite but that’s life. I try to keep in shape they are what they are.

Photo I least like in avatar

To everyone on this thread you are all beautiful.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a brilliant open and honest thread . Well done LBC .

We are all wonderful, amazing , individuals . We make this forum a funfriendsly place .

All the pictures are amazing and I'm so glad I'm part of our crazy little world x

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By *arleyfatboy2019Couple
over a year ago

Devon

She has been radicalised during her time with IS . 5 years of indoctrination and we’re going to bring her back ....

what will the do gooders and hand ringers say when she commits an atrocity in the name of Islam or brainwashes the next vulnerable person she meets . Just remember this thing has been trained and brainwashed. In my opinion it is too dangerous to bring her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She has been radicalised during her time with IS . 5 years of indoctrination and we’re going to bring her back ....

what will the do gooders and hand ringers say when she commits an atrocity in the name of Islam or brainwashes the next vulnerable person she meets . Just remember this thing has been trained and brainwashed. In my opinion it is too dangerous to bring her back. "

Right thread...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She has been radicalised during her time with IS . 5 years of indoctrination and we’re going to bring her back ....

what will the do gooders and hand ringers say when she commits an atrocity in the name of Islam or brainwashes the next vulnerable person she meets . Just remember this thing has been trained and brainwashed. In my opinion it is too dangerous to bring her back. "

But harsh on LBC but I take your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

It's not necessarily the want to like certain bits of yourself though. It's about body acceptance and to me those are two different things.

Plus it's far too easy on here to think person x has a perfect body and must have loads of body confidence, which the threads have shown isn't true. And nobody has messaged me saying put that ugly stomach away. Which kinda just emphasizes we are our own worst enemies sometimes.

I was gonna take a pic and all I could think to do was push my gut out, but then I'd be looking for something that's not there.... Maybe I feel left out, maybe I should crack open my head and take a pic of my mind instead, based upon some of the shit I get on fab....?

Bodies ar vessels for people, it's simple really in my mind anyway....

I'm so glad that you feel like that Nippy. And I think that's the kinda the point, there's fuck all wrong with my body except for what my mind tells me. "

So many levels to any reply I could give and I have a meeting at three so I'll bugger off now and leave you with it. However, what I do see in reality here is ppl who actually already ARE confident and happy and who would generally be termed beautiful showing their bits and receiving lots of praise, while those who aren't so confident sink further, as so often happens on the forum......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk.... "

Hmm, see I genuinely do think threads like this and seeing more parts of real bodies everywhere does make a difference to how you view yourself. I'm not saying my thread is going to cure people and suddenly they will love the bits they hate, but one tiny step at a time and seeing so much positivity for normal parts of our bodies that people are often shamed for is only a good thing.

I know in ways I have started to accept myself more since unfollowing unrealistic body image accounts and starting to follow more accounts that embrace the parts society looks down on.

I've had several messages from people because of this thread saying they do feel better for just getting their bits out they usually hide away.

My body definitely plays a part in my happiness. And if I can learn to love and accept my body and show the 'imperfect' bits that will make my mind happier and healthier.

If you need to take a photo and stick your gut out to show Fab something you're not comfortable with then it sounds to me like you're very fortunate.

I hope that makes sense. X

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"She has been radicalised during her time with IS . 5 years of indoctrination and we’re going to bring her back ....

what will the do gooders and hand ringers say when she commits an atrocity in the name of Islam or brainwashes the next vulnerable person she meets . Just remember this thing has been trained and brainwashed. In my opinion it is too dangerous to bring her back.

But harsh on LBC but I take your point. "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Mine is still up.... it’s been insightful, it has received 4-5 times more fabs than my other pics this last month.

What we always seem to dislike or a flaw, other people don’t necessarily see.

For a long time I’ve been this is me and it is what it is, I can’t grow any taller so no matter my size I’ll always look dumpy. If people don’t like it that is there problem not mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still proudly being honest and letting it all hang out there - was a lovely and positive first thread, hope it manages to stay the same way for round two."

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've made a couple public. Battling to control the centre ground! "

Oh very nice photos! you've got a fantastic bum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I carry too much weight in the classic man location, belly, cake belly more than a beer belly, not happy with it, but am working on changing what I don't like. Also ain't showing it. "

You're a man after my own heart! A cake belly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a lovely thread. I have always hated my thighs, they have always been large and nothing I do will change that, so now at 43 I am embracing them, I may have some cellulite but that’s life. I try to keep in shape they are what they are.

Photo I least like in avatar

To everyone on this thread you are all beautiful.

J x

"

You look amazing and you have great legs!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

This is my offering. Tubby torso with skinny arse and legs

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I carry too much weight in the classic man location, belly, cake belly more than a beer belly, not happy with it, but am working on changing what I don't like. Also ain't showing it.

You're a man after my own heart! A cake belly "

Think I'll fire up the oven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made a couple public. Battling to control the centre ground!

Oh very nice photos! you've got a fantastic bum. "

Aw, thank you. You made my day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my photo from part one was removed apparently showing scars isn't allowed on fab...

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"This is a lovely thread. I have always hated my thighs, they have always been large and nothing I do will change that, so now at 43 I am embracing them, I may have some cellulite but that’s life. I try to keep in shape they are what they are.

Photo I least like in avatar

To everyone on this thread you are all beautiful.

J x

You look amazing and you have great legs! "

Thank you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This is a lovely thread. I have always hated my thighs, they have always been large and nothing I do will change that, so now at 43 I am embracing them, I may have some cellulite but that’s life. I try to keep in shape they are what they are.

Photo I least like in avatar

To everyone on this thread you are all beautiful.

J x

"

And here's me deliberately making mine bigger in the gym . They have their bonuses like making your waist look smaller .

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"This is a lovely thread. I have always hated my thighs, they have always been large and nothing I do will change that, so now at 43 I am embracing them, I may have some cellulite but that’s life. I try to keep in shape they are what they are.

Photo I least like in avatar

To everyone on this thread you are all beautiful.

J x

And here's me deliberately making mine bigger in the gym . They have their bonuses like making your waist look smaller . "

Haha that it is a very good point xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"She has been radicalised during her time with IS . 5 years of indoctrination and we’re going to bring her back ....

what will the do gooders and hand ringers say when she commits an atrocity in the name of Islam or brainwashes the next vulnerable person she meets . Just remember this thing has been trained and brainwashed. In my opinion it is too dangerous to bring her back.

But harsh on LBC but I take your point. "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Well my photo from part one was removed apparently showing scars isn't allowed on fab... "

Really that is bizarre as we all have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my photo from part one was removed apparently showing scars isn't allowed on fab...

Really that is bizarre as we all have them "

Yepp =/

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's weird, I always delete pics that show the bits I don't like yet I take a picture deliberately showing them and now I'm looking at it like "that ain't so bad".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well my photo from part one was removed apparently showing scars isn't allowed on fab... "

That's awful! Maybe try to reupload again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's weird, I always delete pics that show the bits I don't like yet I take a picture deliberately showing them and now I'm looking at it like "that ain't so bad". "

You look BANGIN!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my photo from part one was removed apparently showing scars isn't allowed on fab...

That's awful! Maybe try to reupload again? "

I thought about that but I don't want to get a ban if they remove it again =(

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

One issue I've found with trying to accept bits of myself I don't like is that I'm noticing and finding more and more which I don't like.

Thankfully though a few of them I have the power to change if I can turn the negative in to motivation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This time last year I went through a whole journey of re-learning to accept, enjoy and celebrate my body and myself as I am.

I took this photo (now showing as my profile pic for today promoted by this thread) to show my body as it is. When sat down, breasts which slump and droop down, torso and belly which smush and have layers. The process was revealing in terms of vulnerability but them oh so empowering. This is me. No hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's weird, I always delete pics that show the bits I don't like yet I take a picture deliberately showing them and now I'm looking at it like "that ain't so bad". "

Naturally beautiful : )

Not bad at all, there's much beauty in how we all are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One issue I've found with trying to accept bits of myself I don't like is that I'm noticing and finding more and more which I don't like.

Thankfully though a few of them I have the power to change if I can turn the negative in to motivation. "

Hopefully all those bits can be viewed as likeable to you by you. And if the motivation for change brings you joy then that also can be embraced. Be kind to yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk.... "

I get this. No matter who says what it doesn’t change the way I’d feel about it....so I’ll just forget about it as best I can and focus on the rest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for this fabulous thread LBC, I think you are one of the most beautiful people I have ever met.

I don’t like my stomach and chest and have worked hard to get it looking as it does now.

I have also been very aware of my penis size. I have always thought that it was smaller and thinner than average but having read various posts it appears that I have the average penis.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I used to be hairy and fat.

Now I'm hairy and not quite so fat.

Slowly starting to get some body confidence back though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just say that the one who just hid her profile pic is probably one of the most beautiful women here, from the bones out....

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"It's weird, I always delete pics that show the bits I don't like yet I take a picture deliberately showing them and now I'm looking at it like "that ain't so bad". "

Well I'm looking at your pic and thinking..'if only I was 7 years younger'

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"if I can learn to love and accept my body"

Can I also love and accept your body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be hairy and fat.

Now I'm hairy and not quite so fat.

Slowly starting to get some body confidence back though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines my prof pic....for awhile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This time last year I went through a whole journey of re-learning to accept, enjoy and celebrate my body and myself as I am.

I took this photo (now showing as my profile pic for today promoted by this thread) to show my body as it is. When sat down, breasts which slump and droop down, torso and belly which smush and have layers. The process was revealing in terms of vulnerability but them oh so empowering. This is me. No hiding "

I love love love this. I genuinely find that vulnerability so inspiring. You look fantastic!!

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"I got dressed today ..I’ll get naked again for a while "

Fantastic body

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I worry about asking ppl to seek out the bits about themselves they don't like it are uncomfortable with, even if the intent is well placed. They still wont like them tomorrow and they'll still wear big pants etc, they'll just have shown their arse publicly and they'll be thinking "but I've got cracking in tits though". I'd rather celebrate the things that make a person truly happy tbh, body image isn't one of them for me, I'd start with the mind and the thought processes, outlook and values, innit.....

I don't have any bits I'm uncomfortable with, but I do still love you LBC and all your body bits, I just think like a weirdo I guess, idk....

I get this. No matter who says what it doesn’t change the way I’d feel about it....so I’ll just forget about it as best I can and focus on the rest! "

You know yourself better than anyone! And if that's how you feel then you do whatever makes you happiest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for this fabulous thread LBC, I think you are one of the most beautiful people I have ever met.

I don’t like my stomach and chest and have worked hard to get it looking as it does now.

I have also been very aware of my penis size. I have always thought that it was smaller and thinner than average but having read various posts it appears that I have the average penis.

"

Thank you! I've checked out your photos and there is not a fault in site and your penis is absolutely fine. I'm happy to see so many men joining in this challenge too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put my tiger stripes back up.

It kinda felt good to own the only part of me I’ve hated for years. Kinda like a “fuck you” to my body doubts.

I hope it felt the same for a lot of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be hairy and fat.

Now I'm hairy and not quite so fat.

Slowly starting to get some body confidence back though. "

I'm glad to hear it! I love a hairy man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I just say that the one who just hid her profile pic is probably one of the most beautiful women here, from the bones out.... "

Frida? Yeah she's gorgeous and has such a kind soul!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if I can learn to love and accept my body

Can I also love and accept your body? "

I think I know that you already do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mines my prof pic....for awhile"

I'm glad you have shared it with us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put my tiger stripes back up.

It kinda felt good to own the only part of me I’ve hated for years. Kinda like a “fuck you” to my body doubts.

I hope it felt the same for a lot of you "

Now that's what I like to hear! I'm so glad you've gained a little something from sharing that photo. It's amazing.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I used to be hairy and fat.

Now I'm hairy and not quite so fat.

Slowly starting to get some body confidence back though.

I'm glad to hear it! I love a hairy man "

Thank you!

I don't normally hear ladies say that, so that's really brightened my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put my tiger stripes back up.

It kinda felt good to own the only part of me I’ve hated for years. Kinda like a “fuck you” to my body doubts.

I hope it felt the same for a lot of you

Now that's what I like to hear! I'm so glad you've gained a little something from sharing that photo. It's amazing. "

Thank you beautiful lady!!! xx

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

Ive made a couple public always been ashamed of how i look

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Hate my feet, dont know why, just do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've set mine back to Friends Only. Bit wary of leaving my face on Public for too long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing idea. I am not in a photo mood but bumping it because it is worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm uploading a different photo, hopefully this one will be able to stay =)

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

I wish I was brave enough to do this!!

I admire you all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm uploading a different photo, hopefully this one will be able to stay =) "

I hope it wasn't removed again?

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